Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: To pic or not to pic


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: To pic or not to pic Page: <<   < prev  1 2 [3] 4   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 4:31:56 PM   
Sweet1Maybe4U


Posts: 144
Joined: 8/1/2006
Status: offline 		Hmmm...was He as I pictured Him?...well I dont think I had at first pictured anything. He was so funny and polite that I just sooo much enjoyed receiving His letters that in the beginning I didnt even really care what He looked like. I was enchanted with His gentlemanly ways. He was one of the very few who didnt after a few emails say things like this: "So, what is it that turns you On? Uh, so...what do you look like naked? Could you send me a picture of your breasts? "
LOL...He actually always..always...was just nice to me. The first month or so He never even mentioned BDSM at all. He asked me my likes in music and movies..and told me dumb jokes. He chatted with me about his childhood. He liked how open I was in my writings on my profile.. things like that. If He had at anytime in the beginning had said things about me being naked I probably would have added Him to the mile high list of "NEXT"....and would have ended it. But, I guess because I could tell He was wanting more than just the sex stuff that it attracted me even more as time went on.
When we met for the first time it was for dinner. Ive heard you can tell by how much the Man wants by how much time He invests in the first meeting...True or not? I dont know. I do know that our dinner at CrossCreek was a few hours. Then, we moved it to the place across the street after they ran us out.....lol...So, I guess He really liked me...LOL......
I was very happy with the first picture he sent me. He was casually dressed and it was taken in the football Stadium of the Jacksonville Jaguars. There He stands with His HUGE long strong fingers craddling a football and He was smiling. I have that as my first and best impression of Him. He was masculine and strong in my mind. So, that is probably forever going to be the image I have of Him.
Im a very blessed girl. I adore Him. And thanks for asking..I sometimes feel I go on and on..but well, I cant help it..I like chatting...

_____________________________

It usually takes more than three weeks to prepare a good impromptu speech.
Mark Twain (1835 - 1910)

(in reply to Politesub53)
Profile   Post #: 41
RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 4:32:05 PM   
darchChylde


Posts: 5279
Joined: 9/28/2006
From: Warm Springs, GA but i live in San Francisco.
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Sweet1Maybe4U
BTW, darchChylde I do like the pics on your profile..along with givemyall's pics..

Im not a Domme but I have actually at times found myself attracted to your pics darchChylde and at moments uh.....have thoughts of dominating you.....is that normal?...too much info?...*shrugs. They are fleeting moments then I return to my normal self......*giggles....I think its the pics of you on the floor that make me think things...



*blushing and giggling*

Why thank you very much.  i get that alot on those pics, though the funny thing is i don't find anything particularly submissive about them.  At least it wasn't especially submissive at the time.  Ma'am was on the computer and i was just relaxing on the floor (no, not at Her feet; just on the floor and out of the walkway; which i wouldn't be if i was actually at Her feet) and the next thing i know, She's snapping pics.


_____________________________

I'm the man your mother warned you about...
if only to keep me to herself.

I'm a male dominant switch whose experienced as a poly sub to a dominant woman
.
Where the fuck do I post?

Proud Owner and Protector of chyldeschylde.

(in reply to Sweet1Maybe4U)
Profile   Post #: 42
RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 4:35:56 PM   
Sweet1Maybe4U


Posts: 144
Joined: 8/1/2006
Status: offline 		lol...Im glad Im not the only one with those thoughts about him...LOL...

But, I like the Natural pics too... I took mine with the digital camera and from my computer cam..I was just hamming it up and I think they look okay. At least everyone gets to see the real me....uh, except for the tossled morning hair looks without makeup..lol..that's reserved for those with strong stomachs....

_____________________________

It usually takes more than three weeks to prepare a good impromptu speech.
Mark Twain (1835 - 1910)

(in reply to LadyRainfire)
Profile   Post #: 43
RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 4:38:29 PM   
Sweet1Maybe4U


Posts: 144
Joined: 8/1/2006
Status: offline 		she knew a good thing darchChylde when she saw it..

I dont think they are submissive..just sexy I guess...maybe its because it shows the casual off guard part of you that is appealing...*shrugs..I dont know...but I like them..

_____________________________

It usually takes more than three weeks to prepare a good impromptu speech.
Mark Twain (1835 - 1910)

(in reply to darchChylde)
Profile   Post #: 44
RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 4:40:21 PM   
liketophoto


Posts: 763
Joined: 6/17/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I know this is a topic that's come around before, but I've found it a bit funny Myself the past couple of days.

