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irishdan -> online slaves (2/18/2008 12:44:45 PM)

what are dommes views on online slaves? am new to the scene and just to make it clear this is not an add lol im just wondering if dommes are actually genuilly interested or if most of  you a just into the real thing? 




LaTigresse -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 12:45:38 PM)

Online is totally useless and of no interest to me at all.




DiurnalVampire -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 12:46:50 PM)

Online slavery loses its interest very quickly. There is no actual repercussions for misbehavior, and there is no real benefit to me for spending my time training someone. I have used online training as an interim step when a pet has had to be away fro me for extended times, but it is never the goal. If that is all that is offered then I am not going to be interested or bothered.

DV




AAkasha -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 12:55:25 PM)


I enjoy a variety of types of bdsm "play" -- with real life being the absolute best, of course, and something I could never give up.  I'm married and enjoy dominating my husband on a regular basis.  From time to time I enjoy other forms of play, which include online -- but, only with telephone as a part of it. And pictures - lots of pictures.  Online only, just text?  Probably not.  It would take a very remarkable man to push all the right buttons with just text - rare, but it can happen.  I'm a visual person, and I also enjoy the connection of voice, so a combination of voice/online/cam/pictures can be pretty hot -- but it's mostly just foreplay for real life.

Akasha







MissLily -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 2:25:19 PM)

Hi,
I really am interested in online slaves. It's a lot of fun I promise!

Online is how I started getting into BDSM, because I'm too far from any scene at the moment. For Me, it's a ways to meet people and have fun until I can get to an actual scene.

With someone serious, you can have a pretty good relationship too.

But of course, it has it's limitations, and it's just not the same as RT.

Miss Lily




Madame4a -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 2:25:47 PM)

If anyone is keeping track, add my vote to the useless category -- I can't get my mind around how someone would be a slave to me online. 

service: silent, anticipatory,  and personal




JerryFrankster -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 2:27:40 PM)

Seems like a slave should be useful somehow. What kind of practical service could a person provide online, or at a distance?

Human search engine?




AAkasha -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 2:34:29 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: JerryFrankster

Seems like a slave should be useful somehow. What kind of practical service could a person provide online, or at a distance?

Human search engine?



How about sexual arousal?  Making me wet?  Being a fucktoy?  Being a sextoy?  Providing entertainment and sexual enjoyment to make me wet, so I can take it out on my husband when I fuck him in the ass?  I love using a man for sexual pleasure.

Akasha




MistressVnus -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 2:58:34 PM)

I can see where online could provide some prelude for a hands-on ending.
But, Aakasha, what if your husband wasn't there for your grand finale?

Hands-on only here.
I tried a little webcam a couple weeks ago just for shits and giggles.  Ends up the guy did something without permisson.  My recourse?  Nada...turn of the camera.  Gee...that was fun.  The only way I could see any benefit for the Domme with webcam would be a pro-session.  Or if she likes mutual masturbation (but that's not really BDSM, to me,  anyway)   You can't "really" train online because you can't provide any consequences.
Nope, hands-on  is my preference.




AAkasha -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 3:02:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressVnus

I can see where online could provide some prelude for a hands-on ending.
But, Aakasha, what if your husband wasn't there for your grand finale?

Hands-on only here.
I tried a little webcam a couple weeks ago just for shits and giggles.  Ends up the guy did something without permisson.  My recourse?  Nada...turn of the camera.  Gee...that was fun.  The only way I could see any benefit for the Domme with webcam would be a pro-session.  Or if she likes mutual masturbation (but that's not really BDSM, to me,  anyway)   You can't "really" train online because you can't provide any consequences.
Nope, hands-on  is my preference.



I can't imagine why my husband wouldn't be available at any time - he's always available. That's one of the big reasons he doesn't have a career - his priority is me and my needs, including the dark and sexual ones.

