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Games - 2/10/2008 6:20:35 PM   
Chocodelite4U


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Status: offline 		Just having fun, and your going to give your sub/slave a good azz burning.  What game do you implement just to spice it up?

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RE: Games - 2/10/2008 7:39:33 PM   
julietsierra


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Status: offline 		None... this is an intimate expression of who we are, what we feel for each other and all of that stuff. We're not play games kind of people. It's not about the game. It's about the process.

I recognize that this kind of stuff is fun to a lot of people, it just doesn't float our boat at all.

juliet

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RE: Games - 2/10/2008 8:02:09 PM   
InkedMaster


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Status: offline 		I like using the "dice method", my slave is given a set of dice to roll, her first roll is the impliment used, the tools are numbered 2 thru 12, ie the crop with the leather popper is #4, the heavy flogger is #7, the tire iron #9 and so on, so she determines the impliment by her roll, now the second roll is for the mutiplier of the third roll. So let's say roll #1 is a 2, roll #2 is a 6 and her last roll is a 12...she gets beat with a dead badger 72 times.

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RE: Games - 2/10/2008 8:26:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: julietsierra

None... this is an intimate expression of who we are, what we feel for each other and all of that stuff. We're not play games kind of people. It's not about the game. It's about the process.

I recognize that this kind of stuff is fun to a lot of people, it just doesn't float our boat at all.

juliet


Was that last bit intended to make you sound a tiny bit less self-righteous and condescending? Consider a re-write.

Do imagine that the OP's interactions are not intimate expressions of who he is? Of how he and his partner feel about one another? "All that stuff"? If not then what was your point in placing it as though it were an explanation of your word "None"?

Games are processes to, juli. The same meanings you find in not playing games may be found by someone else precisely in their game play.

How much nicer this place would be if when someone writes in to ask: "What sort of  ______ do you like?" we could all take a vacation from posting in response: "Well that's wonderful for you, dear, but my partner and I float blissfully above that sort of thing."

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RE: Games - 2/10/2008 8:32:11 PM   
Aileen1968


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ORIGINAL: Noah

quote:

ORIGINAL: julietsierra

None... this is an intimate expression of who we are, what we feel for each other and all of that stuff. We're not play games kind of people. It's not about the game. It's about the process.

I recognize that this kind of stuff is fun to a lot of people, it just doesn't float our boat at all.

juliet


Was that last bit intended to make you sound a tiny bit less self-righteous and condescending? Consider a re-write.

Do imagine that the OP's interactions are not intimate expressions of who he is? Of how he and his partner feel about one another? "All that stuff"? If not then what was your point in placing it as though it were an explanation of your word "None"?

Games are processes to, juli. The same meanings you find in not playing games may be found by someone else precisely in their game play.

How much nicer this place would be if when someone writes in to ask: "What sort of  ______ do you like?" we could all take a vacation from posting in response: "Well that's wonderful for you, dear, but my partner and I float blissfully above that sort of thing."



Yeah...what he said.
I love to laugh and I love to laugh while engaging in intimate acts.
Not everything has to be all serious all the time.

Edited because I never answered the OP.
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RE: Games - 2/10/2008 8:57:12 PM   
TracyTaken


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Status: offline 		Nothing like a rousing round of "Name that Implement." 

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RE: Games - 2/10/2008 9:09:12 PM   
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We're not play games kind of people.


Your choice. Your loss.



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RE: Games - 2/10/2008 9:13:34 PM   
TheLaughingDomme


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Status: offline 		Ha! Well, just look at My name and you'll know I'm up for fun! Of course, there's a time for serious discipline, but isn't the TRUE skill in knowing how to balance it well? XO

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RE: Games - 2/10/2008 9:28:56 PM   
celticlord2112


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RE: Games - 2/10/2008 9:39:42 PM   
breatheasone


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Status: offline 		Now THIS is a fun thread...and some awesome ideas...WEG 

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RE: Games - 2/10/2008 9:41:22 PM   
greyangelus


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Status: offline 		'Guess the Setting' on the electroshock box always works.  'Hold on your marbles' is a blast.  '30 seconds find the one with batteries is great (try not to play that one with a sub with a heart condition, don't want the poor thing to have a hear attack scrambling all over the floor).

All time fave?  'Key to the Treasure Hunt'!  ("It IS the key to the greatest treasure know to man!")

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RE: Games - 2/10/2008 9:41:25 PM   
Noah


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ORIGINAL: TheLaughingDomme

Ha! Well, just look at My name and you'll know I'm up for fun! Of course, there's a time for serious discipline, but isn't the TRUE skill in knowing how to balance it well? XO


I dunno.  I kind of like keeping them off balance. Knocking them off balance, etc.

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RE: Games - 2/11/2008 1:09:24 AM   
Chocodelite4U


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Yes it about adding spice to a relationship, and showing that there no ill will.



so read my signature juiletsierra




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RE: Games - 2/11/2008 2:12:50 AM   
julietsierra


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ORIGINAL: Noah

quote:

ORIGINAL: julietsierra

None... this is an intimate expression of who we are, what we feel for each other and all of that stuff. We're not play games kind of people. It's not about the game. It's about the process.

