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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 3:38:31 PM   
givemyall


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ORIGINAL: Sweet1Maybe4U

well...Ive been told Im an Amazon. I stand 5'11 without heels..Ive had quite a few comments in person and online about it not being "normal" for a girl to be this tall...that God made a mistake...or that Im a freak for being tall..*shrugs...but Ive been this tall since I was 10 years old..Others have said I look like a model...*rolls eyes....Im just me!

Im also very glad that my Dom is very secure in His Manhood. He says it doesnt bother Him in the least if I wear my 2-3 inch heels.


There is NOTHING freakish about being your height, I think tall women look fabuous when they are comfortable with it...... I had a friend who was 6'2 and she used to slouch, it used to make me mad as hell because her height just added to her natural beauty - its very very sexy and im very envious!

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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 3:41:08 PM   
Sweet1Maybe4U


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Status: offline 		Ya know sweetwenchie...I am really enjoying this music..I wish i could make a copy on a cd of it...Youve done a wonderful job of mixing the music..Youre really good at it..

I should stay on topic....Pics have good and bad to them...I vote for having them.....

*listens to "Killing me softley"....dang! Where is my Sir when Im in da mood...? Dang it!

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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 3:42:21 PM   
Bella1965


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Personally, I like seeing a picture on a person's profile. This may sound a bit shallow, but you can tell certain things about a person from a picture. Hygiene, attention to detail, confidence, etc. My avatar for the forums is some goofy little fairy because I thought it was appealing in a gothic manner. As sweetwenchie mentioned, having a photograph(s) on one's profile also clears up any possibility of misconceptions.

As to what may be defined as "Amazonian"? There's a toy shop in the Village called Tic Tac Toe (or whatever name it goes by now). One of the female staff members was 6'6" and 230 lbs. She was built like brick shit house. I think she qualified as Amazonian...


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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 3:45:07 PM   
darchChylde


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ORIGINAL: LadyRainfire
Sorry, LadyPact, didn't mean to hijack the thread!


Hell now!!!  I know it's not a very subly thing to do (hehe, i think i just made up a word but it's a keeper in my books), but i'm going to have to put my foot down here.  No taking credit or blame for MY hijacking LadyPact's thread!!!

I personally have no issue with women who are taller (or shorter than me), i actually prefer those who are significantly either (it's not a dominance or submissive issue to me, i just love contrasts)but i must admit that i can be disappointed by those artificial amazons.  It's great to look eye to eye or even up to a woman when i'm standing tall; but it's a bit of a let down if she takes off her heels and her hair is tickling my nose when we embrace.  But it's not a biggie, either way.

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Back to the actual thread, another reason that i personally post a pic is that i've long found that the hair is a great ice-breaker.  Since i seldom initiate contact, i've made a number of friends from emails starting with comments on my hair.


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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 3:49:11 PM   
Sweet1Maybe4U


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Status: offline 		aw....gee thanks givemyall...How sweet of you...
I stand tall, no slouching...I like being tall....well...except sometimes people ASSUME Im able to pick up heavy stuff like a quarterback or bodlybuilder.....
Funny about the brick house Bella...I have that song on my myspace.com page...LOL...I actually just added it a few days ago..Your frined would definitely be an Amazon..and a Brick House!

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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 3:50:52 PM   
DominaJayde


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ORIGINAL: Skully7000

Ladies do you give better preference to males who add a photo to there email.




That entirely depends on the pic they send, a nice facial shot, or one of then doing a hobby they love is great, however sending me a picture of themselves, with their rear to the camera and a dildo inserted REALLY doesn't present the best image, or give the best impression, there are things I enjoy looking at when I read my mail, but thats NOT one of them.

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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 3:52:28 PM   
LadyRainfire


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Status: offline 		Ya, I just accidently sat down on my hair yesterday. I knew it was getting long but I didn't realize how long it had gotten. The hair can be a great ice breaker and it will only turn up if there's a picture there. On the other hand, I'm getting to know people who don't have a picture on their profile and like Sweet1 says, I'm really getting to know them for *them* and not a preconceived notion based on a picture. I'm not expecting Adonis (ewwwww, wouldn't want him anyway...) but am very happy with the person I'm getting to know as a friend at this time.
 
Hmmmm, maybe I should be the short shrimp, near-Amazon then.... roflol...  

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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 3:57:00 PM   
MissIsis


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Status: offline 		I don't put a pic up for personal & business reasons.  I work for a fairly liberal company, but sometimes, people I work with have been recognized.  One person went to our supervisor & threatened not to give us anymore of their business if we didn't get rid of the guy.  He has been a great employee, & we are happy to have him working for us.  I wouldn't want to risk it if I don't have to. 

