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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

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ORIGINAL: domahpet

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ORIGINAL: bleusparkles

Ok I'm curious ... What is intersexed?

I've been told I'm too dominant to be a submissive, too fat to be a submissive, too young to be a "true" submissive (I'm 26, evidently you don't get your true submissive card until you're 30) and I'm also decieving myself if I think I can EVER walk away from D/s.

faery is intersexed   , hellooo
(hi faery kisses!)

shhhhhhhhh...i dont want her to have any fantasies about me....only wenchie can.

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ORIGINAL: Aswad

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

All Greans are humorless....:)

Nope. It's just me.

Health,
al-Aswad.

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

forgot to add - i was told by a local dominant that i would have to choose between my UMs and being a submissive - he said there's no way i could be both.  his reasoning was (a) he would have to come before my UMs at all times, (b) a single mother had no place as a submissive in BDSM because all of my time will be devoted to them not the dominant, (c) he wasn't looking to be a father to any woman's UMs and/or raising them.

i stopped all communication after telling him that he was more of a spoiled brat than a dominant because i'm able to be mother, submissive, band/music reviewer, etc etc all at the same time. plus i also said nowhere in my messages to him did i ever mention being a father or raising mine ...i'm doing a fantastic job without my ex or any other male figure.

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ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd
*pouts* ok.. fine... I understand... only Greedy loves me.. is ok.. really...
*goes and cries*
Gwyn

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ORIGINAL: SpareBoyfriend

I'm too good looking to be single.


What? Capable subs are the best!  You can come over and take care of my lazy ass, anytime!

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

Yeah, Aswad is pretty damned cool (even if he won't fly me over so I can play with his books!)

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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

Yeah, Aswad is pretty damned cool (even if he won't fly me over so I can play with his books!)

is that what they are calling it these days? and did you get permission from neph?

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ORIGINAL: Mastersplitlicke

I find that generally most people either try to bullshit or brag them selfs up , or they run others down to make them selfs feel better about there empty unhappy lives.

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ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd
Your voice is too soft, too female, too nice... You don't sound Domme.. LOL
Um, I didn't think that at ALL.....
What am I supposed to sound like a truck driver?
No.. *I* sound like a truck driver (spent 20+ yrs doing just that for a living, so that qualifies me, IMO..LOL)
You are too nice... you look too "normal"
You ARE nice! And (relatively normal.. we get along, so that might be cause for alarm...)
Again am I supposed to shop at Winn Dixie in my leather corset and bitch boots? Go to the PTA meetings in what? Latex.... Show up at church in my peek a boo bra and crotchless panties? *chuckles*
I want pictures!

I'm a bloody Soccer mom 95% of the time when out of my home. I dont dress frumpy... but then I dont wear slut gear either. LOL

Gwyn

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ORIGINAL: HerLord

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ORIGINAL: Mastersplitlicke

I find that generally most people either try to bullshit or brag them selfs up , or they run others down to make them selfs feel better about there empty unhappy lives.

Agreed. I never understood the running down of others. I get that it helps them feel better about themselves, but have never figured out why/how.

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ORIGINAL: laurelgoat

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ORIGINAL: HerLord

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ORIGINAL: Mastersplitlicke

I find that generally most people either try to bullshit or brag them selfs up , or they run others down to make them selfs feel better about there empty unhappy lives.

Agreed. I never understood the running down of others. I get that it helps them feel better about themselves, but have never figured out why/how.

Ever heard of making yourself look good by comparison? You can make yourself feel better in the same way. Freud called it (forgive the misspelling) schaudenfreude. It's the good feeling you get when you see something bad happen to someone you don't care about. Some people have so much self-loathing that they feel like they need to grind people down just to have someone even more despised than them around. It would be sad if it weren't so damaging to those they inflict it upon.