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RE: Bringing Your Dom side back, need help! - 3/7/2008 10:12:08 PM

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For the record, Six is now on my "Awesome List." Points for style included.

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RE: Bringing Your Dom side back, need help! - 3/7/2008 11:32:26 PM

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A shame six is also living in Sydney, I will look forward to meeting him. A shame he won't think the same I am sure.

I will watch for you, it is a good pic.

I am not really surprised noone in the scene here seems to know of you six

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RE: Bringing Your Dom side back, need help! - 3/8/2008 6:19:23 AM

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He used to be great with control, strictness, evilness, be slightly cruel at times, and well.. you all get the idea. Now, he is more like a lover.

You make it sound like he's the only one who has changed -- I bet that now you're trained and doing exactly what he wants, so there is little need for his controling behavior to keep you in line.

I'm not suggesting that you act up to get the kind of attention you want, just recognize that you play a vital role in this relationship too, so don't go casting all the blame on him.

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RE: Bringing Your Dom side back, need help! - 3/8/2008 7:15:58 PM

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A shame six is also living in Sydney, I will look forward to meeting him. A shame he won't think the same I am sure.

I will watch for you, it is a good pic.

I am not really surprised noone in the scene here seems to know of you six

Sir K

Well obviously - considering he has made it clear that he isn't into public scening (or "scening" at all for that matter), public sex, meeting new sex partners, or non monogamous relationships in general, which is what the local 'scene' seems to cater to, it would be quite surprising if he WAS active in a community that is more or less a social networking group for kinksters.

The logic that says if someone isn't in active in the local scene then they must be new, or clueless, or whatever else is like saying that just because someone hasn't joined a quilting circle, they must not know how to make a quilt. Plenty of people find satisfaction in quilting at home, maybe talking to other quilters and sharing ideas for patterns, but have no interest in quilting in public. It might be a personal stress reliever for them and they don't want to put it on public display for the amusement of others.

As a quick FYI Six has you on block and I saw this post and showed it to him. He said he didn't want to bother unblocking you to reply but that if I wanted to type something he doesn't care either way. Regardless, despite both his and my distaste for public scening and 'bondage communities' the fact remains that I am his slave, we live together, we have lived together for months, and we have a healthy, happy, satisfying M/s relationship.

We don't need an audience to prove it.

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RE: Bringing Your Dom side back, need help! - 3/9/2008 5:33:30 AM

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I am not really surprised noone in the scene here seems to know of you six

Sir K

Well obviously - considering he has made it clear that he isn't into public scening (or "scening" at all for that matter), public sex, meeting new sex partners, or non monogamous relationships in general, which is what the local 'scene' seems to cater to, it would be quite surprising if he WAS active in a community that is more or less a social networking group for kinksters.

The logic that says if someone hasn't joined a quilting circle, they must not know how to make a quilt. Plenty of people find satisfaction in quilting at home, maybe talking to other quilters and sharing ideas for patterns, but have no interest in quilting in public. It might be a personal stress reliever for them and they don't want to put it on public display for the amusement of others.

As a quick FYI , we have a healthy, happy, satisfying M/s relationship.

We don't need an audience to prove it.

edited to cut the long windedness

Well now you have to respond for him, it is easy to see who tops who.

You do not need to scene to be known in the community, we tend to keep tabs on who is real and who is not. It is nice to hear six enjoys quilting in privacy I hope he makes something nice for you.

Me thinks you protest too much it would seem,

Nice to have heard from you, and good to see you defending your slave boy.

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RE: Bringing Your Dom side back, need help! - 3/9/2008 6:17:41 AM

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Your absolute denseness astounds me. I'm surprised you didn't add "and you smell bad too" to that list of kindergarden epithets.

I see why he has you on ignore. I honestly can't believe a man past middle age would feel the need to resort to making things up like that? If you are a representative of what the local "scene" has to offer I'm afraid we will have to take a pass. I grew out of cliquishness and insulting people I don't like since about when I was toilet trained.

And for what it's worth I never was defending a slave boy. I was explaining to you that not being a part of a scene doesn't mean anything more than what it is - not being part of a scene. Now however you've well earned my disdain and I am speaking for myself. The disgust you hear dripping off the keyboard? That's mine.