I'm currently in the process of putting on a new main pic to My profile.  As most of you know, this takes a couple of days and removes the last main pic from showing up on your posts on the boards.

Though now I'm left wondering if I might be better off not posting a pic at all.

Any thoughts from anyone on this?  What are your comments on the advantages or disadvantages of not posting a pic?



I want to read a profile, a picture helps, but I want to know about a person.

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 45
RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 4:49:22 PM   
Sweet1Maybe4U


Posts: 144
Joined: 8/1/2006
Status: offline 		I like your photos liketophoto. They're cool.



_____________________________

It usually takes more than three weeks to prepare a good impromptu speech.
Mark Twain (1835 - 1910)

(in reply to liketophoto)
Profile   Post #: 46
RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/25/2008 5:46:13 PM   
MissHarlet


Posts: 2728
Joined: 9/11/2005
From: El Paso , TX US
Status: offline 		Most of the time when I finally see pictures they dont look like I expected .. even when I dont really know what I really expected .. LOL

_____________________________

Protectress of hearts/souls of all submissives calling Bounty's Place home, by order of Bounty~Proprietor

To be respected you must be respectful, to be loved you must be willing to love,
to be trusted you must be willing to trust.

(in reply to Sweet1Maybe4U)
Profile   Post #: 47
RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/26/2008 4:04:08 AM   
chezzy52


Posts: 220
Joined: 6/26/2007
Status: offline 		I am at the opposite end of the spectrum..i posted what i believed was a rather innocent pic of an old female friend with her hand across my mouth.The only thing showing was her hand..no face or anything and collarme disallowed it.Some of you know me in here,i can't post my regular pic at this time..number one..it is almost7 years old and number two..i can't get anyone to take a recent pic of me and as i have stated..i want to tell the truth.Can't be truthful with a 7 year old pic..i can send the old pic and if anyone desired the hand across the mouth pic to a regular e-mail address..i can't even send to a collarme e-mail addy.I don't why either..i am a dunce about computers..all i know is type..point and click.

(in reply to MissHarlet)
Profile   Post #: 48
RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/26/2008 4:32:23 AM   
Dnomyar


Posts: 7933
Joined: 6/27/2005
Status: offline 		I had a pic on for a long time but it dissapeared with no explanation. I just tried to put another one on but they say becaused it was cropped they wont put it on. So if you want to see what I look like email me my pic is on there.

(in reply to chezzy52)
Profile   Post #: 49
RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/26/2008 3:08:27 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		Ray, I admit I've kind of wondered about that.

_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to Dnomyar)
Profile   Post #: 50
RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/28/2008 6:05:25 AM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		Dang thing finally showed up.  I'll have to see how the mailbox goes from here.

_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 51
RE: To pic or not to pic - 2/28/2008 6:43:20 AM   
Dnomyar


Posts: 7933
Joined: 6/27/2005
Status: offline 		I ment to say IM me. Who knows how CM really works. They will turn someone down for the way thier pics look and ok another person with the same type of pic.

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 52
RE: To pic or not to pic - 3/6/2008 2:26:00 PM   
DianeB269


Posts: 1596
Joined: 10/30/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I know this is a topic that's come around before, but I've found it a bit funny Myself the past couple of days.

I'm currently in the process of putting on a new main pic to My profile.  As most of you know, this takes a couple of days and removes the last main pic from showing up on your posts on the boards.

The funny thing about this is, I haven't had even one single email come through My box that was in any way something distasteful.  Don't get Me wrong.  I'm not complaining about that one bit.  Though now I'm left wondering if I might be better off not posting a pic at all.

Any thoughts from anyone on this?  What are your comments on the advantages or disadvantages of not posting a pic?




I took my photos down for a month or so. I was getting 3 to 5 emails a week. Now that I have posted some new photos in my profile, I got 200 plus emails in 4 days Lots of them are very distasteful. I'm really thinking about removing them..


Diane

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 53
RE: To pic or not to pic - 3/6/2008 4:17:28 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		Diane, yes, now that My pic is up again, you wouldn't believe the things that I get.  I was rather happy with this this shot, so I'll deal with it.  Great pose, isn't it?



_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to DianeB269)
Profile   Post #: 54
RE: To pic or not to pic - 3/6/2008 4:18:56 PM   
DianeB269


Posts: 1596
Joined: 10/30/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Diane, yes, now that My pic is up again, you wouldn't believe the things that I get.  I was rather happy with this this shot, so I'll deal with it.  Great pose, isn't it?




You look very hot in that photo...


