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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 9:21:19 PM   
BeingChewsie


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He doesn't share me and I would not say I share him since he doesn't belong to me but he does routinely fuck other women. I don't believe it impacts our relationship at all for better or worse...it is just something that has gone on from day one and will go on until he dies..like breathing.

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 9:36:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have sharing/being given away as a hard limit, and Master doesn't like to share, anyway. We've talked about it -- it's okay if I find someone I want to try BDSM play with, but I should ask first and he would want to know lots and lots of details beforehand. Sex outside our triad is pretty much out of the question and I wouldn't want to do it, anyway. We aren't the casual relationship/sex types, and it would take a lot of time and getting to know someone before we'd consider such activities.

I have spoken with people who have been whored out before, so they are out there. It's just not for me.


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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 5:55:13 AM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		Intellectually, I get it. There is something appealing about whoring out your submissive.
But in practice, it pisses me off...lol,. Those are my issues. I understand them and deal with them.
I would not be able to have an LTR with a woman who really needed that. A weekend maybe..:) but thats about it.

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 9:28:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		cherry,
given the right situations My girls would do as told and would love it. I see where you bring your Master much pride.
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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 11:13:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		As a general rule, I don't share.  But I've learned never to say never.

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 11:16:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I am in an open poly relationship, so he can go off and have whatever fun he wants as can I, but it wouldn't be what you mean by sharing.

We do both enjoy sharing eachother- basically pimping eachother out to others.  It's a power buzz, it's a vicarious thrill, and it allows them to experience new things in new ways, which we both like.

This is different from my previous Ms relationship in that he would often whore me out, in trade or in gift, and sometimes that would be hot and sometimes that would be boring or annoying.


hehehe... I think this hot as hell LA.   My girl and I have been really one-on-one with our new relationship.  However, at times we have been making verbal exchanges about pimping one another out to different people at the bars.  Basically talking about who looks hot or interesting, and asking would you do them if I wanted you to do.    So the whole mutal pimping each other out thing, mentally is a big power buzz. 

I really don't see either one of us pimping the other out to somebody we'd not be into though.   A sort of mutal approval on the person.   Also, issues with safe sex, STD's and closeness of the person to us as well.   Basically, not out pimping each other out to anybody out there.

Some Doms try to force their submissives to go find them other girls, and will whore out thier subs at the same time.   Basically, What is the difference between a submissive finding another girl for her Master, or a sub pimping out her Master to another girl?  hahahaha...   Long as it's somebody both people can agree upon.   Hell, perhaps her and I will find some girl to share together sometime since she is Bisexual. 

It's a little hard to tell what is going to happen.  We both have been talking about the ideas and many different spins and senarios.  Talking about the pros and cons to it all.  Right now, it's one of many mental explorations in our relationship.   


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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 1:58:40 PM   
daddysprop247


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ORIGINAL: daddyncherry

This topic may have been done before but i wanted to attempt to start anew  thread in hopes of new responses from the posters i am used toreading.

Soooo...

How many of you Dominants/Ms like to share your s types with others?
Do you like to share them sexually?
Or for Sm play only?
What do you get out of it on a relationship level when you share them?
On a sexual level?
Do you like to share with alot of people or only a very select few? 
How does it impact your relationship  positively/negatively?
Do you like to do it in a swinging context or only with other BDSM minded people?

s types? Same questions only from your point of view.



this is one of those lifestyle topics in which there doesn't seem to be many people who are wishy-washy or undecided about it. people tend to either live and embrace it, or condemn it for all things vile and evil.

as i've shared before, my Master shares me with other men sexually and domestically, quite frequently. it is rare that a week goes by when i do not have to serve another man, and sometimes it may be two or three. all depends on my Master's mood and whims. He shares me with all sorts of men, Dominants, swingers, 100% vanillas...but it is always about him doing his will, not about fun and games or mutual pleasure. so it is not at all in a swinging context. there are sometimes when i happen to be very horny and look very forward to being sexually used by another man...and there are other times when i am down, depressed or just plain grumpy and the last thing i want to do is be sexual with anyone, much less some other man. but regardless of my mood it is what will happen if that's what my Master wants at that moment.

as for why, i think he has many reasons, mainly dealing with pride and possessiveness. He likes to show off what he has, as well as his training. when a man is pleased with my service, it is my Master they compliment, not me. also his perverted nature is fulfilled by having a mate who he can pass off to a best friend, a stranger in a club, a bum on the street or a dog if he wishes. it's a powerful symbol of his control and ownership over me.

