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SixFootMaster -> RE: Males subs are the "bottom of the food chain" (3/2/2008 4:35:36 PM)
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ORIGINAL: darchChylde
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ORIGINAL: SixFootMaster
Sush boy and read.
"From a male Dominant's perspective:"
See that "a" right there? The one you quoted? Yes, that one. It means "This is from MY perspective as a male dominant". You've seen it, I haven't. Perhaps you live in a shittier part of the world then. In my experience, male dominants take one of two attitudes - the one I quoted above, or an open appreciation of the male submissive. I've never witnessed this whole "all male subs are the bottom of the food chain" attitude, I have however witnessed male submissives who want to feel worthless and less than scum, and thrive on being treated like that. Not my cup of tea, but each to their own.
Six,
First: the word is "shush" not sush.
Second: you have in no way earned the right to call me "boy". it is a derogative term from any but those who have the right to use it, and with love. Using such a term in such a manner does not do much for your argument, since it shows a gross level of disrespect. Now i understand that my post was not entirely respectful, but i did so admitting a snarky attitude (which according to Mirriam-Webster is "sarcastic, impertinent, or irreverent in tone or manner") and did not act in such a blatantly hostile manner.
Third: Why yes, i read "a male Dominant's perspective".
I also read "Unless gay or bi-sexual, we don't really care about male subs at all"
and "They are a periphery to us and completely outside anything we are interested in."
Finally: As far as where i live, i've seen this in both the southeast and southwest united states. But i have seen and heard such comments from Austrailians such as yourself. Now you may have only either spent time amongst such upstanding members of the community as yourself, or perhaps you are selectively ignorant. i won't venture an opinion on which based on such limited information as i have on you.
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ORIGINAL: Lockit
Thinks sixfoot just proved that he doesn't hold with the better treatment in the clubs... because from how he spoke to darchChyle seemed to prove darchChyle's point and seemed as if he held himself above darchChyld. Interesting...
Hehe, so i'm not the only one to get that feeling? LoL
Oh settle down. You earned it - if you're going to accuse me of living in a fantasy (as opposed to reality) you'll get the respect that earns. If - on the other hand - you want to be treated like a mature adult, perhaps you should leave the unwarranted insults out? You don't get to just insult anyone, disclaim responsibility for the insults and walk away. "Boy" was not used as an insult, by the way, but as a reprimand or chastisement.
Now to reply to your extraction from context: "we" is used in abstract, to define how I see male dominants as reacting to male submissives. This is my opinion, based on my observations and experiences, and personal attitudes. It has no definitive article.
Six.
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