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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/20/2008 7:36:42 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I was told I was too polite to be Dominant, I don't have a problem with saying please or thank you even to my sub. I guess people expect all Dominants to be rude

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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/20/2008 9:21:23 PM   
laurelgoat


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Status: offline 		I've been laughing myself sick reading some of these and shaking my head sadly at the rest. I think all of the ones that I've heard personally have already been posted, though...

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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/20/2008 9:41:44 PM   
SubbieOnWheels


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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/21/2008 4:55:26 AM   
adoracat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

Oh Lord...voices...I had this dental hygenist for several years...VERY nice lady and a VERY good hygenist BUT...her voice was always in "baby" mode. I swear, it was like she'd been cooing over her poodle or something and it got stuck. Her grammer and vocabulary were both adult, just the voice was off. Oh, and add a southern accent on the top of that...it was motivation to keep you teeth clean so you didn't sit in the chair long.

The stereotype that bugs me: women should have long hair.

Master Fire



um.  *blushes*

ok, so at 44, i still get "is your mommy home?"  when Daddy asked what i sounded like i told him "imagine a 12 year old speaking.  now throw in a little huskiness along the lines of a phone sex operator.  add a light southern accent and a silly giggle, and that's me."  he didnt believe me.  then he phoned me. 

everyone that's known me for a while doesnt get the contradictions.... intelligent, naive, childlike, sharp-witted.  they tend to just shake their heads and start humming the song "maria" from the sound of music....

kitten

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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/21/2008 5:02:37 AM   
bislavegirl4434


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Status: offline 		I've been told;

"Age is always important, so its never going to work"
"You're not submissive, you're just pretending"
"You're not weak enough to be a submissive!"
"You're a dom pretending to be a sub."

And those are just a few examples. Since when are Submissives weak!? We support our Masters/Doms!

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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/21/2008 5:09:30 AM   
StormsSlave


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ORIGINAL: SubbieOnWheels

Two emails and an hour of chat makes you His slave.


Yeah, no kidding!!!  WTF is up with THAT!!! 

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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/21/2008 5:24:47 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		forgot to add - i was told by a local dominant that i would have to choose between my UMs and being a submissive - he said there's no way i could be both.  his reasoning was (a) he would have to come before my UMs at all times, (b) a single mother had no place as a submissive in BDSM because all of my time will be devoted to them not the dominant, (c) he wasn't looking to be a father to any woman's UMs and/or raising them.

i stopped all communication after telling him that he was more of a spoiled brat than a dominant because i'm able to be mother, submissive, band/music reviewer, etc etc all at the same time. plus i also said nowhere in my messages to him did i ever mention being a father or raising mine ...i'm doing a fantastic job without my ex or any other male figure.


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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/21/2008 5:31:57 AM   
Lashra


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

forgot to add - i was told by a local dominant that i would have to choose between my UMs and being a submissive - he said there's no way i could be both.  his reasoning was (a) he would have to come before my UMs at all times, (b) a single mother had no place as a submissive in BDSM because all of my time will be devoted to them not the dominant, (c) he wasn't looking to be a father to any woman's UMs and/or raising them.

i stopped all communication after telling him that he was more of a spoiled brat than a dominant because i'm able to be mother, submissive, band/music reviewer, etc etc all at the same time. plus i also said nowhere in my messages to him did i ever mention being a father or raising mine ...i'm doing a fantastic job without my ex or any other male figure.


Good for you !!!!   I've heard other subs say they got messages saying the same thing. I think someone is crazy if they think a person is going to put Dominant/sub before their UM's. In my book the UM's ALWAYS come first.

~Lashra


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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/21/2008 5:33:06 AM   
bislavegirl4434


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Status: offline 		I second that. UM's first, Doms/Masters a not-so-close second!

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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/21/2008 6:08:57 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		What if the Dom acts like a child?

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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/21/2008 6:23:00 AM   
KyttynTheMynx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

quote:

ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx
  1.  Youre too fat and/or ugly to be submissive.
  2.  You dont have the attitude of a submissive when speaking to me.
  3.  You are a very confused little girl.  Perhaps you are a switch.
  4.  You arent black enough.  Learn to talk right.

Yea.  Those are just this a few that I get over and over and over...

omg...how eerie, we are getting identical emails.  Ooooh let's be twins!!!!  It will be ever so much fun.  We can combine our super submissiveness...dadadada-da-da!!! Slutty twins power ...ACTIVATE!!!


You shall be my twin, and we shall go forth and preach our slutittude to the masses, and use the Powers of the Super Sub to fight evil.  And...And...wear our undies on the outside.  Cuz it looks fun.

Oh, yea...This mornin, I got told I didnt dress slutty enough to be a sub.  Ok.  WTF!?


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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/21/2008 6:54:26 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Hate to tell you Kyttyn but panties on the outside isnt slutty. Try something else.

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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/21/2008 7:16:57 AM   
KyttynTheMynx


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Status: offline 		But...It goes with the superhero theme.

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10 Miles of Hot Chocolate Lovin'.

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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/21/2008 7:36:57 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Therin lies your problem. Your not a superhero. Your a superheroine. Big difference.

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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/21/2008 7:40:21 AM   
BlackPhx


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Status: offline 		Go Girl...don't ever let anyone tell you you ain't Superwoman. Sub is only a part of who and what we are.

poenkitten

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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/21/2008 7:51:21 AM   
SubbieOnWheels


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

forgot to add - i was told by a local dominant that i would have to choose between my UMs and being a submissive - he said there's no way i could be both.  his reasoning was (a) he would have to come before my UMs at all times, (b) a single mother had no place as a submissive in BDSM because all of my time will be devoted to them not the dominant, (c) he wasn't looking to be a father to any woman's UMs and/or raising them.

i stopped all communication after telling him that he was more of a spoiled brat than a dominant because i'm able to be mother, submissive, band/music reviewer, etc etc all at the same time. plus i also said nowhere in my messages to him did i ever mention being a father or raising mine ...i'm doing a fantastic job without my ex or any other male figure.



Absolutely! "I am woman - I multitask."

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Beat me, strike me, take away my reindeer! I'll never tell! -- Walt Kelly, Pogo Possum
I yam what I yam - Popeye

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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/21/2008 9:29:53 AM   
petdave


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Status: offline 		i'm just sick to death of the "male submissive who is completely Dominant in his vanilla life, captain of industry, slayer of dragons, who only submits to his One" stereotype... Just  

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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/21/2008 9:55:26 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Whats the purpose of Dom/Dommes if there are no submissives. Is there a stereotype submissive?

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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/21/2008 2:19:45 PM   
lronitulstahp


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Status: offline 		i'm a black bbw...so i always get...."are you Domme Mistress?"  Even in public events.  i have to stop dressing up in bustiers and garter belts, i guess.

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RE: Stupid Stereotypes - 2/21/2008 9:19:57 PM   
Gwynvyd


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: OmegaG

I wonder what other strange paradigms are floating around.


i've been told:

- i'm too fat and ugly to be a submissive and don't belong here because only beautiful submissives attract a dominant's eye

- that all fat women are into BDSM to boost their low self-esteem and confidence since no other real man will accept them

oh yeah  - i'm not black enough to be black (whatever that means)



Oooohhhhh... *Steam blows out her ears* Grrrrrrr...... I am soo pissed off I can't even talk! 

Good Gods! You send them over to me... I will fix thier little red wagon. Gods I hate stupid ignortant people.

I happen to like sistahs, and ones who have a little swing on the back porch if ya know what I mean.

Grrrrr...

Gwyn,
Rightious in her wrath

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