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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 2/29/2008 12:02:28 PM

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As long as I dont have to go through puberty (either direction) again.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 2/29/2008 12:58:23 PM

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As far as an 11 year old? I'd report that father to child protective services and demand he get some parenting classes.

One has to wonder why an 11-year-old girl, still in the home of her father, is no longer a virgin.

Then again, no, I don't want to think about it.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 2/29/2008 1:50:31 PM

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Vitginity is lame. On the other hand, if Chloeliscious gets her back door shrunk - i'll abscond with her to Las Vegas and we'll have a collar ceremony in the Elvis Chapel de Luuuuuuurve

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 2/29/2008 5:40:56 PM

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The idea of a girl being clean and unspoiled is often a nice one; I would perfer a virgin girl. But the physical or outward appearance of it means nothing to me if it's fake. Hell, the fact that she had someone performing an operation on her pussy would make her less of a virgin in ways.

So, while I'd perfer a girl who has gone all of these years waiting (which doesn't seem to be that common anymore.. most girls by 20 have had sex), the idea of an operation to make it appear that way has less than zero appeal; I'd perfer if someone didn't get it.

PS- While I'm not entirely sure where my views on virginity come from, I'm guessing my strongly Catholic upbringing has something to do with it. When I've spoken about them in the past here, some have mistaken it for, "Oh, so I'm not attractive because I'm not a virgin." I'd like to point out two things:
A- Virgins are more attractive. It's not that others aren't attractive.
B- And that's for me. It's just a personal perference, like some guys like red hair and others like brown. Some don't even care.

(Added in because I'm tired of getting messages from people about why I don't like them. Grumble.)

a female can often already have the hymen rupture and still be a virgin, be it a fall on a bike or even thru having a paps .... and damn having paps started early to detect possible cancer is more important that saving a hymen to prove virginity. I would not likely be around today if it was not for early paps smears and pelvic exam, I was 23 when I was diagnosed with cancer and underwent surgery, no I was not a virgin at the time but had be having regular paps years prior to the diagnosis. Antiquidated views could end up meaning deaths that could have been prevented, it hac also resulted in newly married men accusing woman of not being virgins on their marriage bed because their hymen was broke by some other cause ...great way to start a relationship ....
Maybe you should reconsider just how important a piece of skin is ....is it more important to your belief/proof of having a virgin than the person who is attached to that bit of skin
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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 2/29/2008 11:47:14 PM

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I have heard that in order to do this operation the surgeon will remove one eardrum and use the tissue from that to create a new hymen. I don't think it is worth losing hearing in one ear just to satisfy the ego of some yet unknown male who likely has a sexual history of his own.

I have heard that the Smirking Chimp and Deadeye Dick Cheney are both very high up in the Communist Party of China. That is why they have been destroying the US economy, so that the Chinese, having converted most of their Dollar reserves to Euros some time ago, can buy US businesses at as little as 10 cents on the dollar.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 12:19:46 AM

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In fact no they do not take a drumears to recreate it, the nymen still there apparently but in little shred so they just "sew" the tiny pieces together and Ni vu, Ni connu.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 12:24:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: mefisto69

Vitginity is lame. On the other hand, if Chloeliscious gets her back door shrunk - i'll abscond with her to Las Vegas and we'll have a collar ceremony in the Elvis Chapel de Luuuuuuurve

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I dont think that my master/hubby would be agreeing and why would I have my hymen back cause as someone else said, i had enough trouble get rid of it.NO WAY.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 12:30:07 AM

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You are right all the way.

we girls all know (i guess) that there are others way of undirectly loosing our virginity.

WHat I think the guy (who wants to have a proove of virginity, by blood) should keep in mind then many women don't bleed at all, it is a myth.

What about in case of rape ladies, would you have your hymen back?
Or would it be another outrage to your body and mind?

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 12:35:24 AM

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Virginity isn't lame. For whatever reason, some people still care deeply about it and good luck to them.

My hymen ruptured when I was 14 and started using used tampons, but I didn't have sex until I was 18. It wasn't important to me in the least, but I can understand why some women choose to have this op.

In the same way, I don't agree with boys being circumcised, but it is important to some and they have it done for religious/cosmetic/medical reasons. My son isn't circumcised and his dick didn't drop off, never had infections, etc., and there hasn't been a medical reason for it doing in the last 23 years. But it is important to some, so it is a personal choice.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 2:48:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: Chloelicious

One of the subject was about young girls who were seeing a plastic surgeon,in purpose of having a new virginity.
Most of these women were French born in middle eastern family but not only.

In this subject a doctor was telling that he had been threaten by a father and one of his friends,
because he would not make a 'compliance certificate'
to prove that the 11 years prepubere girl were virgin.
Those poor dumb asses was pretending that because the child had bad results at school, it was because she had lost her virginity.

Oh, I feel such a snide comment coming on......... about why the girl was in school at all.............. if the father is so concerned............ about Middle Eastern traditions...........

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 5:45:51 AM

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The money is better spent on labiaplasty, a procedure well worth the cost.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 5:54:38 AM

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The idea of a virgin male or female is hot in my eyes. Then again, only if they let you be their first.

Though I thik having a surgery for it is stupid. Not being a virgin doesn't make anyone less attractive. It takes away the "Awww, I'm your first? How cute, let me taint you" factor but said factor is not a big deal and not worth paying to have yourself changed surgically.

And lying isn't cool, then you're just playing the role of a virgin which could be done easier for free via role play.

So what you're never going to be a virgin anymore? I'm never going to be an innocent 15 girl again but we can all still pretend!

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 5:56:10 AM

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Huh... labiaplasty works at making ugly flaps look pretty, I'm not sure how you think it compares to hymen reconstruction.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 6:10:39 AM

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I don't ... I only think it's a better use of the money.

For many, cosmetics are intended to make you feel better about yourself. I suppose this would be the only connection.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 7:13:48 AM

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Hymen reconstruction serves the belief that a woman has to bleed on her wedding night to prove she was pure. No bleed = whore. Absurdly enough. I knew girls who'd only take it up the arse, as it left their precious hymen intact for their wedding night

. Cultural beliefs die hard...

One could say it's a procedure that's even less medically necessary than a labioplasty, since it's not even concerned with esthetics. The point of hymen reconstruction is for a man to 'pop a cherry' the first time he enters his darling, so that he gets his five seconds of glory. I agree with you that if people want to fiddle with the intimate bits of the female anatomy, they might as well scalpel the labia into a picture of almond-like perfection. Like that, when the husband wants to go down on his wife, he will be visually pleased.

Oh hold on a mo'... he won't, because it would be beneath him to do that

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 7:16:38 AM

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The problem with restoring your virginity is that some devil worshiping cult is bound to abduct you and drink your blood. These things always seem like a good idea at the time but no one ever thinks of the drawbacks.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 7:26:07 AM

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Frequently, the hymen will break during a non-sexual activity (a bit of dancing does it, if it's particularly fine). I mean... it's grotesque. Some girls have been killed because they didn't produce a red sheet after their wedding night.

Hymen reconstruction: grand freakery at its best.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 7:28:59 AM

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I can't say I'm keen on the whole breaking people in business I'd rather someone else test drive them first and get all the blood and guts stuff over with, but that is just me.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 7:33:25 AM

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Men want virgins because they're insecure about their sexual performance, and would rather their woman had no way of comparing them to others.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 7:45:14 AM

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I don't think that is restricted to men.

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