Another reason is that I am not on here because I am looking for anyone.  I am here mostly for the forums.  Sometimes, I will send a pic over to someone I have been corresponding with for a period of time, but generally, for my purposes, it usually isn't necessary. 

I get plenty of mail here without the pic. 

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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 3:57:23 PM   
Sweet1Maybe4U


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Status: offline 		dang, i wish i didnt make spelling error.. I need to do more spellcheck but keep forgetting...Im sorry..

BTW, darchChylde I do like the pics on your profile..along with givemyall's pics..

Im not a Domme but I have actually at times found myself attracted to your pics darchChylde and at moments uh.....have thoughts of dominating you.....is that normal?...too much info?...*shrugs. They are fleeting moments then I return to my normal self......*giggles....I think its the pics of you on the floor that make me think things...

Pics can be very profound..and gooofy....and maybe the mindset has alot to do with it....hormones?..


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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 4:07:03 PM   
Politesub53


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sweet1Maybe4U



Pics can be very profound..and gooofy....and maybe the mindset has alot to do with it....hormones?..



Or in my case, caffeine

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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 4:07:10 PM   
sweetwenchie


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Status: offline 		errrrrrr LadyRainfire... i think i'm the short one at less than 5' 2"      Not quite a midget but darn close! lol

Sweet1, i wish i could record it as well!  i missed my calling, i should have been a dj!   not  lmao   Glad you and Lady Rainfire are enjoying!

oh ummmmmmmm as for the topic at hand, i will answer emails from those without pictures, but i do prefer having something to perv. 

~humming Creature of the Night~

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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 4:07:19 PM   
Sweet1Maybe4U


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Status: offline 		Im glad I waited to see His picture. He tried early on to send me His picture but I told Sir that I wanted to get to know Him by His letters first. That way, He had to impress me with His words and not my reations to being physically attracted to Him. I knew that if He could get my attention in my mind the body would follow..and it did. He's incredible to me.
Sir is not the Adonis such as the Bodybuiding look. He is older but soooo wise and funny. He is a very handsome distinquished man and Im extremely attracted to Him~physically and mentally. He has often said that I 'get' Him..which makes it very good. Our sexual unions are exploisive..! (uh, not that Y'all wanted to know) but I think it is more because we took the time to look past just the physical to see that we really do match well in other areas. Even our vanilla world matches well..


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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 4:09:15 PM   
Sweet1Maybe4U


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Status: offline 		i like your pics too Politesub53. Your coffee pic makes me wonder just what has happened right before it was taken. Did you have eggs and bacon with it?..or just afternoon cookies..? *thinks she is getting hungry...

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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 4:11:41 PM   
Sweet1Maybe4U


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Status: offline 		oh hey!...my icon changed to a pair of handcuffs.....very appropriate for me...*giggles

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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 4:13:02 PM   
MissHarlet


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Status: offline 		PoliteSubs picture always makes me think he has just finished chores for his Mistress and is having a well deserved cup of coffee

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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 4:14:32 PM   
christine1


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Status: offline 		i like to see who i am talking to as well...and Jeffff, send away hehe...is that stalker like of me to ask that? 

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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 4:15:00 PM   
Politesub53


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Status: offline 		Hi sweet1, i was at my brothers and my nephew had just got a digital camera. I didnt know he was going to take the photo, so thats as natural a picture as it gets.

Im curious now, was your Sir as you had pictured him ?  Sometimes my thoughts on what a person looks like are pretty accurate, other times though i have been way out.

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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 4:18:01 PM   
Politesub53


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ORIGINAL: MissHarlet

PoliteSubs picture always makes me think he has just finished chores for his Mistress and is having a well deserved cup of coffee


yeah thats it..... i have just cleaned Miss Harlets house and am on my coffee break.

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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 4:19:54 PM   
MissHarlet


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RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 4:23:55 PM   
LadyRainfire


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Status: offline 		I like natural pictures, Politesub. I tend to think they're the best. I had some pictures taken professionally of me a couple of years ago and yes, they look good, yes, they really are me, and yes, I do look like that when I go out for a night on the town but boy, if I'm heading out on horseback for a day on the trails, or up to the mountains in the wilderness, or in the garden or sick in bed, ummm, no, I don't look quite like that.
 
And Sweet1? Don't worry about your thoughts about darkChylde... you're not the only one.  But since he makes it perfectly clear he's very happily owned and I'm perfectly clear I'm not looking for anyone (besides the fact that I don't poach, never have, never will!) it's a non-issue for me.  lol.....

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