SixFootMaster
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ORIGINAL: darchChylde
A couple of statements on the recent oral sex thread grabbed my attention and brought some questions to mind.
Please note that i am taking these statements at face value and any underlying thoughts that i ascribe to the following quotes are my own assumptions.
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ORIGINAL: MsIncontrol
I routinely engage in oral sex with my submissive partner, but never on my knees :-)
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ORIGINAL: PsyVamp
I laughed when I saw this... checking my mental Rolodex for memories... and yup, you guessed it, not on my knees...
While I understand that being on one’s knees is traditionally considered a submissive position, I wonder how prevalent this really is.
-Is being on one’s knees so non-Dominant as to be strenuously avoided?
-Does your convenience ever get pushed to the back-burner in order to keep the image of Dominance?
-What if you are tying your submissive’s ankles to a standing cross, is it ok to go to your knees in order to get there comfortably?
-Is being on one knee less submissive or more dominant than being on both?
When a submissive can be ordered by their dominant to beat them, and in so doing still be considered submissive; in my opinion the entire idea of acts or positions being strictly dominant or submissive in nature just sort of collapses.
What are your thoughts, can you be a Dominant on your knees?
The act of kneeling places one in a submissive position psychologically, by lowering ones-self beneath that of the dominant. This is pretty much hardwired and is as much an innate instinct harking back to pack animals days, as it is one of subconscious reaction to body language. If you think about it, you'll probably notice that your mind falls into a more submissive mode when you kneel in relation to your dominant.
The key here though is that it is kneeling in relation to something, rather than kneeling itself, that manifests the submissive state - kneeling before, kneeling under, etc. For dominants, the position may actually be innately distasteful or aggravating.
The same sort of "submitting" association extends to how we shake hands, for example - with a palm up or partly up being more submissive than a grip with the palm down or partly down. You may not even notice you are reacting to the body language.
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