HouseDV8
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I thought escorts had spreadsheets with the items listed and costs of such items. Ask for a price list, that way you'll know what the going rate is and if the item is not listed you may have to negotiate. Do escorts have hard limits? I rate this thread: fun!
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I would suggest that she would say that she likes howling at the moon and eating grass if it got her paid, you cant assume that there are personal emotional feelings attached with something like this because it is work. You have to just be responsible and not put her in any stupid danger but you cant expect her to enjoy it.
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i know a few sex workers, and for them the bottom line is always money. And that's in NY and Florida. i can only assume the E.European types are even more focused on it. There's no harm in having fun with her, and gettig your money's worth, right. Hell, i know a couple girls in Orlando that would LOVELOVELOVE to be paid in British Pounds for that sorta thing...just saying
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As many others here have opined, she is what you pay her to be, and as long as you're enjoying yourself there is certainly nothing wrong with that.
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If You expect more...stop paying her...see if she thinks it's cute. Maybe You luck out, stranger things have happened. Wouldn't it be great to read THAT success story on the boards? But protect Yourself. She is providing a paid service at the time.
It seems to me that the only person on this thread so far that knows what they are talking about, is the OP!
Everything i just quoted above and some stuff i didn't is very close to complete crap. Hard for me to believe you all want to chime in when you don't have a clue what you are talking about.
First, any smart American escort does NOT have a menu. I menu is against the law...as soon as you say what you will or will not do that is prostitution and not escorting. If a girl has a menu i would stay away. Girls from other countries might have menus depending on their laws, and certainly there are lots of stupid American escorts that have a menu.
Second, while some escorts will certainly say or do whatever it takes to get your money, most will not, or will quit doing that once they get burned good. When they do that, guys write reviews and next thing they know the only guys calling are the ones wanting the stuff they hate, but pretended to like. Most girls do have very specific rules and some girls are even self-aware enough to have very specific likes and dislikes, but more than likely you will have to see her to find out what they are.
Most escorts are NOT money hungry, they are lazy. They have what i call, "stripper mentality". They become escorts because they think it is a job that they can do when they want and not do when they don't want and that it does not require any particular skill set. For this reason they are never successful...and what do ALL NON-successful people have in common? A money issue. They come off as money hungry because they are desperate to get their bills paid. Once they do that, they go back to being totally lazy and you can't even get them on the phone...clearly this is not money hungry. Money hungry is Donald Trump.
(No offense to any specific stripper or escort...i am generalizing. There are always exceptions.)
Escorts are NOT there to be what you pay them to be. The idea is to SELECT an escort that already IS what you want. You are paying her for her time. There is no way an escort would be able to be available for you to fuck her if she was not getting paid...everyone has to pay the bills somehow. She would have to be doing something else. Good escorts see their clients as boyfriends that pay them so that they can be available for fun at all times, and not need to be working 40 or more hours a week.
Which leads us to the absolutely terrible idea of trying to stop paying her and see what happens...i can tell you what will happen...she will have to go make money some where else. It does not matter if she likes you or not. Unless you are offering to keep her in the lifestyle she is accustomed to, then this will not work...even if she is in love with you.
Would you ask anyone else to quit their job so that you can enjoy them? Not without taking over their cost of living you wouldn't.
OK...now to the actual question. As far as what activities she likes...ask her by doing it. Do it, then ask...she does know yes and no, right? Ask her questions that she can easily answer yes or no...you have to be pretty specific and clever to do this...women in particular are not as black and white as men might like us to be.
Also, teach her the 1 to 10 scale by example...do something to yourself or have her do it, that you do NOT like...something simple, like being pinched or having your foot stepped on...show her that is a 1. Then do something or have her do something that you REALLY like...show her that is a 10. I am sure she will catch on. If her English is really poor, you can try using an online translator by having her write in her own language and then translating it to English...sometimes this works...sometimes it is hilariously wrong, but either way, it is fun.
In regards to her being a sub/slave...i have to agree with what some of the others have said. That is a harder thing to determine and it seems to be very individual as to how either term is defined.
To me, a sub is a person who's personal happiness/nirvana is reached when they know that they serve and please, and some need to also know that it is appreciated, but not all...some are intrinsic and get happy just by serving, whether it is appreciated or not. A slave is a sub that has made the choice to be owned, which, in theory, is her/his last choice other than those given to him/her by his/her Owner.
How can you determine this? You seem pretty smart to me, i bet you will figure it out!
< Message edited by HouseDV8 -- 3/6/2008 7:10:38 PM >
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