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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/24/2008 10:09:00 AM

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To be honest,,,I saw what time it was and I needed to get to bed and sleep. 48+ hours of being on the go had caught up with me. Besides.....(calmly) I really had gotten the advice that I was seeking.

If I do not match what others are looking for,,,,,,then do not chastize me or bitch at me or about me.......
when you are clothes shopping,,do you bitch or chastize clothes when they are not the right color,size or style that you are looking for? Or do you just pass them by and keep looking?
Have respect for others and do the same,,please.

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/24/2008 10:12:00 AM

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Why do so many female submissives/slave post that they are needing a Dom or even a Master to serve and obey right away. Their profile and comments drip with them almost begging and crying to belong to a Dom/Master,,for a man to take them in,own them and that they will serve with total obedince..Even those that claim they will relocate anywhere,,even at their cost.
Yet, they read my response,,I do not get the slighest response from them. Not even a :"sorry..I seek someone closer", "sorry, I seek someone....?"
No response at all.
They want a man with experience,,,I have 30 years of experience.
They want an older man and at 50,I am within their age range.
If they are just playing,it would be great to get them off odf here.
As well,,if they have been collared,put them in a different catagory....

oh yes but it's the same for me when i get solicited my subbie slave men, especially on Informed Consent and Adult Friend Finder.....they want to worship me and my Master, worship me, marry me, kiss my feet, lick my arse and move the earth for me, cuckhold themselves for life....but are then only available on a Wednesday night or can't text from home>>>.wtf?????? ahhh never mind Human Rights and all that jazz......

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/24/2008 11:01:19 AM

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Isn't that what women are doing when they do not respond to your emails?
Seems simple to me.
That part is a no brainer. How you reacted before logging off though.. that was almost a stomp.
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Or do you just pass them by and keep looking?
Have respect for others and do the same,,please.

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/24/2008 11:03:21 AM

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in reading your profile and your posts... 2 things come to mind. like so many, you are looking for a sub/slave... it seems to be interchangeable... to many of us there is a world of difference between a submissive and a slave... which is it that you need? the second is your profile is like hundreds of others on here... you talk about what you want and what you have to offer - it's all about things... "stuff" i call it .... and the physical aspects of yourself and the person. you don't share anything from your heart about what you have to offer on an emotional level... how you understand things... what you understand of your submissive or slave that you desire. what do you understand of your needs? what do you understand of the needs of a submissive or slave?

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/24/2008 12:22:41 PM

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Because they don't click with you.

Do you really want the first available warm body? Or would you prefer to have a connection to someone you truly like, love and laugh with. So do they. The fact that they hope to find that special someone soon is what they're saying, not that they are so desperate they'll follow home the guy in the mall with minihandcuffs hanging from his belt.

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/24/2008 5:29:28 PM

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Well,,do pardon me if I have failed to present myself as a suave, dripping with charm, "I have candles all around my bath", I lavish my house with flowers type of flowing rhetoric.
I fail to find the same "charm" in other profiles from either Dom/Master's as well a Domme,subbie or slave profiles.
As many times as you have checked out my profile, one would think that you have every word down pat.

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/24/2008 5:39:28 PM

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Well,,do pardon me if I have failed to present myself as a suave, dripping with charm, "I have candles all around my bath", I lavish my house with flowers type of flowing rhetoric.
I fail to find the same "charm" in other profiles from either Dom/Master's as well a Domme,subbie or slave profiles.
As many times as you have checked out my profile, one would think that you have every word down pat.

Here's the thing. You post for advice. You get advice. You don't like some of the advice. You flame the advice. My advice.
Don't ask for advice!

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RE: Deeply puzzledRE: Deeply puzzled - 2/25/2008 9:58:18 PM

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Yes Sir in regards to You being puzzled by why submissves/slaves wish too be with a Dom/Master and an experienced one too boot is not about wanting too serve them immediately at least not in my case anyway, my wish is too find a Dominant who meets my critieria and mirrors my interests inside and outside of the lifestyle. i feel this is very important in any D/s relationship all good things come in time. it takes to train, nurture,guide a submissive enough so the Dominant can gain her trust too submit too Him completely. As they say rome wasn't built in a day Sir. As far as them wanting too re-locate immediatly that is a moot point you have too get to know that person first spend sometime with them a few months going to see them and vise versa. Establishing something real and secure and then discuss the option of re-locating. Unfortuately there are many submissive's that have been raked over and over by Dominants online that they are very frustrated by the whole experience as am i Sir. Very much so the Dominants online want too know how You will perform sexually before they really take the time too get to know us, real people with very real feelings were not just a piece of meat or a doormat just because we expect a Dominant to except our submission as a gift something that will be cherished and guarded with care and concern. Yes Sir You did make somewhat of a valid point here but heres a question for You here i am practically sitting in Your back yard in the same town and You wouldn't give me the time of day actually Your reply message was to piss off more or less. Just because i do not weight 135lbs have perfect breasts and i am the same age as You are doesn't mean that there isn't beauty within..i am a very cultured, educated, intelligent female submissive who was born into submission this is my calling. I may not have a Masters in anything but by God i do know how too serve my one and i do it very well.

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/26/2008 1:22:11 AM

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Just because they want these things doesn't mean they want you. Just because they say that want these things doesn't mean they have a clue what they're talking about. Just use it as a filtering tool and move on.

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RE: Deeply puzzled - 2/26/2008 6:58:19 AM

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Judging by the way you get all defensive and pissy when confronted with honest responses, I think it's clear that if you talk to them the way you've spoken here, of course you aren't getting any responses. Hell, if they've checked out this post and your attitude, that in itself will cause them to block you. You're too thin skinned for me.

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