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 2:07:54 PM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		I'm not saying this is the case for all the men involved in sharing, but some out there say that men who like to share a woman have latent homosexual feelings - it's a way for them to sleep together by proxy.

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 2:16:13 PM   
Jeffff


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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 2:20:08 PM   
daddysprop247


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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

I'm not saying this is the case for all the men involved in sharing, but some out there say that men who like to share a woman have latent homosexual feelings - it's a way for them to sleep together by proxy.


i think this may actually be true in some cases, especially so in the case of cuckold situations. but, i can't see that being the case with your typical hetero male Dom.

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 2:25:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: daddysprop247

i think this may actually be true in some cases, especially so in the case of cuckold situations. but, i can't see that being the case with your typical hetero male Dom.



Actually, those hetero Überdoms are precisely the ones I was referring to. Again, it's not true for all of them.

 

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 2:37:49 PM   
jimdandymagnum


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Status: offline 		I share my little cum slut anytime I have a mind/opportunity to.  I enjoy bringing in men or women I know well but she does not know, I take peasure in watching her be used by them sexually or otherwise, and joining in using her.  At my small SuperBowl gathering, I tethered her in the shower and marked her as "toilet".  She took the piss of most of my guests as well as gave a few blowjobs/pussy licks.  It is just another form of humiliation I can do to her and I love it.  I enjoy filming action, I have plenty of photos/vids of some of these "O" parties.  Unfortunately the strict guidelines on CM prohibit their posting. I wish STD's weren't so prolific I would love to take her into porn shops and the like and have horny goats fuck her cunt, ass, and mouth, but for her safety that has to remain a fantasy only. 

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 2:41:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

I'm not saying this is the case for all the men involved in sharing, but some out there say that men who like to share a woman have latent homosexual feelings - it's a way for them to sleep together by proxy.


kittinSol, 
This is something I thought about and explored mentally in my mind.  I'm not sexually attracted to men and the thoughts of having sex with man just don't exciet me one bit.   However, the by Proxy thing does factor into my mindset.  Where I know some guy will be getting off and enjoying what is going on.   Also, get off on the sluttly girl being used well factor as well.   OH yes, my thoughts are about sharing with both women and men.   So I'm an Equal opportunity sharer in my mind.   The thoughts of sharing a woman with regardless of their sex just sparks my kinky fantasies and turns me on sexually. 

But yes, knowing the pleasure it brings those I'm sharing is a sort of by Proxie thing. 

Actually, it's hot knowing that other people get off and find my girl just as sexy as well.  Just knowing that somebody wants her in those ways I find as a turn on too.  This is without even actually sharing.  

This whole sharing business, is a relatively near area for me to be able to fully mentally explore with another.    Have not actually done it yet, still the thoughts turn both of us on a lot.  

If I have any latent Bi or homosexual sides, they must be buried deep inside somewhere that I'm totally anaware about.  hehehe... 

Interesting you mentioned this though, cause it's something I questioned about myself mentally and explored.  

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 2:52:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: jimdandymagnum

I share my little cum slut anytime I have a mind/opportunity to.  I enjoy bringing in men or women I know well but she does not know, I take peasure in watching her be used by them sexually or otherwise, and joining in using her.  At my small SuperBowl gathering, I tethered her in the shower and marked her as "toilet".  She took the piss of most of my guests as well as gave a few blowjobs/pussy licks.  It is just another form of humiliation I can do to her and I love it.  I enjoy filming action, I have plenty of photos/vids of some of these "O" parties.  Unfortunately the strict guidelines on CM prohibit their posting. I wish STD's weren't so prolific I would love to take her into porn shops and the like and have horny goats fuck her cunt, ass, and mouth, but for her safety that has to remain a fantasy only. 

" When I was a child I prayed for a bicycle.  I realized that G~d doesn't work this way so I stole a bike and prayed for forgiveness"






You have some things in common with my Master...He also regularly has gatherings where i am to serve all of the guests, whether that means making them a drink, sucking their cock or taking their piss. however it's only with men, he does not share me with women as he doesn't find anything appealing or exciting about girl/girl sexuality. He believes that females are meant to be thoroughly used and overpowered, and he feels that this can only appropriately be done by a man.

the adult vid store fantasy you mentioned is one of his as well, he is determined to come up with a relatively safe(r) way of exploring that one. we are also looking for a local straight adult theater where he can perhaps have me used by the horny patrons there as well.

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 2:59:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave

If I have any latent Bi or homosexual sides, they must be buried deep inside somewhere that I'm totally anaware about.  hehehe... 

