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leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 10:22:16 AM   
jimmyd45


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Status: offline 		for the first time in my life i have a sub who is married to someone else.  it is important that when she is disciplined that i not leave bruises or marks on her ass.  normally i use a paddle or a tawse , but what in your opinion gets the point across, yet leaves hardly any marks? 
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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 10:25:10 AM   
daddysliloneds


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Status: offline 		seems that good old fashioned, denying her of your presence would work best!

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 10:25:44 AM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		kimmy,

Might I suggest that you set up a new dynamic that does not include punishment.

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 10:28:36 AM   
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< Message edited by ownedgirlie -- 3/2/2008 10:35:08 AM >

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 10:30:07 AM   
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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 10:32:30 AM   
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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 10:36:36 AM   
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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 10:37:36 AM   
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sorry, i just dont feel like wanking today



Really? i feel like wanking every day :P


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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 11:06:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		I chuckled to myself when I read ownedgirle's response.  Those activities you listed would not be punishments to me at all!  They would encourage "bad behavior" on my part  <batting eyelashes innocently and smiling>

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 11:15:32 AM   
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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 11:20:07 AM   
jimmyd45


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Status: offline 		my thoughts exactly.  she enjoys all of those but hates spankings.  thats why the question what to use that does not mark her too bad. 

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 11:30:15 AM   
ownedgirlie


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ORIGINAL: SensualPassion41

I chuckled to myself when I read ownedgirle's response.  Those activities you listed would not be punishments to me at all!  They would encourage "bad behavior" on my part  <batting eyelashes innocently and smiling>


LOL

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 11:32:39 AM   
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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 11:47:46 AM   
chathamvahere


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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 1:55:46 PM   
SteelofUtah


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Marriage Counceling.

That will teach her.

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 2:19:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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Red honey? Whats Murga? forgive the newbiness but I have seriously never ever heard of it. BAck to your regularly scedualed thred, sorry Oppy, I just had to ask.

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 2:26:36 PM   
kinkypuppy2


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Status: offline 		Not a good place to go... Replace then with a sub that is not cheating on their spouse.....

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 2:44:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		He never said that she was cheating. For all we know, her husband may not share the same interests and be just fine with her submitting to someone else. There have been plenty of people around that submit to someone that isn't their spouse with their spouse's permission.

~Just my thoughts~

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 2:45:22 PM   
colouredin


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ORIGINAL: clover0320

He never said that she was cheating. For all we know, her husband may not share the same interests and be just fine with her submitting to someone else. There have been plenty of people around that submit to someone that isn't their spouse with their spouse's permission.

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In which case why does the fact she is married lead the OP to mention he cant leave bruises on her bum? seems to me like infidelity


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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 2:56:21 PM   
clover0320


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Status: offline 		Maybe hubby doesn't want to see the marks? I was just giving them the benefit of the doubt. 

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