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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 10:15:52 AM   
MrRandallspe


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Status: offline 		Maybe I should have stayed in SoCal when I got out of the Navy.
I seem to find so many "possible" subs/slaves around the SD area now,,I kind of wish I stayed there.  Yet, I am glad that I came home and I am too entrenched in things I enjoy here to pack up and head back to SoCal to live. Maybe I ought to go there,find the right sub/slave and return home.....


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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 10:25:52 AM   
SubbieOnWheels


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ORIGINAL: MrRandallspe

Maybe I should have stayed in SoCal when I got out of the Navy.
I seem to find so many "possible" subs/slaves around the SD area now,,I kind of wish I stayed there.  Yet, I am glad that I came home and I am too entrenched in things I enjoy here to pack up and head back to SoCal to live. Maybe I ought to go there,find the right sub/slave and return home.....




Mmmmm - former Navy - my favorite Service. And SD is one of my favorite cities. Yep - too bad.

Although, i don't think I'm exactly what you're looking for. I'm too independent.

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 10:39:55 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Mmmmm princess, queen, contesta but no Kings. Ok. From now on Im King Dnomyar. You may address me as your Majesty. Bowing down is not optional. Do it.  

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 10:47:18 AM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		They want someone and they are lonely. Their profiles are written to entice dominants and masters to write to them. However, they just aren't interested in you for some reason.

OR

Have you made sure you age falls into what they looking for or location? Being willing to relocate doesn't always mean to anywhere. Your letters could be going into bulk mail and never seen.


Personally, I don't see any reason to call them bedroom subs or princesses. From the insults I've gotten from masters and dominants when I said "No thanks, I'm already owned", which is pretty damn easy to find out from my profile, I'll probably do the no response thing too if I find myself looking again. No point in dealing with it. No response is a response.

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 10:49:47 AM   
MrRandallspe


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Status: offline 		Subbie,
I do enjoy a subbie/slave that has indepence traits. I know that when she is at work or doing things on her own,,she can and will stand up for herself.This type makes me content as I know they will not take sh@t from others.
I am not looking for a meek little shy one that will crawl into a hole when someone shouts "Boo", I am looking for one that submits for me only and who else that I tell her to do so for. I am not seeking a slut or a whore that expects me to share her with others. Well,,I will share her with selected females if my subbie is bi.


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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 11:13:47 AM   
Sundowner


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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

... stuff

My name's actually Eric.  Not Duane.



Thanks Noah for prompting the outing - I quite fancied Eric. (Just not enough courage to send the enormously attractive "Kneel bitch" email thing though).

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 11:15:30 AM   
Sundowner


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ORIGINAL: SubbieOnWheels

...

I'm one, BTW, who reads even my bulk mail  and responds to any that are decently presented, even if I only say, "thanks, but ..."



You're one of the good guys SOW - well done. If only all were like you.

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 11:26:56 AM   
SailingBum


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MrRandallspe

Maybe I should have stayed in SoCal when I got out of the Navy.
I seem to find so many "possible" subs/slaves around the SD area now,,I kind of wish I stayed there.  Yet, I am glad that I came home and I am too entrenched in things I enjoy here to pack up and head back to SoCal to live. Maybe I ought to go there,find the right sub/slave and return home.....




yea I heard that is where all the hot girls are.  Either that or montana to be a dental floss tycoon.  Ya know this is a crafty way to have the girls perv your profile.  Sets a mind to wondering what his motives are???

BadOne

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 11:41:03 AM   
Sundowner


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MrRandallspe

Maybe I should have stayed in SoCal when I got out of the Navy.
I seem to find so many "possible" subs/slaves around the SD area now,,I kind of wish I stayed there.  Yet, I am glad that I came home and I am too entrenched in things I enjoy here to pack up and head back to SoCal to live. Maybe I ought to go there,find the right sub/slave and return home.....




Hmmm.  Where is this SoCal and SD of which you speak? Presumably not in the UK? Sounds as if I'd like to visit this haven which teems with subs/slaves. Or better still, since you know where this Utopia is, when you visit and find one, post her sister to me would you?

