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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 6:07:44 AM   
tahlly


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Status: offline 		My owner does not negotiate with me in regards to our relationship. With that being said; he has yet to allow others to sexually use me. However, he has loaned me out for service to others on occassion. If the time comes that sexual service is to be apart of this; then I will do as told. I do not have the option, nor the urge; to say no to him.  

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 6:09:18 AM   
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Question 1: Yes. We have actually done something similar, without the BDSM aspect. He would love to see me, and I would agree if I was attracted to the man, and My Lord was there for protection. It was initially my reason for signing up here, though that purpose has fallen by the wayside.

Question 3: I think I'd love it, as long as My Lord was there. I have actively persued the possibilities of brining in a third, male or female. I wouldn't do it without his protection, though, since he knows my limits, and they may not.


Storms,

Well then I do mhope you have made the connections for the expansion as it applies to the path. Nice to see some "swingers still around.

CP

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 6:10:41 AM   
thetammyjo


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I think that is someone is my property, is my slave, then they have given me the right to share them with others -- be it vanilla labor, helping at a kink event, scening, whatever. Only a very stupid person would get involved with me unless they were cool with that.

My right or authority in such situations has a responsibility attached to it that only a very foolish owner does not take seriously.

The responsibility is to know what is healthy for my slave. Healthy not just physically but emotionally and spiritually. That means knowing my slave's mundane schedule, his health, and his opinions/feelings about others.

For example, I decided that Fox was going to take part in a charity auction at a BDSM convention. I also decided that he would only be auctioned as a top and for bondage. I told him of my decision and while he was nervous he was also very pleased to be shared in that fashion.

I got the joys of exercising my ownership authority by sharing him and I did it in a way that created a very happy slave -- benefits all around.

If I'd decided to llst him as a masochistic slave in that auction he would have done it but he would have been unhappy or possibly angry. Not because he's a bad slave but because those are human feelings -- his name may be Fox and he may be a furry but he's still a human being. Yes, I'd still get the joys of exercising my ownership authority but I'd also get the negative energy which is not worth much in my opinion.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 6:12:10 AM   
CelticPrince


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question 3 regardless of if you did or not, how would you feel? Like a piece of meat....Like I didn't mean that much to him or he wouldn't want to give me


breathes,

Well it would then appear as tho you have nothing to be concerned about.

Thanks for your input.

CP

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 6:17:08 AM   
breatheasone


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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

quote:

question 3 regardless of if you did or not, how would you feel? Like a piece of meat....Like I didn't mean that much to him or he wouldn't want to give me


breathes,

Well it would then appear as tho you have nothing to be concerned about.

Thanks for your input.

CP

CP....I'm not sure what your response means, but you are welcome for my input!


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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 6:35:06 AM   
CelticPrince


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Been there and done that many times.

Not a limit of mine so it is my Master’s choice.

Actual experience of the events range from great to awful from exciting to incredibly boring.

The mental aspects of receiving the order and afterwards are very powerful. It probably is the most powerful use of power over me that I have experienced and since power is my fetish once I know my Master got something or enjoyed the situation it pretty much destroys me in an very delicious way well after the event took place.

It is for me a classic dread/how can he do this to me to I hope he does this again to me every single time that I have been involved in a situation like you described. It is intense objectification with a dash of humiliation and degradation. Yummy for me but not for most.


toserez

Thanks for your honest input, your attitude as shown in your profile has been one of my examples for those that I have mentored. Your Master is indeed a fortunate "D".

CP

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 6:39:09 AM   
CelticPrince


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Usually it has been for oral and my feelings have varied from it being an erotic sensation to being boring to sometimes being embarassing or humiliating. It depends on the man, the circumstances and whom else might also be there. Of course too His reasons have also varied from His enjoyment, to wanting to impress a friend, to wanting to humiliate.


destined,

Seems you run the gamut of thoughts on the subject. Why not ask Him to allow you a vote on who it was to be, so he understands your willing to follow but would prefer a voice.

CP

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 6:41:44 AM   
CelticPrince


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Status: online </image/blank.gif> i would agree because my Master owns me. i would agree because it would make him smile, and that is extremly important to me. i would agree because i am powerless, in my own mind, to tell him no. As to how it would make me feel, i know i would feel proud to have served him.


possessed,

Well it seems you have your priorities in line. Thanks for your thoughts.

CP

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 6:45:27 AM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		Mist,

I think you read the post wrong, I do not imply that he would ask permission or ask how you felt about it.

CP

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 6:46:00 AM   
Justme696


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Status: offline 		i don't share my girls..but to each his own.....but I wouldn't share a sub if ...but a slave has no choice in it..

