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Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 9:17:12 AM

BOUNTYHUNTER

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I am the type of owner that wants to enjoy my property to the fullest,I make love...The question came up in one of my lifestyle groups so I thought I would post it here....The question is to owners...Do you make love or is it just sex...Does it vary with you mood or what you are into at that moment.....BOUNTY

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 9:19:22 AM

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I have shirt that says making love is what my girlfriend does when I fuck her.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 9:23:03 AM

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I'm going to be lazy and post a blog I wrote a while ago:

In my opinion there are 3 distinctive ways of having intercourse, each type has it’s purpose for it nurtures a part of the essence that creates the whole, the balance. Though individual equations vary, every person needs some of each type of intercourse to achieve total fulfillment.

Making Love- the Soul; this is gentle intercourse, where the emotion is fed. This is the tender time, the soft caresses, the butterfly kisses. During this process the show of love is the prevailing focus. I liken it to first thing in the morning sex, when the night has been spent in a lover’s embrace.

Having Sex- the Body; this is the most simplistic, most direct form of love making.love. We have sex when we are physically aroused and we need release. There is only one focus of this type of intercourse and that is the orgasm. How one gets there is not nearly as important, in other words—this is all about the destination and little thought is given to the journey. I think of this as afternoon sex, when one rushes home from work and rips off their clothes as well as their partner’s.

Fucking- The Mind; My personal favorite. This is when you have mind blowing sex, to put it succinctly. Sure physical sex is good, emotional love making is sweet, but getting the mind into the act creates an experience that can leave a person weak in the knees- literally. Fucking is about experimenting, playing, exploring limits. It can be the most base level savage lust filled act to a convolution of role play and toys. For some a bit of erotic talking will grab them—others have to delve a bit deeper to really achieve total mind-blowing orgasms.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 9:25:45 AM

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ooh.. I like that Omega :)

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 9:29:48 AM

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Thank you GT.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 9:31:47 AM

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Down down and dirty mind blowing rought sex is nice on occasions smile,,BH

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 9:32:48 AM

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Charlotte likes that too Omega. She also likes your sigline .

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 9:41:52 AM

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I enjoy all forms of connection. As long as it's right for everyone at the time.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 9:43:57 AM

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thank you charlotte.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 10:25:17 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

I have shirt that says making love is what my girlfriend does when I fuck her.

I want one

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 10:29:43 AM

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Bounty,
I would say that it is a mind thing but also a person thing. There are times that I make love but also fuck the same person, it can vary by the mood, time frame, emotional state and what each wants. Now with the person thing I mean that different people spark different feelings as to what I am willing to give. As long as both parties are on the same page I think both are fun and have there place. Just My thoughts.
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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 10:40:01 AM

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I don't believe I have ever, just had sex..........okay, there was that one time.....

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 10:47:06 AM

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I personally hate the term "making love" because I read far too into things and for me, it just enforces the stereotype of sex=love. I looked at it literally and took it in a very bad way.

I do like gentle, loving sex that calls to the mind and soul. I love sex that is beyond just purely animalistic fucking (although that has its moments too!), but choose not to call it making love.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 10:49:36 AM

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Neither - I call it fun.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 11:05:08 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum

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ORIGINAL: Kana
I have shirt that says making love is what my girlfriend does when I fuck her.

I want one

Source in the UK for that shirt here.
Aarrrgghhh, I can't find my US link.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 11:14:15 AM

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Varys with the mood

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 11:22:09 AM

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Ohhhhhhh this reminds me!! A woman that works for the other company here in the building is addicted to reading the celebritrash websites. She showed me a new "secretly" taped sex tape of Gene Simmons and some young model type that was NOT Shannon Tweed (his wife or whatever she is).

I wonder if old Gene is gonna call that "but honey it was just seeeeeeeexxxx............" as she calls her attorney....

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 11:59:17 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Ohhhhhhh this reminds me!! A woman that works for the other company here in the building is addicted to reading the celebritrash websites. She showed me a new "secretly" taped sex tape of Gene Simmons and some young model type that was NOT Shannon Tweed (his wife or whatever she is).

I wonder if old Gene is gonna call that "but honey it was just seeeeeeeexxxx............" as she calls her attorney....

OL" GENE is a sly ol' dog and with his money he can afford to become married once twice a year...By the way Dom's in my lifestyle say 75% of the time its just fucking...The subs and slave says its love making about 95% of the time,am I surprised at this number,hell no..Most women must have an emotional attachment to drop the panties,us males are service sluts smile, any or most wenches that need serviced gets serviced...bounty

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 12:35:02 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Ohhhhhhh this reminds me!! A woman that works for the other company here in the building is addicted to reading the celebritrash websites. She showed me a new "secretly" taped sex tape of Gene Simmons and some young model type that was NOT Shannon Tweed (his wife or whatever she is).

I wonder if old Gene is gonna call that "but honey it was just seeeeeeeexxxx............" as she calls her attorney....

OL" GENE is a sly ol' dog and with his money he can afford to become married once twice a year...By the way Dom's in my lifestyle say 75% of the time its just fucking...The subs and slave says its love making about 95% of the time,am I surprised at this number,hell no..Most women must have an emotional attachment to drop the panties,us males are service sluts smile, any or most wenches that need serviced gets serviced...bounty

What do you mean "the Dom's in my lifestyle...." based on the responses in this thread I don't think the percentages are accurate. Are you speaking of the local community?

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Sex without pain is like food without taste.
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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 12:38:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: OmegaG

quote:

ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Ohhhhhhh this reminds me!! A woman that works for the other company here in the building is addicted to reading the celebritrash websites. She showed me a new "secretly" taped sex tape of Gene Simmons and some young model type that was NOT Shannon Tweed (his wife or whatever she is).

I wonder if old Gene is gonna call that "but honey it was just seeeeeeeexxxx............" as she calls her attorney....

OL" GENE is a sly ol' dog and with his money he can afford to become married once twice a year...By the way Dom's in my lifestyle say 75% of the time its just fucking...The subs and slave says its love making about 95% of the time,am I surprised at this number,hell no..Most women must have an emotional attachment to drop the panties,us males are service sluts smile, any or most wenches that need serviced gets serviced...bounty

What do you mean "the Dom's in my lifestyle...." based on the responses in this thread I don't think the percentages are accurate. Are you speaking of the local community?

I should have added my lifestyle groups on yahoo...

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