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 11:49:54 AM   
SailingBum


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Status: offline 		southern california.. san diego  lotsa beach and 75 deg year round



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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 11:54:26 AM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		San Diego California.. one my favorite places to live.  Nearly perfect weather, sailors with sexy strides, smiles all around, and the wonderful beach which I miss more than anything.  LOL I don't know if he goes to pick up an SD submissive if she could stand living in the cold of Illinois. 
Gawd I miss Ocean Beach in San Diego county.
Kyst

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 11:58:10 AM   
Madame4a


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Status: offline 		my disclaimer... I don't know much about heterosexual female submissives... but I looked at your profile and think its very nice, you'd make a nice friend to me...

that said -- as someone noted, the women you describe sound a bit desparate, sometimes when you are that way, when the object of your desire shows up, you run, its too scary for some to get what they want...

also, if you're not getting the desired result, don't keep doing the same thing... perhaps its time to change things up a bit?  I only suggest that as you seem not to be getting the result you want... and maybe post this in 'ask a submissive'  couldn't hurt...

good luck...

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 12:14:10 PM   
MrRandallspe


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Status: offline 		I see that there is a need for clarification here.
I am in Indiana. I am seeking either a submissive or a slave females who is in decent shape and whose weight is much less than my own  as well as she must be easy on the eyes.
As to the slight that if the right one comes along, that I would run,,,you are vastly mistaken. I have had several subs and slaves over the past years and all were greatly enjoyed. I am seeking one sub/slave to enjoy and share my life with in a LTR 24/7.
Damn, that smacks of  what a true marriage is, doesn't it? Yet she shall be submissive or a slave for me to enjoy.
Perhaps many of you have gotten the wrong impression as to my original comment.
I am wondering why so many female subs/slaves say one thing then never reply or run and hide when get a repsonse that matches what they claim to want and need so badly.


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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 12:17:35 PM   
Madame4a


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Status: offline 		Actually, I was not meaning you when I said that.. I was suggesting the women that you mention were like that... and actually, people in general can be like that, but I was putting it forth as a potential explanation for the behavior you've encountered

it wasn't a slight at all... not sure how you got that from what I wrote...

I think what you're looking for is clear; it is possible its too rigid though, some people do not believe they can live up to certain things.

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 12:19:32 PM   
KatyLied


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quote:

I am wondering why so many female subs/slaves say one thing then never reply or run and hide when get a repsonse that matches what they claim to want and need so badly.


It's simple.
no response = no interest.

And since you've opened the door:
quote:

have had several subs and slaves over the past years and all were greatly enjoyed.


What happened with those relationships?



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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 12:24:53 PM   
utterlybutterfli


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quote:

I am seeking either a submissive or a slave females who is in decent shape and whose weight is much less than my own as well as she must be easy on the eyes.
quote:

ORIGINAL: MrRandallspe

Snippety snip

Perhaps you aren't particularly easy on the eye to these women? Or not tall enough? Or perhaps some, like me, have facial hair as a hard limit.
I'm not saying you shouldn't be choosy. Just maybe.. realistic?






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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 12:30:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MrRandallspe

I see that there is a need for clarification here.
I am in Indiana. I am seeking either a submissive or a slave females who is in decent shape and whose weight is much less than my own  as well as she must be easy on the eyes.

Perhaps that is part of your problem - the women you are looking for have a lot of options. They may well want someone as in shape and easy on the eyes as they are. You can't blame them for that.
quote:


Perhaps many of you have gotten the wrong impression as to my original comment.
I am wondering why so many female subs/slaves say one thing then never reply or run and hide when get a repsonse that matches what they claim to want and need so badly.

Saying that they want an owner and want one badly doesn't mean they want just any old owner. I've been fairly marriage and family minded most of my life - Valyraen and I agreed coming into this relationship (within the first week I think) that we were both looking towards that goal and if we didn't think it would work, we would split up. 

However, that didn't mean I wanted just any ol' man willing to buy me a ring, wear a tux on a specific day, and plant some baby seeds in me. I've turned down and broken up with my fair share of unsuitable partners. They are probably doing the same.

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 12:39:33 PM   
PanthersMom


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Status: offline 		just because they say they want it doesn't mean they really do.  alot of these so called subs just like the chase, seeing how much attention they can get.  these seem to be the girls you're looking at.  lots of other real subs out there.  look for people who aren't "willing" to run the second you come calling.

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 12:45:29 PM   
Noah


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

You know, I wouldn't know because I am a garage submissive since my Daddy bought me a pallet and put it next to his car



A stevedore bought a pallet? What's this world coming to?

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/23/2008 12:47:42 PM   
Noah


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ORIGINAL: Sundowner

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

... stuff

My name's actually Eric.  Not Duane.



Thanks Noah for prompting the outing - I quite fancied Eric. (Just not enough courage to send the enormously attractive "Kneel bitch" email thing though).


Dude! He loves that shit.

But his name is Duane.

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