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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 4:00:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: agoodgirl4Daddy

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ORIGINAL: SirJohnMandevill
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff



Wow!!  Where do i order a Daddy who thinks like these two men?!  


Give it up sister, I've been after both of them for a long time... and there are NO other like them.

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 4:03:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

Well, if it's repressed or latent, even he wouldn't be aware of it. Nevertheless, I'm sure he knows himself better than anyone else :-) .

Whereas i probably would know whether it was a repression or latent since i am a therapist and there is no power struggle bewteen who knows Him best.......and why are you so oppositional, it appears, to so many who respond to you? Rhetorical question as it would take the thread off topic.
This was about my experiences of sharing and not your oinions of my Master.


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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 4:05:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

I'm not saying this is the case for all the men involved in sharing, but some out there say that men who like to share a woman have latent homosexual feelings - it's a way for them to sleep together by proxy.


I dont share with the sub I have now and I probably wouldnt however I have in past relationships.  Cant really say that I have any hidden or latent feelings ... I just think that the woman I did share kind of did me proud in a way...lol. Its hard to explain but what good is a corvette if you cant show it off on ocasion.  Now I dont share because of the problems it has caused in past relationships and I am happy this way however I dont really see what the big deal is with it. If I am going to share a girl out she has to be pretty damn good at sex... way better than the average so to speak and as a protector I would take every precaution. I think having a sub that jumps on it rather than questions is rather hot and somewhat proves her dedication.

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 4:06:08 PM   
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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 4:08:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: agoodgirl4Daddy


Wow!!  Where do i order a Daddy who thinks like these two men?!   thank you both for affirming to me that there are some people who want monogamy in their sex lives!!  thought i was a totally freaky oddity as the monogamous- slut-that-i-am!

nope nope..   i don't believe that i'd ever get into being shared sexually or sharing my Daddy sexually.  PERIOD!

i wanna keep my Daddy (when i find Him/Hym/Her) all to myself! 


there are more folks who are monogamy-minded than not. before i found Daddy, i was sure that i'd be alone and miserable forever because i'd never find a Master who would love me dearly yet share me with other men. Men who share are still relatively rare.

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 4:11:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Well you're getting exactly the sort of response I'd expect from a hetero bdsm based community forum, and what you'll generally see at any such event or gathering.


i'm a Queer Femme and don't identify with the "hetero bdsm based community" exclusively.  it just so happens that i prefer to be in monogamous relationships and not get pimped out (aka, shared) with others. 

i may occasionally "play" (SM only) with others as either a top or bottom (but only when i CHOOSE to do so)!  when in a relationship.....i'm sexually monogamous.

So sue me..just don't relegate me to the "hetero bdsm based community"...lol

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 4:16:00 PM   
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Hello? In case you didn't notice, I was actually agreeing with you.

well that's ok then hon....it's late and i'm an alpha remember....i did say in opposition but not necessarily to me....pretty lipstick btw


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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 4:18:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: agoodgirl4Daddy

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Well you're getting exactly the sort of response I'd expect from a hetero bdsm based community forum, and what you'll generally see at any such event or gathering.


i'm a Queer Femme and don't identify with the "hetero bdsm based community" exclusively.  it just so happens that i prefer to be in monogamous relationships and not get pimped out (aka, shared) with others. 

i may occasionally "play" (SM only) with others as either a top or bottom, but when in a relationship.....i'm sexually monogamous.

So sue me..just don't relegate me to the "hetero bdsm based community"...lol

i'm pretty queer too and proud of it.....
and really dislike the word pimped


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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 4:26:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't KNOW for a fact.  That is why I choose to use her with those I know well.  It is not risk free, it is a chance we take.  Condoms are the order of the day for anyone fucking her as is regular testing.  Best I can do and still have her used the way I like.

" When I was a child I prayed for a bicycle.  I realized that G~d doesn't work this way so I stole a bike and prayed for forgiveness"

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 4:45:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: daddyncherry

That all makes great sense to me, but at the same time it completely saddens me.....i am of the Mommy/homemaker/slut/whore category and i honestly never expected the lifestyle (this one) to be that way.....

it saddens me because i have such a hard time having my switches flipped/twinkiecreamed whatever by vanilla swinger guys they seem to be too soft, gentle and afraid to or not wired to be alpha enough to really make an impact on me....Daddy put me on a cross at a swinger's club (who just opened their little dungeon area a few months back) and told the guys who came in that they could do anything they wanted to me and they were all kinds of chicken.....atleast a woman stepped up to the plate but still.....it started off with such promise...

