RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they?

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Lordandmaster -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/19/2005 12:53:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kc692 Ya admitting you need help talking care of us??? Apparently the biggest problem would be deciding which of you gets to go first. Maybe you all could wrestle for it. quote: Don't be skeered, we're just teasing,,,,, If only.

imtempting -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/19/2005 1:14:57 AM)
Im a bit amazed how people can look at a few people's profiles and assume everyone has one like that.... Its also amazing how a Female Dominant can answer a question in which she would have no real idea on the answer that also goes for the other female dommes. How many of you ever approach a Female Dominant with a submissive profile?? Ill take your ideas and Assume it will be um never... Could that be correct? Now I will take your Assumptions again and say its only one or two submissives that email with single answers or question to female dominants or have small profiles ( myself included). Now since im not a female dominant and only hear from others I can assume thats correct and then argue to death that hey your wrong and stop generalizations about submissives.... As for dommes not letting you ask questions well once again comes down to the Not being a submissive and not knowing. The comment about those dommes not reading these forums just because they dont does not mean they dont exsist. Now im off for a shower :)

LadyAngelika -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/19/2005 5:02:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: imtempting Im a bit amazed how people can look at a few people's profiles and assume everyone has one like that.... No one made that assumption imtempting. KC simply showed examples of well written profiles. quote: Its also amazing how a Female Dominant can answer a question in which she would have no real idea on the answer that also goes for the other female dommes. Actually, I would say that statement is incorrect. We do talk to one another you know. quote: How many of you ever approach a Female Dominant with a submissive profile?? Ill take your ideas and Assume it will be um never... Could that be correct? I have. It's been ages, but I have. Not here... it was about 6 years ago on bondage.com. I agree, not easy! Then again, I don't like things when they come easily to me. I also know some men who list as submissive and don't even have to approach a Domme. They get almost as much email as me. Go figure huh? quote: Now I will take your Assumptions again and say its only one or two submissives that email with single answers or question to female dominants or have small profiles ( myself included). Now since im not a female dominant and only hear from others I can assume thats correct and then argue to death that hey your wrong and stop generalizations about submissives.... imtempting, never assume. When you assume, you make an ass out of u and me. I can only speak for myself... I have made a few generalizations about submissives, yes. I think that in general, I don't bash them. I would find that counter productive. Not every man with submissive tendencies is a match made in heaven for me. The kind of chemistry required to make something really work is really rare and I know that my search has been long and at times painful. But I remain hopeful and not bitter. quote: As for dommes not letting you ask questions well once again comes down to the Not being a submissive and not knowing. I disagree. But here, we can agree to disagree if you like. quote: The comment about those dommes not reading these forums just because they dont does not mean they dont exsist. No one said they don't exist. We are just telling you to click Next profile when someone treats you like this instead of making generalisations about Dommes being so awful. Nothing is going to get resolved from such complaints. Resolution comes through action, not words. quote: Now im off for a shower :) Make sure to wash behind your ears young man! :-p - LA

TVMistressHelen -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/19/2005 2:06:02 PM)
Good 'ere, innit! [:)]

pinkpleasures -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/19/2005 5:21:47 PM)
quote: OK NEW RULE NAYONE WHO TLAKS ABOUT MY ENDOWMNET HASTA PAY A TRIBUTE I MEAN LIEK ALL YOU DOMMAYS GET TRIBUTE ALL THE TIME PPARENTLY SO WHY CA'NT I? LRODANDMASTER What would You like? New shoes? pinkpleasures

LadyAngelika -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/19/2005 5:30:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TVMistressHelen Good 'ere, innit! [:)] Could you (or someone else) decrypt this please :-) Many thanks - LA

LadiesBladewing -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/19/2005 5:37:50 PM)
The quality of response one can expect to receive is liable to be in direct relation to the effort that one puts into the project... On the other hand, it may just be that this individual would rather rake in the whole yardful of leaves, then hunt for the few acorns hidden beneath. In either case, finding, training, raising and keeping servant property is work--anyone who tells you differently has never had the experience. Lady Zephyr quote: ORIGINAL: TVMistressHelen I've just seen a profile from a Mistress where she just says "Femdom looking for slaves." You can guarantee she'll get many many replies.

frenchpet -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/19/2005 5:54:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika quote: ORIGINAL: TVMistressHelen Good 'ere, innit! [:)] Could you (or someone else) decrypt this please :-) Many thanks - LA "innit" is "n'est-ce pas". It's an invariable tag question that comes from a language somewhere in "Indias" (I think it's either in Pashtu or Bengali, just read an article that mentionned it). I guess it's spreading very fast because it's very close to "isn't it", so people use it as a contraction of "isn't it". 'ere stands for here :) edit : I just checked what I had read. There isn't an agreement about the origin of "innit". Philip Hensher wrote in the Independant, in his article Rejoice that rhyming slang is no longer nang : "I suspect, too, that the fast-spreading invariable innit - "I went to the shops, innit?" is borrowed from a similar invariant question tag in Bengali. That's quite a subtle borrowing, bending English grammar into parallel forms, and though initially it just sounds incorrect, in reality it is created by a valid, different grammatical sensiblity." But that's just his opinion. Other people disagree. I'm a scientist, so I ain't gonna give my opinion...