I didn't respond "for" him, I saw something ridiculous and asked if he would like to respond. When he told me had you on ignore and didn't want to bother with it, I asked permission to respond myself. Not to respond for him, but to respond to something that *I* personally have had a problem with for a LONG time. When I lived in Chicago I tried a few bondage 'scene' events and it was all a bunch of non monogamous people looking for casual partners to scene with, or looking to get their exhibitionist or voyeur kinks met. Not. My. Scene. And that is ALL it shows - is that public bondage scenes do not interest me. The sort of cliquish behaviour you display by saying "if you aren't into this scene then you are not real" just makes me less interested. I've never been a fan of that attitude with regards to anything. So I don't know what this nonsense is about "defending your slave boy" because I didn't defend anyone here. I was just making a point that the local scene is not for everyone - too many creepy perverts hanging around looking for a cheap lay.

Something I'm sure you are intimiately familiar with.

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RE: Bringing Your Dom side back, need help! - 3/9/2008 7:28:12 AM

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lady goth angel, a true Dominant is born that way, you cant lost that same as losing your mind, it still intact just some people forget how much you have to do inorder too, grow in this Lifestyle, as well as teach a sub/slave your will and direction, it is more then sitting and telling someone what to do, and when a Dom forgets that it is so much more he/she has to learn in this walk of the dark side of this realm they sometime walk away but it never leave a true Dominant, I know some of My fellow Dominants will agree, when you are born to be a Dominant King, you see your Dominance over everything, from house pets to people in or out of this Lifestyle just a very natural response.

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RE: Bringing Your Dom side back, need help! - 3/9/2008 7:30:05 AM

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a true Dominant is born that way

Hmmmm...

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RE: Bringing Your Dom side back, need help! - 3/9/2008 5:21:47 PM

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I love this my dick is bigger than yours I'm right everyone else is wrong thread. It may come as a shock to some. People do evolve change.

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RE: Bringing Your Dom side back, need help! - 3/9/2008 10:13:25 PM

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Your absolute denseness astounds me. I'm surprised you didn't add "and you smell bad too" to that list of kindergarden epithets
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I grew out of cliquishness and insulting people I don't like since about when I was toilet trained.

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The sort of cliquish behaviour you display by saying "if you aren't into this scene then you are not real" just makes me less interested. I've never been a fan of that attitude with regards to anything.

What a contradiction You insult me and then claim to never insult, amazing, then again maybe you are yet to be toilet trained and therefore the statement makes some sense!
And as I never said "if you are not into this scene then you are not real" try arguin in real time and not fantasy land.

My last comment to you and your boi is "talk to the hand" because the ears and eyes are no longer listening

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RE: Bringing Your Dom side back, need help! - 3/9/2008 11:02:29 PM

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Please if i may get back to what was a crucial and worthwhile, but lost in the chaos point?

"I don't think so at all. PLenty of subs have "dominant personalities" and plenty of doms have "submissive personalities" and I'm not talking switches. " LuckyAlbatross

(Forgive me for not knowing proper posting protocol, but could we please discuss this in more detail? Thoughts? Feelings?)

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Also, am i stating the obvious by saying that some subs/slaves/bottoms "need" a strong hand in order to stay in the proper headspace? Is it wrong to think that? If someone starts out hard but gets soft whats a girl to do? Change her desires for His sake? For love?

Yes people do change, evolve, and sometimes who and what we want changes as well.
It may be a good time to put more energy into something more substantial if r/t is what you want in the long run and he is soon to marry your sister.

Interesting posts... thank you~

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RE: Bringing Your Dom side back, need help! - 3/9/2008 11:51:05 PM

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What a contradiction You insult me and then claim to never insult, amazing, then again maybe you are yet to be toilet trained and therefore the statement makes some sense!
And as I never said "if you are not into this scene then you are not real" try arguin in real time and not fantasy land.

My last comment to you and your boi is "talk to the hand" because the ears and eyes are no longer listening

Oh wow, I just had to see this for myself.

Hahahahahaha! I feel much better now.

SixFeetofPureAmusement.

Edited to add quick snide remark: I don't think the ears and eyes were functioning very well to begin with, so perhaps that is for the best.

< Message edited by SixFootMaster -- 3/9/2008 11:53:28 PM >

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