Diane

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 55
RE: To pic or not to pic - 3/6/2008 4:21:54 PM   
AAkasha


Posts: 4429
Joined: 11/27/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I know this is a topic that's come around before, but I've found it a bit funny Myself the past couple of days.

I'm currently in the process of putting on a new main pic to My profile.  As most of you know, this takes a couple of days and removes the last main pic from showing up on your posts on the boards.

The funny thing about this is, I haven't had even one single email come through My box that was in any way something distasteful.  Don't get Me wrong.  I'm not complaining about that one bit.  Though now I'm left wondering if I might be better off not posting a pic at all.

Any thoughts from anyone on this?  What are your comments on the advantages or disadvantages of not posting a pic?




I took my photos down for a month or so. I was getting 3 to 5 emails a week. Now that I have posted some new photos in my profile, I got 200 plus emails in 4 days Lots of them are very distasteful. I'm really thinking about removing them..


Diane



I removed my picture because I was getting too much mail also.  Is there a way to deactivate a photo for awhile and put it back up, or do you have to resubmit the photo each time?   Does anyone know?  I might try putting up some other pictures and see if it changes anything.

Akasha


_____________________________

Akasha's Web - All original Femdom content since 1995
Don't email me here, email me at [email protected]

(in reply to DianeB269)
Profile   Post #: 56
RE: To pic or not to pic - 3/6/2008 4:25:30 PM   
DianeB269


Posts: 1596
Joined: 10/30/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I know this is a topic that's come around before, but I've found it a bit funny Myself the past couple of days.

I'm currently in the process of putting on a new main pic to My profile.  As most of you know, this takes a couple of days and removes the last main pic from showing up on your posts on the boards.

The funny thing about this is, I haven't had even one single email come through My box that was in any way something distasteful.  Don't get Me wrong.  I'm not complaining about that one bit.  Though now I'm left wondering if I might be better off not posting a pic at all.

Any thoughts from anyone on this?  What are your comments on the advantages or disadvantages of not posting a pic?




I took my photos down for a month or so. I was getting 3 to 5 emails a week. Now that I have posted some new photos in my profile, I got 200 plus emails in 4 days Lots of them are very distasteful. I'm really thinking about removing them..


Diane



I removed my picture because I was getting too much mail also.  Is there a way to deactivate a photo for awhile and put it back up, or do you have to resubmit the photo each time?   Does anyone know?  I might try putting up some other pictures and see if it changes anything.

Akasha



If you take your photos out of your profile, you will have to resubmit them.
You can hide your profile at anytime with out losing your photos.


Diane

(in reply to AAkasha)
Profile   Post #: 57
RE: To pic or not to pic - 3/6/2008 4:27:09 PM   
DrkJourney


Posts: 1917
Joined: 5/6/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: darchChylde

i was property for months before i joined this site, so i have never looked for anything other than friends here.  Most of my emails are respectful complements on my pics, profile and posts (listed in descending order of frequency).  Yes, i have had some djstasteful emails; but those are relatively few (maybe once a week or so, lately); but it seems to have reduced since i stopped using a pic of myself topless as my main pic (which i don't get, since i can't see why anyone would be attracted to my scrawny and ill-defined chest).

i've always used pics online; mainly because even if i'm not particularly happy about my appearance, i know that many do find me attractive and i love to hear it.  To me, it's also very nice to put a face with a name.



Well as just one of your stalkers, I greatly appreciate the pic......dra ooooool


LOL

_____________________________

...Look into my eyes and I'll own you....



(in reply to darchChylde)
Profile   Post #: 58
RE: To pic or not to pic - 3/6/2008 4:31:01 PM   
DrkJourney


Posts: 1917
Joined: 5/6/2007
Status: offline 		I like to have a pic up, because I want to see pics, because I like to see who I am speaking with, so I don't feel wrong for asking, when they don't send like my profile request.

The bad part, those that just cruise pics, claim that they read your profile, when it's obvious that they haven't, and you are everything they are looking for, yadda yadda yadda.....uh huh   major time wasters

can't understand what the heck they find so great about it, but to each his own I guess...LOL

_____________________________

...Look into my eyes and I'll own you....



(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 59
RE: To pic or not to pic - 3/6/2008 4:36:29 PM   
DianeB269


Posts: 1596
Joined: 10/30/2006
Status: offline 		They don't read my profile before they send me a message. My butt gets more attention


Diane.


(in reply to DrkJourney)
Profile   Post #: 60
Page:   <<   < prev  1 2 [3] 4   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: To pic or not to pic Page: <<   < prev  1 2 [3] 4   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.094