I recognize that this kind of stuff is fun to a lot of people, it just doesn't float our boat at all.

juliet


Was that last bit intended to make you sound a tiny bit less self-righteous and condescending? Consider a re-write.

Do imagine that the OP's interactions are not intimate expressions of who he is? Of how he and his partner feel about one another? "All that stuff"? If not then what was your point in placing it as though it were an explanation of your word "None"?

Games are processes to, juli. The same meanings you find in not playing games may be found by someone else precisely in their game play.

How much nicer this place would be if when someone writes in to ask: "What sort of  ______ do you like?" we could all take a vacation from posting in response: "Well that's wonderful for you, dear, but my partner and I float blissfully above that sort of thing."


Y'know what? So what. We don't use them. I seriously don't know any other way to say that. We simply don't. You don't like it? Tough. I said what I said because that's how we do things, that's how we feel. I don't really care what other people are doing to spice up their relationships. It's all good to me. Saying I understand how other people might isn't said to make myself feel better. It's simply that I understand how other people might. I don't need to consider a rewrite at all.

Thanks for the little spanking though. Next time, check with my Master first, ok?

juliet

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RE: Games - 2/11/2008 2:16:48 AM   
julietsierra


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ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

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ORIGINAL: julietsierra
We're not play games kind of people.


Your choice. Your loss.




It's not a loss. It's simply how we are. I watch other people play and I laugh and I think it's great fun. I think that's great that they can do that. But if it's not me and it's not him, and it's not a part of our relationship.. then fine. We do what makes US happy, not what other people think other people should be doing.

We laugh and we enjoy ourselves. We simply do not engage in the games the OP and others are talking about.  We're simply not game playing people. It's not an attack of those who are. It's simply a statement of what WE are. Why do YOU feel the need to attack what others are - or are not?

juliet

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RE: Games - 2/11/2008 2:23:15 AM   
julietsierra


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ORIGINAL: Chocodelite4U





Yes it about adding spice to a relationship, and showing that there no ill will.



so read my signature juiletsierra





And it's about HOW people add spice to their relationships. We're all different. Some of us do what you're talking about. Some of us don't. I have this strange little idea that when he does what he does to me, there is no rancor - otherwise he wouldn't be doing what he does to me. I don't know why we need to throw dice, draw cards, or all that in order for him to prove that to me. More importantly, he doesn't need to do that in order to prove a thing to me.

And I didn't know that there was a list of things D/s couples are SUPPOSED to do in order to .. I don't know.. be a D/s couple. Could you forward that on to me please? I'd appreciate it. Then I could share it with him and point out all the things he's doing wrong. In fact, I'll go buy some cards and dice this morning so that we'll be better prepared to practice your version of D/s in our lives...even if that way doesn't cut it for us. Wouldn't want to rock that old D/s boat y'know.

The games we do play you'd NEVER want to engage in. Many of you have said so many many times. In fact, many of you are very derisive of the games we play, so tell me again why I'm supposed to be all warm and fuzzy about some dice? And please, let me know, when you consider the games we DO play, just why we would need to now throw dice. The difference between your games and ours is that your games - to you - are fun. To us, in our relationship, they're irritating. To you, our games are vicious and pretty much go for the jugular. To us, they're an expression of intimacy. And since you are in your relationships and I am in mine, wouldn't it seem natural to you that you'd engage in the things that make your relationships work, and I'd engage in the things that make mine work?

I don't know...maybe it's the word "game." We've come to associate that with so much negativity that when someone says they don't play games, we take it to be a negative comment on those who do. However, it's simply a statement that we don't do that. It's not a commentary on those who do - unlike what's been said in response to someone who doesn't.

And which signature should I be reading Choco? The one about discipline? Or the one about taking a shit? Cause if it's the first, we live that way, and if it's the second, why do you feel the need to resort to attacks like that simply cause I don't play your kind of games? Isn't that a bit like claiming it's your ball and if I don't play your game, you're just going to take your ball and go home?


juliet

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RE: Games - 2/11/2008 2:38:48 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TracyTaken

Nothing like a rousing round of "Name that Implement." 


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RE: Games - 2/11/2008 3:10:13 AM   
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It sounds like different folks do different things to bring enrichment and enjoyment into their relationships. Some do light hearted things like "name the implement", some folks do high protocol, strict routines kinda things.... It sounds like it all brings enjoyment and pleasure to the prospective relationships.....and I think thats groovy.


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RE: Games - 2/11/2008 3:14:11 AM   
julietsierra


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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

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It sounds like different folks do different things to bring enrichment and enjoyment into their relationships. Some do light hearted things like "name the implement", some folks do high protocol, strict routines kinda things.... It sounds like it all brings enjoyment and pleasure to the prospective relationships.....and I think thats groovy.



Thanks for understanding breathesasone.

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RE: Games - 2/11/2008 3:15:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: julietsierra

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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

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It sounds like different folks do different things to bring enrichment and enjoyment into their relationships. Some do light hearted things like "name the implement", some folks do high protocol, strict routines kinda things.... It sounds like it all brings enjoyment and pleasure to the prospective relationships.....and I think thats groovy.



Thanks for understanding breathesasone.

juliet




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