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 6:46:51 AM   
RCdc


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Status: offline 		It has nothing to do with agreeing or not agreeing, liking or not liking, wanting to or not wanting to.
It is about obeying - pure and simple.
 
If I could not or did not obey, I would ask myself why am I with a person I would not obey.
 
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< Message edited by Darcyandthedark -- 2/21/2008 6:47:26 AM >

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 6:50:01 AM   
CelticPrince


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Question 3) Having this happen to me, I felt a mixture of excitement and turmoil. Turmoil mainly because it was entirely his decision one who he shared me with and I had no say in the matter. That was a tough lesson to learn knowing that I was unable to choose who I wanted to play with. We had different tastes and mine had no significance anymore.


bear,

isn't TPE just the greatest?

CP

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 6:52:14 AM   
sublizzie


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Status: offline 		I would obey. If he wanted to share me for some reason, then I'd do what he wanted. My preference would be that he not share me but it's up to him.

I'm not sure how I would react since I haven't been in this kind of situation so it's all hypothesis at this point. Knowing I was obeying and pleasing would make me feel good but I am by nature monogamous so I'm not sure what it would do to my emotionally and psychologically. I would hope he would help me through whatever happened afterward. I really liked what theTammyJo said about knowing Fox well enough to know what would create positive energy rather than having to deal with negative energy. Hopefully my Dominant knows me well enough to know what would be best for both of us.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 6:55:22 AM   
CelticPrince


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I feel respected most when i am in the lowiest position as slave.
I feel contented and quietened and left with a heightened awareness for many days after any bdsm/glbt combination share.
And most of all it strengthens and creates and consolidates my bond with my Master.


Paulsgirl,

Excellent reply and the last says it all, good fortune!

CP

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 6:57:07 AM   
CelticPrince


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i would, i trust his choices.


tigress, short sweet and to the point.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 6:57:43 AM   
breatheasone


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Status: offline 		CP...I really am curious what your reply meant....if you don't mind....and my apologies for not "getting it".....

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 7:03:34 AM   
velvetears


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Status: offline 		If i didn't want to be shared, i would not be with someone who shared me. If that wasn't an issue with me, i would be with someone who may or may not share me and in that case i would obey. 

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 7:03:59 AM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		Well we "agreed" on things in the beginning and this is one of those things I agreed to and also enjoy it. I also agreed to obedient. I know that there are only certain people or person he would do this with and I know he always has my safety in mind. So I don't fret over it.

For me it isn't about him asserting his control, it is about my obedience. He doesn't need to assert control he has it regardless. When I have been shared at times I felt excited and at other times I just felt like I was just being obedient. It just depends on the mood and things of that nature.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 7:30:14 AM   
crouchingtigress


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Status: offline 		Thanks CP and thank you for this thread, it is a great read.

i think i might elaborate a little because i like that you are interested in having a in depth discussion.

i dont feel that i chose my submission to him, i chose only to act on it.

when i met him i was immediately submissive, something that i had only felt once in my whole life. and there too, i chose to act on it.

when i met him, i saw someone i wanted to be found worthy of, he had a brain the size of a planet, was hilariously funny, and mentally spiritually and physically pushed every limit, taboo and mental construct i had.

of course this scared me, and i certainly had a choice to not go there.

but i thought how amazingly rare to find a person this unique, a person who humbles me with his openness, and shames me with his courage, a person who inspires me to be worthy of my own masturbations, and a person that would not stop until he scraped clean the deepest darkest parts of myself like an abortion.

his apatite for the "dark pudding of the soul" is insatiable, there is no where he is not interested in at least having a conversation about going.

i thought for a while about how dumb it was, how scary this was going to be, how there were so many reasons why i might get hurt, and so many reasons to abort.

but i said the three most powerful words in the human language, more powerful then i love you, or i own you....i am willing.

once i said those words, that was it.  it was done. i am willing.

< Message edited by crouchingtigress -- 2/21/2008 7:55:33 AM >

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/21/2008 8:14:12 AM   
IrishMist


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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

Mist,

I think you read the post wrong, I do not imply that he would ask permission or ask how you felt about it.

CP


NO CP, I did not read the post wrong.

You said

you consider yourself the property of your Master. Now Master wanting to show off his control of his sub/slave wants to share you with his friends while he iattends as a safeguard.
Question 1 Would you agree?
question 3 regardless of if you did or not, how would you feel?

My answer was right in line with what you asked.

My agreeing would never happen because…..HE NEVER WOULD HAVE ASKED ME IF IT WAS OK OR NOT.

My feelings would not matter either because he did not care how I felt about things such as this. He did what he wanted, when he wanted, how he wanted…my feelings about it did not enter into the decision making.




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