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ManOwner -> RE: Fem doms just don't have to make any effort at all, do they? (9/18/2005 10:54:11 PM)
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Oh, no. Absolutely not, no effort. Witness this excerpt from my profile on another site:
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Pet Peeves: When a guy says to me, "Gee, Ma'am, you are so lucky to be a dominant woman. You're floating in a virtual sea of submissive males, and you can have your choice of whomever you want."
I get this all the time, and yet there are hundreds of suspiciously available dominant women floating around the BDSM community. Why are we not lounging on the porches of our country estates being served a mint julep by one of the 20 male slaves we keep in a stable out back?
It is because the idea that there are 20 available male subs for every dominant female, like so much else that people say, is bullshit. No one really knows what the ratio is, and the only ones that repeat this tired platitude are those that think the numbers are to blame for their continued single-ness.
Now that you are aware of my feelings on this issue, you have no excuse. Be aware that you will instantly drop 50 stories in my opinion if you say something of that sort in a conversation with me.
Yes, there are more men who identify as "submissive" than I can shake a stick at. There are scores of guys that get a stiffie at the idea of kneeling at a woman's command or being tied up and spanked. But most of those don't actually want to be a woman's slave, it's just a way to blow their load. Sometimes I talk to a guy that thinks he does want to be a slave. He comes out, we have coffee, if things go well I might let him lick my shoes a little, but watch what happens as soon as I ask how much time every week he thinks he can spend serving me: "Oh, I'm so sorry, Ma'am, my car is so unreliable...my work schedule is so busy...my home is so far away...my parents and friends don't understand...I don't think I can serve you the way you deserve...I...I thought we were going to do nipple clamps..."
Furthermore as far as ownership goes, are you aware of the fact that men and dogs are like, two inches apart on the evolutionary ladder? Training one is like having a puppy for the rest of your life. You're constantly spraying the damn thing with water to get it off the couch.
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