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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 8:29:32 AM

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If it happened to men, it would be considered the psychosexual torture it is.

I love deflowering men's asses, but just because I'm so good at it that I know they won't be left with any hangups or distress about it: and they're so damn grateful! Nothing but pleasure is My motto. It takes them a few times to give Me any pleasure since they are virgins, but they try so hard and are so enthusiastic.
I'd be worried about the mental health of anyone so weak as to give in to having such surgery, any gender. Besides, as so coarsely described above, once men've been celibate for a while, they 'tighten up' naturally.

It's sadistic, demeaning and controlling to have a woman undergo surgery that perpetuates the medieval concept of females being the temptresses, or causes them sexual pain.
If you've had your lip split by a fist or a hockey stick, guys, and now imagine your mouth is your penis, you'll have some idea of what a crudely broken hymen feels like. Now run your healed face onto a doorknob deliberately so it splits and bleeds again. Good job!

Imagine if they kept an 11 year old boy in a chastity device [in a mechanic's voice: 'Well, THERE's your problem] and all men celibate until marriage; literally inconceivable, right?

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 7:45:49 PM

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Men want virgins because they're insecure about their sexual performance, and would rather their woman had no way of comparing them to others.

I doubt that's the only reason, though probably one of the reasons.

I, personally, think it's just the thrill of being someone's first. Usually people remember their first so no matter what you've stained said person's life forever.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 8:14:52 PM

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The idea of a girl being clean and unspoiled is often a nice one; I would perfer a virgin girl.[..]

Give me a break, grow up. When you become a virgin again, then you can expect the same thing from a woman. SHEESH, talk about antiquated ideals.

If you don't want to get messages from people about why you don't like non-virgin, stop talking about it.

Talk about hostile. I'll try to remember that your lack of tolerance means that I need to grow up.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 8:28:27 PM

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I am definitely not hostile and I don't lack tolerance. But you Curious Lord lack maturity. Are you a virgin or are you dirty and spoiled?

I think you are too young to realize what a horrible dehumanizing term "clean and unspoiled" is when speaking about a woman's sexual life. It is extremely antiquated thinking. However, I wish you luck in your ventures in seeking the "clean and unspoiled"

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 8:32:07 PM

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I would.

Not for any cultural reasons whatsoever, but I've thought about it. Then again, I have a pretty strong virgin fetish myself. Comes from years of reading all those romance novels. One of my strongest sexual fantasies is along the lines of the typical trashy novel - first time intercourse, overwhelming passion mixed with some pain. Sounded perfect for a masochist like me :)

My first time sucked, and not because of any discomfort, just because he was really, really bad. I've often thought, if I were in what I would consider a "probably permanent" relationship, that it would be something I would like to do. NOT for reasons of anything but a personal kink, and a desire to get a "do over" in the whole first time arena.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 8:41:48 PM

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Dehumanizing? You should hear about how I'm attracted to girls I keep as pets. When I want them to do something, they do it, despite what their opinion might be. Now that's dehumanzing.

It's sexual attraction. If you keep trying to judge people off of it, you're going to be rather confused lady.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 8:56:07 PM

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Dehumanizing? You should hear about how I'm attracted to girls I keep as pets. When I want them to do something, they do it, despite what their opinion might be. Now that's dehumanzing.

That would be called slavery and obedience.

It's sexual attraction. If you keep trying to judge people off of it, you're going to be rather confused lady.

I am not judging you. The fact is you are young and by your words, immature. You also have antiquated ideas. I think you are the one that is confused. Again, good luck in your search for the "clean and unspoiled".

Anyway, enough of this hijack....done. Dismissed.

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 9:01:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: Statepalace

I would.

Not for any cultural reasons whatsoever, but I've thought about it. Then again, I have a pretty strong virgin fetish myself. Comes from years of reading all those romance novels. One of my strongest sexual fantasies is along the lines of the typical trashy novel - first time intercourse, overwhelming passion mixed with some pain. Sounded perfect for a masochist like me :)

My first time sucked, and not because of any discomfort, just because he was really, really bad. I've often thought, if I were in what I would consider a "probably permanent" relationship, that it would be something I would like to do. NOT for reasons of anything but a personal kink, and a desire to get a "do over" in the whole first time arena.

i would too, for basically the same reasons quoted above...i did not have a "first time" hymen breaking experience, because mine was broken when i was 4 years old by an abuser...

anyway...with the right person, it sounds really hot to do that for a masochist like me...nothing about societal or religious views, i wouldn't wait to have sex with that person until after the surgery was done...just a personal kink...and just a one time thing...

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RE: What the heck with virginity? - 3/1/2008 9:02:50 PM

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You seem to be confused that a sexual attraction is an "antiquated idea".

[Edit]
Okay, I'm sort of bad when I try to explain things, so let me organize it a bit more.

-Imagine a future.
-In this future, most people are bisexual. (Sort of like how most people are straight today.)
-There happens to be a heterosexual person.
-Would you call them as immature and having antiquated ideas, or will you accept that they happen to have a sexual attraction that isn't bisexual?
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Please, I realize older people seem to think that they have a ticket to saying anything that they want, but I can assure you you need to think this one out a bit more.

And none of this "Dismissed" ego stuff, okay?

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