Akasha




canupleaseme -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 3:02:45 PM)

My boy enjoyed it when I had a one off online session with someone.  I wouldnt conduct a long term online thing but I am happy to have odd one offs.




TermsConditions -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 3:10:49 PM)

"How about sexual arousal?  Making me wet?  Being a fucktoy?  Being a sextoy?  Providing entertainment and sexual enjoyment to make me wet, so I can take it out on my husband when I fuck him in the ass?  I love using a man for sexual pleasure."

I mention this only because you might get a kick out of it: The above knocks the wind right out of me and makes my knees so weak that it's difficult to stand. I'm not complaining :-) just be careful where you point that thing; it packs a wallop. :-)

TnC 




JerryFrankster -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 3:18:07 PM)

That's a perfictly valid reason, of course.

I guess I just thought slavery in the bdsm context usually involved some kind of menial labor.

I mean, it doesn't nesiccerily have to be menial, but if it were skilled labor I would think that would make them more of a minion.




rob425 -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 3:22:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha


I enjoy a variety of types of bdsm "play" -- with real life being the absolute best, of course, and something I could never give up.  I'm married and enjoy dominating my husband on a regular basis.  From time to time I enjoy other forms of play, which include online -- but, only with telephone as a part of it. And pictures - lots of pictures.  Online only, just text?  Probably not.  It would take a very remarkable man to push all the right buttons with just text - rare, but it can happen.  I'm a visual person, and I also enjoy the connection of voice, so a combination of voice/online/cam/pictures can be pretty hot -- but it's mostly just foreplay for real life.

Akasha

Don't Forget the Highjoy internet controlled dildo!!!! That was the best recommendation I ever got from your website for when I was away from my old Domme 


Internet play is kinda pointless in my opinion but there are things that can change it like a webcam and microphones... There are some things that can be done like internet which is good...Like checking that the sub hasn't removed the plastic lock on his CB by checking the number




AAkasha -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 4:05:45 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: JerryFrankster

That's a perfictly valid reason, of course.

I guess I just thought slavery in the bdsm context usually involved some kind of menial labor.

I mean, it doesn't nesiccerily have to be menial, but if it were skilled labor I would think that would make them more of a minion.



With the exception of my husband, none of my other femdom relationships or boytoys included any kind of "service" or tasks. It's just not what I am into.  My husband handles the domestic stuff but not for any sexual purpose, that's simply our relationship dynamic because it works for us.  I am a woman that is a sadist, and I get sexual pleasure out of making a man suffer to get me hot -- that's about all there is to it. Add on top of that a huge bondage fetish and here I am -- this is how I am wired -- my lust and sensuality are all wrapped up into erotic S&m. I don't really get off on "giving orders" or being in control, I get off on a man's reactions to his vulnerability and helplessness that comes as a result of my bondage, torture or humilation.  All consensual, of course.

So - no, I'm not into giving tasks.  I'm into making a man suffer to get me hot.

Akasha




thetammyjo -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 4:30:04 PM)

No, I did online stuff when I was starting out.

It does not provide what I need which is useful practical service to make my life easier and immediate physical/emotional reactions that I can watch/hear.




MissIsis -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 4:36:28 PM)

Count me as one of the ones that has no interest in online.   It does nothing for me.  I can find much better ways to occupy my time.  




DominaJayde -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 4:46:54 PM)

It all depends on how much effort you want to put into it, at the moment in time I can't have a RL Boy, so I have several online Boys, with a combination of emails, IMs, photos, text messaging and phone calls, My Boys and I are having a ball.


DJ





LadyHibiscus -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 6:32:47 PM)

Online?  Not for me.  I do enjoy cyber and phone activities with people I know, as an adjunct to realtime meetings, but I type fast, and chances are when I am typing one thing, I am looking at something else. 




mistresszariah1 -> RE: online slaves (2/18/2008 6:37:18 PM)

I offer online training for those who cant come real time. I t has its advantages!




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