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imtempting -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 6:42:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: imtempting quote: ORIGINAL: TVMistressHelen I've just seen a profile from a Mistress where she just says "Femdom looking for slaves." You can guarantee she'll get many many replies. Its just one of the many hypocritical things on CM where many Dommes expect full on profiles yet they think 'Im a Domme, Dont question me about it becuase I the one that asks the questions, be happy Im responding'..... ITs changed...... and I still stand by my comments.

LadyAngelika -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 7:36:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: imtempting quote: ORIGINAL: imtempting quote: ORIGINAL: TVMistressHelen I've just seen a profile from a Mistress where she just says "Femdom looking for slaves." You can guarantee she'll get many many replies. Its just one of the many hypocritical things on CM where many Dommes expect full on profiles yet they think 'Im a Domme, Dont question me about it becuase I the one that asks the questions, be happy Im responding'..... ITs changed...... and I still stand by my comments. Right... and that's why I have 4 paragraphs and am not even seeking anyone. Hmmm... For the record, I have a description so that the people who post regularly with me on collarme can have a little bit of background about me if this is something that interests them. I have also responded to all polite inquiries. I consider it to be an obligation of a civil person. I understand what you are saying Imtemting but you are still generalizing way too much. You know from experience that we aren't these vultures that we are often portrayed to be. Of course there are going to be vultures. They are everywhere, not just in this realm. There are also male sub vultures who will tell us whatever we want to hear to get off. This “hooking up with someone” game can be a real nasty one and most of us have lost at it at least once. But comments with an air of bitterness do nothing to advance the situation. “Dommes” that will not allow you to ask them questions or tell you that you are privilege because they are giving you the time of day aren’t worth anyone’s time. That is probably the best warning signal that they don’t have a clue what they are doing. Either that or they have absolutely no social skills. Either way, it’s a sign to move to the next one. You should all be thankful when the warning signs of a maladjusted person are obvious from the get go! - LA

kc692 -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 9:40:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TexasMaam quote: ORIGINAL: kc692 Like I said , girl, I like ya!! You are welcome, at least from my end, but I keep adding the edits before you see, careful or you might get roped in on the action!!!!From what I hear earlier in the thread, LaM has a foot long, I definitely might need some help!![:D] Me, Me, Me, Me, Me! LaM thinks I'm a supermodel anyhow. I'm bringin' a camera onnacos I'm takin' pics of this, ya'll... [:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D] You're welcome to come, just no face pics, please!!! Damn, I'd like to think it was cuz of me, but, I think it's LaM's inherent sexiness that actually has "dommays" lining up!!! (That or the fact he supposedly has a foot long!!!!)[:D]

Lordandmaster -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 9:45:58 AM)
OK, I need to step in here and clear up a misconception that seems to have sprung up somehow. I DO last 2-4 hours. I DON'T have a foot-long penis. I don't want Americans for Truth in Advertising banging on my door, after all.

LadyAngelika -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 9:50:37 AM)
quote: I DON'T have a foot-long penis. Yeah, someone got you confused with LRODANDMASTER who does has a foot long, or so he claims. - LA

TexasMaam -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 9:52:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster OK, I need to step in here and clear up a misconception that seems to have sprung up somehow. I DO last 2-4 hours. I DON'T have a foot-long penis. I don't want Americans for Truth in Advertising banging on my door, after all. I KEEP writing those pharmaceutical manufacturers who ask 'are you ready?', asking them to change their script. "If you experience an erection that lasts for more than four hours, seek immediate help from TexasMaam, www.collarme.com". Darnit. They won't budge.

kc692 -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 9:56:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika quote: I DON'T have a foot-long penis. Yeah, someone got you confused with LRODANDMASTER who does has a foot long, or so he claims. - LA I thought LRODANDMASTER had a foot and a half?[:D]

Lordandmaster -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 10:00:33 AM)
Maybe people got confused because of my elephant pic.

krys -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 10:04:00 AM)
Well females do not have to make any effort whatsoever to be inundated by annoying spam type emails. We slaves get the whole "kneel bitch" one liner emails. Even I get a "I want to worship at your feet" email every once in awhile from a sub male. With my single line "Owned and not seeking" profile which clearly identifies me as a slave (and a Gorean one at that), I can imagine it took them a long time to read through and get to know me before sending off such an irresistable offer. So I can not imagine the heaps of spam these ladies have to wade through on a daily basis to pick out the rare nugget of quality. Forget the bag of toys, these women need hip waders! Far from being less of an effort, I think it takes more of an effort for them to find someone who is interested in them as more than a masterbatory whipping robot.