Lordandmaster -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/19/2005 10:05:43 PM)
How about a nice little envelope of recently shaven public hair... quote: ORIGINAL: pinkpleasures What woukd You like? New shoes?

UtopianRanger -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/19/2005 10:29:11 PM)
quote: For the most part, I think the femdoms that post here regularly are not in any of the categories the subs complain about. What kind of woman would spend time posting on forums simply to discuss issues of BDSM? I would very much concur with that. Besides.... let alone defend themselves, how many of the money-girls have you seen that are willing to come here and play the ''Association game.''? HAR!! Anyway... I think the ladies here are top notch. out -- - The Ranger

LadyAngelika -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/20/2005 5:01:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: frenchpet I ain't gonna give my opinion... But thanks for the decryption. And yes, TVMistressHelen, it is good here. ;-) - LA

AlexChapmon -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/20/2005 2:08:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DreamyLadySnow Most of the males who answer Domme's ads are NOT submissive. They may be horny, lonely, twelve, married, or whatever, but they are not looking for a relationship with a dominant woman. This is very well said. I agree with this 100%. This is why I dont really consider myself a submissive as much as a fetishist. Some subs are only looking for a Pro Domme to satisfy there fetish. I dont think there is anything wrong with this, but there should be a way to distinguish a difference between a sub, slave or fetishist. There maybe be men out there that are truely submissive and want to serve a female...but I believe most of them are like me and only want a particular fetish or fetishes satisfied. I wrote an article about this. Articles

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/20/2005 5:18:01 PM)
No effort...are you kidding? No matter what you put in your profile you get those who dont match what you want. Even when you are very specific,you still get the mail asking for what you clearly state is a NO. I bet She is a busy Lady and doesnt have time to sit down and spell it all out,OR maybe She is open to anything and everything,and Her profile gives that impression. I seem to be getting(mostly anyway) the people I want the way My profile is written...short,sweet and to the point.

Evanesce -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/20/2005 8:21:57 PM)
I'd say get the guy a spell checker. Give ME the new shoes! [;)] quote: ORIGINAL: pinkpleasures quote: OK NEW RULE NAYONE WHO TLAKS ABOUT MY ENDOWMNET HASTA PAY A TRIBUTE I MEAN LIEK ALL YOU DOMMAYS GET TRIBUTE ALL THE TIME PPARENTLY SO WHY CA'NT I? LRODANDMASTER What woukd You like? New shoes? pinkpleasures

pinkpleasures -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/21/2005 6:19:51 AM)
quote: How about a nice little envelope of recently shaven public hair... Lordandmaster <blushes to death....funeral to be held in cyberspace, LOL> pinkpleasures

pinkpleasures -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/21/2005 6:29:18 AM)
quote: Right, if you're so interested in my ass, why do you keep talking about my penis? It's OK, I'm used to it. Now and then I feel like someone needs ta back the bitches OFFA me. Lordandmaster i'm sorry...was the convo about Your penis and ass a bit too imtimate? ROFLMAO. Poor Lam. pinkpleasures

Lordandmaster -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/21/2005 8:38:07 AM)
Just e me on the other side for my mailing address. quote: ORIGINAL: pinkpleasures quote: How about a nice little envelope of recently shaven public hair... Lordandmaster <blushes to death....funeral to be held in cyberspace, LOL>

HalloweenWhite -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/21/2005 10:33:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TVMistressHelen I've just seen a profile from a Mistress where she just says "Femdom looking for slaves." You can guarantee she'll get many many replies. The reason maybe that us boys are just hornier than the ladies,or we just seem to have problems controling our "hornyness". Btw,just because someone gets a lot of replies doesnt mean the vast majority are worth replying to. HalloweenWhite.

goddessDeliliah -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/25/2005 9:30:08 PM)
I myself can understand why someone would only put that in their profile for me it means that the options are open for discussion if someone put in their profile what they are into some individuals on this site and others as well do not like reading the whole profile they basically go by the headlines. At lease that is how I see it.

DiaperedBabySub -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/26/2005 4:26:56 AM)
I read a lot of these posts and actuly talked to a good Domme friend of mine about things related to this subject. I was a little taken back and asked her ("why, when I write a nice introduction about myself and about my lifestyle and what I'm looking for , why do I get one word responces saying (No). Its seems a little hypocritical to me, when most profiles I read say, no one liners and must send a picture or you will be deleted and blocked. We both agree that its supply and demand. when you are very much in demand and has thousands of guys begging to be your slave or sub,you can do less work and still get what your looking for. So if a domme came on here and wrote (BOO), I bet she would get bombarded with almost as many e-mails as someone who wrote an nice introduction. Its pretty sad but thats life. punkin

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