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RE: pain slut? how does one tell? - 2/15/2008 3:00:54 PM

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When he is kicking the living dogfuck outta you, do you go.........
'OOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhh!!!!' and get dripping wet right here? ===> ( Y )

PAIN SLUT.

what does it make you if you crawl up his leg, cum on his knee when he does that, and then cry when he stops?

that makes you hot chelle ... *winks*

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RE: pain slut? how does one tell? - 2/15/2008 4:20:38 PM

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Well there's also a difference between being a slut for pain in the sense of getting what turns you on...and being a slut for pain in the sense that most everyone around you would agree.

You can be a slut for pain and your idea of pain is a few spanks.

But what most people mean by painslut is serious long term heavy masochism through multiple sessions on multiple days and still wanting more.

Just something to keep in mind as you use the term.

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RE: pain slut? how does one tell? - 2/15/2008 7:29:32 PM

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That is a really good description LA. Can I ask where you got it, O Queen of Links? (hint hint

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I do identify myself as a pain slut. I have known some subs/bottoms who could take as much pain as I can, but not many. I think there is a fine line of distinction between a submissive who enjoys the pain that her Dominant gives her and the pain slut who actually NEEDS the pain to satisfy something in herself. I need it, crave it, hunger for it, and look for a substitute for S/m when I am without a Top/Dom (think piercings and tats).

I think that is also a pretty good definition of a pain slut, don't you think?

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RE: pain slut? how does one tell? - 2/15/2008 7:55:56 PM

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one tells by the words that are bred here......point is few really know. most just guess they do.

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RE: pain slut? how does one tell? - 2/15/2008 11:23:36 PM

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I need it, crave it, hunger for it, and look for a substitute for S/m when I am without a Top/Dom (think piercings and tats).

I think that is also a pretty good definition of a pain slut, don't you think?

kat

The pain threshold is different for each person, when I think of tats and piercings it does nothing for me I have plenty of tats only 2 truly hurt and piercings which didn't except my hood, the piercer said exhale as I inhaled, damn near almost broke my friends hand I was holding on to, if I would have listened I doubt it would have hurt. My nipples didn't hurt at all, but the orgasm that followed driving home was awesome. I swear nipples are connected to the clit... at least in my case!

When playing with Sir over the holidays he said he would make me cry and beg, well I cried a little and begged a bit but not enough to satisfy him (I am a pretty crappy beggar), for what he did to me. Thinking about it now I should have screamed and threatened to return the favor. All he said was he failed me and will make sure he doesn't do that again *gulp*. Now I am scared *shiver* when he comes home I sense danger without the red flag of course :).

I personally hated that word Painslut until I met Sir. It may be years before I can handle what he can truly give me. As we grow with each other my threshold for pain may/will increase over time. Regardless how much pain I feel, I found once I take the focus off me and what I am feeling and place the focus back on Sir he can push me further along... allowing me when he feels, to slip into subspace.

There are those who are not into heavy play yet can withstand pain from their partner and still not be a painslut, like my friend.

Play safely and allow yourself to be pushed with a trusted partner, it sure has its rewards.

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RE: pain slut? how does one tell? - 2/15/2008 11:40:24 PM

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Good point, sensiia, but when you aren't getting that need met in a kinky sort of way, then it makes a pretty substitute. (By the way, I actually had an orgasm on the piercer's table when he did my hood *giggle*)

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RE: pain slut? how does one tell? - 2/16/2008 12:04:05 AM

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probablyknowme, I keep busy when the desire to be used is needed whether it is sexual or as a masochist. Sir lives 400 miles away and we see each other every two to three week. This time it will be almost 6 weeks since we last saw each other only because he is out of the country for another week.

My need for him is powerful but if I let my desires rule then I am not in control of myself. Sure I can put some crushed red pepper on a clothes pin and attach it to my clit but I for some reason can't inflict pain on myself, unless he suggested it. (I'm glad he doesn't come here anymore)

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RE: pain slut? how does one tell? - 2/16/2008 12:46:40 AM

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To the OP...........

When he is kicking the living dogfuck outta you, do you go.........
'OOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhh!!!!' and get dripping wet right here? ===> ( Y )

PAIN SLUT.

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RE: pain slut? how does one tell? - 2/16/2008 11:18:19 AM

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1 for the hood piercing here, it was just too damned quick..4 for the triangle piercing since he didn't have a clamp big enough to go round the shaft and had to use his fingers to hold it steady, 6 on the way home. Damn that was a good piercing. Lost it when I had several kidney stone lithos in a year and ex who was hubby at the time couldn't bring himself to LOOk at the area to put the ring back..wonder if I can entice Master into doing that piercing again...

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RE: pain slut? how does one tell? - 2/17/2008 10:37:27 AM

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Okay, I have to ask...what is a triangle piercing? (ready to make notes!)

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RE: pain slut? how does one tell? - 2/17/2008 2:26:07 PM

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Well there's also a difference between being a slut for pain in the sense of getting what turns you on...and being a slut for pain in the sense that most everyone around you would agree.

You can be a slut for pain and your idea of pain is a few spanks.

But what most people mean by painslut is serious long term heavy masochism through multiple sessions on multiple days and still wanting more.
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Took over 300 lashes from a bullwhip last Tuesday and could have taken more. Left me on a high for several hours afterwards.
4 days later I saw another whip master, who my late Master used to loan me out to, for more of the same. A painslut, yes but pain from some implements is harder to 'process' even for a painslut/masochist.

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RE: pain slut? how does one tell? - 2/17/2008 2:35:04 PM

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A triangle piercing goes through the labia minora directly behind the shaft of the clitorus and drapes over the front of it if a ring or remains behind if a bar..It constantly rubs along the shaft as you walk or do things and surprise orgasms have been had. Watch out for jeans when driving though...Yeowch!! Damned seams. You can see a triangle pericing here http://www.lanejensen.com/gallery/118251/IMG_7574web.jpg If you or anyone decides to go for this type of pericing please be very careful in teh piercer you choose, to close on the shaft of the clit and the nerves can be severed, to far back and you can pierce the uthrea. Not every woman is suited for this type of piercing as it does require a bit of space. Information can be found here on them: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triangle_piercing or through www.bmezine.com

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RE: pain slut? how does one tell? - 2/17/2008 4:33:00 PM

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I think the definition of a pain slut is different and subjective for everyone. What is a pain slut to one is not to another. You need to talk with your dominant and figure out yourself what your definition of a pain slut is.

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RE: pain slut? how does one tell? - 2/18/2008 9:29:16 AM

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While I think that many who have the tri piercing can be identified as pain sluts, there are many that have it as a ritual for their relationship that identify as painsluts at all.

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RE: pain slut? how does one tell? - 2/18/2008 9:43:17 AM

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When you're butt looks like hamburger meat that's been put through the grinder and you just softly coo like a baby with a grin wider than the cheshire cat... You'll know...

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