LadyShoshin -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 10:13:29 AM)
quote: Ok, since I LOVE when some make sweeping generalizations, here is what I have surmised so far from these dommes that have answered this post , a few other dommes, versus the OP, and imtempting who is making the generalization: This is from the profiles on the other side (Ladies, look at this as free advertising, please, smiles) LadyAngelika-4 VERY descriptive paragraphs (lovely legs btw, diva!!) GoddessDustyGold-about 24 paragraphs BlkTallFullFig- 6 paragraphs TexasMaam-16 paragraphs LadyShoshin-20 paragraphs DreamLadySnow- 1 very long descriptive paragraph krikket-3 descriptive paragraphs (not domme but poster) the tammyjo- 1 descriptive paragraph kc692- 4 very descriptive, long paragraphs tvmistresshelen- 2 very short paragraphs imtempting-2 sentences Imtempting, you might want to change your wording to "some", and then again you might not. Up to you. But, I would think there is not a lot of room to talk in your two cases, boys. Ya know, if ya'll don't get a lot of answers or emails, think you or your attitude might have ANYTHING to do with it? Whiners are SO attractive!!!!! Wow! Thanks for the research, 20 paragraphs huh? Maybe I should pare it down some. Nah, I guess not, if someone wants to know me badly enough to read the whole thing, that says something about their commitment. I am hoping to get a pic taken of me in my new leather corset with the "puppies" up & proud. The only corset I can wear for a whole evening and be comfortable in. However lambskin tends to get hot when one is playing. I was on my way to a party yesterday and the sweeping generalization was a burr under my corset. Searching for a sub is not my first priority, but whatever I do, I definately put effort into it, even to responding politely to "I luv u, I have no limits, I want 2 b ur slv" Now you want to talk no effort, what about those folks who can't be bothered to take the time to write using english and opt instead for cyber pidgen speak. Eeeeeewwwww

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 10:28:30 AM)
quote: Yeah, someone got you confused with LRODANDMASTER who does has a foot long, or so he claims. - LA Yup, you're the one who started this rumor (but I know you said about LROD), and KC ran with it, so until LaM came to clear it up, I believed you.[;)] M

AAkasha -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 10:31:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika quote: ORIGINAL: imtempting quote: ORIGINAL: imtempting quote: ORIGINAL: TVMistressHelen I've just seen a profile from a Mistress where she just says "Femdom looking for slaves." You can guarantee she'll get many many replies. Its just one of the many hypocritical things on CM where many Dommes expect full on profiles yet they think 'Im a Domme, Dont question me about it becuase I the one that asks the questions, be happy Im responding'..... ITs changed...... and I still stand by my comments. Right... and that's why I have 4 paragraphs and am not even seeking anyone. Hmmm... For the record, I have a description so that the people who post regularly with me on collarme can have a little bit of background about me if this is something that interests them. I have also responded to all polite inquiries. I consider it to be an obligation of a civil person. I understand what you are saying Imtemting but you are still generalizing way too much. You know from experience that we aren't these vultures that we are often portrayed to be. Of course there are going to be vultures. They are everywhere, not just in this realm. There are also male sub vultures who will tell us whatever we want to hear to get off. This “hooking up with someone” game can be a real nasty one and most of us have lost at it at least once. But comments with an air of bitterness do nothing to advance the situation. “Dommes” that will not allow you to ask them questions or tell you that you are privilege because they are giving you the time of day aren’t worth anyone’s time. That is probably the best warning signal that they don’t have a clue what they are doing. Either that or they have absolutely no social skills. Either way, it’s a sign to move to the next one. You should all be thankful when the warning signs of a maladjusted person are obvious from the get go! - LA It's ironic that the "types" of femdoms that most men like imtempting complain about aren't even reading these forums anyway. You won't find "money dommes" here, scammers/fakes here, or lazy femdoms who just want email. Did anyone else point out that it's just as easy for a guy to post as a femdom and say "Email me, slaves."? Lots of men PRETEND to be women to make guys write out "what you would do for me, slave" stories -- ie, wank off material for the guy to read. For the most part, I think the femdoms that post here regularly are not in any of the categories the subs complain about. What kind of woman would spend time posting on forums simply to discuss issues of BDSM? Akasha

Misstoyou -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 10:59:32 AM)
I'm a minimialist in my profile, but it worked for me. It's kept spam to a minimum, and I found my sub! Actually, I think the best filter was my listing only minimal "interests." [;)]

MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 11:42:57 AM)
quote: I've just seen a profile from a Mistress where she just says "Femdom looking for slaves." You can guarantee she'll get many many replies. Yes. She will. Maybe 1 in 100 will be somewhat sort of what she wants because she hasn't put any other information there. So what exactly is your issue? For a while I had just one line in my profile, indicating I was not looking. I got at least one email a day anyway, most often from someone out in left field. So I updated my profile indicating I am open to meeting someone within some rather strict guidelines (I have a busy life and not much time for relationships right now). I still get responses from those who clearly don't fit my requirements, but not nearly as many. It's just the way it is.

kc692 -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 11:52:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyShoshin quote: Ok, since I LOVE when some make sweeping generalizations, here is what I have surmised so far from these dommes that have answered this post , a few other dommes, versus the OP, and imtempting who is making the generalization: This is from the profiles on the other side (Ladies, look at this as free advertising, please, smiles) LadyAngelika-4 VERY descriptive paragraphs (lovely legs btw, diva!!) GoddessDustyGold-about 24 paragraphs BlkTallFullFig- 6 paragraphs TexasMaam-16 paragraphs LadyShoshin-20 paragraphs DreamLadySnow- 1 very long descriptive paragraph krikket-3 descriptive paragraphs (not domme but poster) the tammyjo- 1 descriptive paragraph kc692- 4 very descriptive, long paragraphs tvmistresshelen- 2 very short paragraphs imtempting-2 sentences Imtempting, you might want to change your wording to "some", and then again you might not. Up to you. But, I would think there is not a lot of room to talk in your two cases, boys. Ya know, if ya'll don't get a lot of answers or emails, think you or your attitude might have ANYTHING to do with it? Whiners are SO attractive!!!!! Wow! Thanks for the research, 20 paragraphs huh? Maybe I should pare it down some. Nah, I guess not, if someone wants to know me badly enough to read the whole thing, that says something about their commitment. I am hoping to get a pic taken of me in my new leather corset with the "puppies" up & proud. The only corset I can wear for a whole evening and be comfortable in. However lambskin tends to get hot when one is playing. I was on my way to a party yesterday and the sweeping generalization was a burr under my corset. Searching for a sub is not my first priority, but whatever I do, I definately put effort into it, even to responding politely to "I luv u, I have no limits, I want 2 b ur slv" Now you want to talk no effort, what about those folks who can't be bothered to take the time to write using english and opt instead for cyber pidgen speak. Eeeeeewwwww Don't you dare change a word of your profile!!It's wonderful..I actually read it today instead of just counting paragraphs for the response. It is apparent that you carefully considered what you listed. And, since I finally read it, care to email me on the other side and give me ideas of hand made home made items? I would be very interested!!

kc692 -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 11:56:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig quote: Yeah, someone got you confused with LRODANDMASTER who does has a foot long, or so he claims. - LA Yup, you're the one who started this rumor (but I know you said about LROD), and KC ran with it, so until LaM came to clear it up, I believed you.[;)] M Okay, so, LRODANDMASTER has foot long, and LaM has ???? I'm confused..Does that mean you aren't interested anymore, M? lol

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 12:17:38 PM)
quote: Okay, so, LRODANDMASTER has foot long, and LaM has ???? I'm confused..Does that mean you aren't interested anymore, M? lol Oh sure I'm interested, I wasn't joining because of foot long, I wanted to watch because I think you're both hot and wild, and I wanted lessons. Anyway, I suggest ask TexasMaam to join if he's on one of his lasting 4hour days. M

kc692 -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 12:42:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig quote: Okay, so, LRODANDMASTER has foot long, and LaM has ???? I'm confused..Does that mean you aren't interested anymore, M? lol Oh sure I'm interested, I wasn't joining because of foot long, I wanted to watch because I think you're both hot and wild, and I wanted lessons. Anyway, I suggest ask TexasMaam to join if he's on one of his lasting 4hour days. M I'm sorry I thought I knew I asked...Texas Maam in addition to pics, you wanna join in too? We can always get a tripod to hold the cam!! And, M, too funny!!! foot long ??? New nickname??? [:)][:)][:)][:)]

LadyAngelika -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 1:50:59 PM)
quote: We can always get a tripod to hold the cam!! Well apparently with LROD's endowment, he could be the tripod! - LA

pinkpleasures -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 2:05:48 PM)
quote: Lol! Maybe I should clarify that I was talking about the lack of effort put into some profiles versus the staggering number of replies that even such one-line profiles can generate, not the actual work and preparation put in behind the scenes by genuine people. TV MistressHelen i do not get Your point. Since when did quantity equal quality? pinkpleasures

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