Owner4SexSlave
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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave Squeeze nice and neat into the D/s labels. God forbid, somebody does something they enjoy that does not fit so nicely into the stereotype labels. Most ppl learned early on that if you got out of line you got smacked by someone in authority ie teachers, cops, parents, what have you. You might have thought of smacking them back... but you never did cuz they were the dom. What part of that is so hard to understand? BadOne Don't get me wrong I totally see where you are coming from here. However, I realized the power of not letting people take control over me with a face slap a long time ago. Can be as simple as smiling back in their face after being slapped, or hell offering them to slap my face again. Basically in short a face slap does not change how I feel or think about something. Now, if I were to belly up and become all submissive after being slapped in a face or loose control and punch back, that would result in bad things happening. Don't know if this will make any sense to you. But I was taught the worse thing to do is loose control in a fight. Taught that if somebody strikes me to not loose control yet at the same time not give into their bullshit. I was smacked by teachers before (back in the day when teachers could do that). I had one asshole teacher in 4th grade that slapped me, and I kept a smile. It pissed him off very much, to the point he was the one that had to deal with his own anger management issues. Yeah, the son of bitch even hauled my ass in for a good ass paddling too. I walked away smiling too. Went clear up to the principals office, because I was being so out of line with my smiles and taking things in stride. Needless to say before the day was over, the principal was handing him is ass. Priceless man! To hear the school principal bitching his ass out, while I was standing outside the door. Never had a problem with that asshole teacher on his power trip again. I've went through similar experiences in the Military, work place and even with asshole cops on power trips. As long as I myself stay in control of myself, yet not play the submissive bullshit games and feed into their power trips. I actually gained leverage over my boot camp intructors, gained leverage in a major fuck up incident on a fast attack nuclear powered submarine mishap as well. Basically I was taught to respect the uniform, respect the position, but I don't have to respect the human being behind the uniform or position unless they deserved it. I learned at early age, the power of maintaining control over other people's bullshit power trips. Basically, i don't have to buy into, however physically fighting with them goes no where quick save a good ass kicking. Two wrongs does not make anybody right about jack. I've gone through the bullshit power games with people. Been playing these games since grade school. I have too many stories to share about this crap that it's not funny. So go ahead and slap me, cause you ain't gonna get any real or true power over my ass. By being the one staying in control, I actually found that most of the time, I'm the one that maintains control and has power in the end. I'd love to exchange stories or experiences with anybody in more detail on the other side. The concept it really simply though in terms of being in control yet not being all submissive towards the actual person. It's a little off the wall, to respect a uniform or position of a person, yet not having to respect them as a person. I grew up hearing stories about how to say "Sir, respectfully Fuck you, Sir". I've had some ego power tripping mofo's that thought they had my ass on a silver plater, and were totally amazed at how calm I was. Every time when I read about submissives making post complaining about DOMs with a Military background, I really tend to have a great amount of empathy for what they are trying to express. True respect and power is something earned and gained, not something cheapy given out because somebody is in a position of authority or power. This is in a nut shell how I was raised and brought up as a child. I remember going through my Military Electronics Schooling, many times I would often fall asleep in class because it was boring as all hell. Basically, I already knew the friggen material and I have a high learning curve. I was in the top of my class as well. I still remember the day, I had an new instructor for a mod, haul me into his office space and attempt to humilate, threaten, and boss me in front of the other the instructors there. Basically, he said if I did not Ace all the tests he'd make certain I'd become a Bosun's mate on a skimmer puke (term for ships that float on top of the water, I was in the submarine force). He was bragging about his mod (digital electronics) being the hardest course there was. I smiled at him and said "no problem". He was trying to show off to the other instructors that he was gonna be the man to break me of my class room sleeping habits. Needless to say, the other instructors were laughing their asses off at his feable attempts to Dom power trip my ass. Great entertain he was. Even more so for all the times I corrected his mistakes in class. Oh yeah, you betcha I seized every moment when he was getting lost or confused on some digital circuit or was having a hard time explaining shit to other students. Basically, I became the answer the guy or his fall back when he got himself into hot water. Priceless! Oh yeah, not that I was never taught anything about knowledge being power and all. So yeah, did I end up making his ass feel a little more humble towards me, you betcha I did. Did I still sleep in class from time to time, oh hell yeah. Did he even try making me stand up in class at times, and attempt to humilate me in front of other students. You bet he tried at first. Great source of entertainment for others, seeing him attempt to Dom power trip my ass and have it not work. I have a whole well of similar stories, be it Military, Public school system, dealing with asshole police officers and you name it. I tend to leave an unforgetable impression behind me. So sure, if somebody wants to play the power game, I'm up for it. I know how to play by the rules. Hope this sheds some insight into at least my perspective and experiences on this subject.
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