Interesting you mentioned this though, cause it's something I questioned about myself mentally and explored.  



Glad it struck a chord. It's a pretty logical conclusion, when one thinks about it. I believe we all have a part of homosexuality in us, even if we don't feel it. I think you're right in that often, it's buried deep in the subconscious, especially in  fiercely heterosexual people, but it's there.

I have noticed, for example, that the most macho men are often the most homophobic. They find homosexuality makes them question their own sexuality, which terrifies them. I think that's why they reject homosexuality so violently.



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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 3:15:09 PM   
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How many of you Dominants/Ms like to share your s types with others?
Do you like to share them sexually?
Or for Sm play only?
What do you get out of it on a relationship level when you share them?
On a sexual level?
Do you like to share with alot of people or only a very select few?
How does it impact your relationship positively/negatively?
Do you like to do it in a swinging context or only with other BDSM minded people?

How many of you s types like to share your D types with others?

i adore it....it makes me hot with desire for Him

Do you like to share them sexually?

Yes. FFM or FFMM Master is not in the slightest way bisexual i am planning bukake and safe sex gang bangs for me as master feels this gives Him kudos in being my owner and me being His property

Or for Sm play only?

i make no distinctions between Sm play and sex as bdsm is on a sexual continuum for me but i have expressed the desire for master to have safe sex with others and he respects that.


What do you get out of it on a relationship level when you share them?

i organise all activities as part of my duties and W/we get to go out to dinner together, talk, relax, sleep.....

On a sexual level?
Aroused, limits extended, amazed at my sexual submissivesness......get to fulfill my poly nature and bisexuality

Do you like to share with alot of people or only a very select few?

A selected few....those that i select for Master....wow yes i do....


How does it impact your relationship  positively/negatively?

i'm saying this a few times on different threads but my own name before i was paulsgirl was Prinsexx....Princess being the Old Gurad term for alpha slave. i get to initiate bi-curious submissives, i get to serve to my limit, i feel totally empowered.....


Do you like to do it in a swinging context or only with other BDSM minded people?

i rarely use the term ONLY but really it is within a bdsm context as just swinging would be boring, voyeuristic and there would be no power exchange and therefore no empoweremnt.
thank you for the questions Cherry....

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 3:25:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

I'm not saying this is the case for all the men involved in sharing, but some out there say that men who like to share a woman have latent homosexual feelings - it's a way for them to sleep together by proxy.

the term 'by proxy' has now been replaced by 'factitious' but my Master explained this to me. Sharing me gives Hin kudos. He has absolutely no latent or repressed or expressed bisexual or homosexual predilections.....


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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 3:38:35 PM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		Well, if it's repressed or latent, even he wouldn't be aware of it. Nevertheless, I'm sure he knows himself better than anyone else :-) .

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 3:54:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SirJohnMandevill

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I don't share

Jeff


What Jeff said. I want monogamy.. I've had at least two subs tell me it's my "right" as a Dominant to have more than one girl. I figure if I have ONE that will please me, and I her, I'll be doin' just fine.
 
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Wow!!  Where do i order a Daddy who thinks like these two men?!   thank you both for affirming to me that there are some people who want monogamy in their sex lives!!  thought i was a totally freaky oddity as the monogamous- slut-that-i-am!

nope nope..   i don't believe that i'd ever get into being shared sexually or sharing my Daddy sexually.  PERIOD!

i wanna keep my Daddy (when i find Him/Hym/Her) all to myself! 

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 4:00:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: jimdandymagnum

I share my little cum slut anytime I have a mind/opportunity to.  I enjoy bringing in men or women I know well but she does not know, I take peasure in watching her be used by them sexually or otherwise, and joining in using her.  At my small SuperBowl gathering, I tethered her in the shower and marked her as "toilet".  She took the piss of most of my guests as well as gave a few blowjobs/pussy licks.  It is just another form of humiliation I can do to her and I love it.  I enjoy filming action, I have plenty of photos/vids of some of these "O" parties.  Unfortunately the strict guidelines on CM prohibit their posting. I wish STD's weren't so prolific I would love to take her into porn shops and the like and have horny goats fuck her cunt, ass, and mouth, but for her safety that has to remain a fantasy only. 

" When I was a child I prayed for a bicycle.  I realized that G~d doesn't work this way so I stole a bike and prayed for forgiveness"




What makes you so sure that the dicks she's sucking and pussies she's licking are without STIs??    For many of the infections out there, you cannot tell by looking at the genitalia whether the person is infected or not. 

It ain't only the horny fucks in XXX shops that have STIs. 




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