Anyway....in shock and dismay i'm gonna go eat worms.



Cherry...Im in total agreement with you! We got semi active in the swingers community around here about a year ago...and in truth, its been nothing but depressing to me. plain old vanilla sex is well..generally boring to me, and in the swingers community, the typical male seems to want to lay back and let the chick take control (for alot of the reasons LA already mentioned)  and well...Im just not really the sexually agressive type...Very occasionally we find a couple who straddles the line between the BDSM community and the swingers community and things are fun, but unfortunantly it doesnt happen as often as Id like. I still go to the swingers stuff, because Daddy wants me to, and I still screw the husbands of the chicks he wants to screw..but its never really alot of fun, I never feel really comfortable around them. I get really condescending looks and sometimes comments about my collar when they ask me about it and I explain it, too. As for std's, I understand that its a major reason why some people choose not to share, but you just have to determine what is acceptable risk to you, Id rather be as safe as I can be and have all the fun I want still.......although there is a guy locally whom I really want to fuck....cept I wont because I heard he's got warts....and Im not chancing it. But damn he's alot of fun to flirt with.

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 4:57:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ghitaPVH

Cherry...Im in total agreement with you! We got semi active in the swingers community around here about a year ago...and in truth, its been nothing but depressing to me. plain old vanilla sex is well..generally boring to me, and in the swingers community, the typical male seems to want to lay back and let the chick take control (for alot of the reasons LA already mentioned)  and well...Im just not really the sexually agressive type...Very occasionally we find a couple who straddles the line between the BDSM community and the swingers community and things are fun, but unfortunantly it doesnt happen as often as Id like. I still go to the swingers stuff, because Daddy wants me to, and I still screw the husbands of the chicks he wants to screw..but its never really alot of fun, I never feel really comfortable around them. I get really condescending looks and sometimes comments about my collar when they ask me about it and I explain it, too. As for std's, I understand that its a major reason why some people choose not to share, but you just have to determine what is acceptable risk to you, Id rather be as safe as I can be and have all the fun I want still.......although there is a guy locally whom I really want to fuck....cept I wont because I heard he's got warts....and Im not chancing it. But damn he's alot of fun to flirt with.



And what makes you think that the guys you do fuck DON'T have warts, or any other STI?  You cannot tell by looking at someone if they have one. 

According to the CDC (Centers for Disease Control -  http://www.cdc.gov/ ):

Genital Warts (aka, HPV):  "Approximately 20 million people are currently infected with HPV. At least 50 percent of sexually active men and women acquire genital HPV infection at some point in their lives. By age 50, at least 80 percent of women will have acquired genital HPV infection. About 6.2 million Americans get a new genital HPV infection each year."
 
Also, according to the CDC:

Genital Herpes (AKA, HSV-2):  "Genital HSV-2 infection is more common in women (approximately one out of four women) than in men (almost one out of eight). This may be due to male-to-female transmission being more likely than female-to-male transmission."

One last thing, if i hear something about someone that is of concern to me (that "he's got warts"), i'll ask the person directly...especially if i might wanna get fucked by him....instead of taking a rumor as fact.



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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 5:14:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: daddyncherry

This topic may have been done before but i wanted to attempt to start anew  thread in hopes of new responses from the posters i am used toreading.

Soooo...

How many of you Dominants/Ms like to share your s types with others?
Do you like to share them sexually?
Or for Sm play only?
What do you get out of it on a relationship level when you share them?
On a sexual level?
Do you like to share with alot of people or only a very select few? 
How does it impact your relationship  positively/negatively?
Do you like to do it in a swinging context or only with other BDSM minded people?

s types? Same questions only from your point of view.



My Master shares me occasionally.
 
He prefers they use me sexually but most of my encounters have been bdsm activity based.
 
I think for him, it reiterates his ownership of me.  I think he is proud of me and of the way I serve him --
For me -- it pleases him.   It has allowed me to experience activities my Master isn't interested in.
 
I'm not shared often.  Each time our goal has been to find a nice D/s couple who I can join on a steady basis.  This hasn't worked out because either 1.  They get entirely to attached to me on an emotional level.  2.  Deep down inside they've thought poorly of my master for sharing me.  3.  They made it all about me. (And that topics already been covered thanks to daddysprop.)
 
My Master prefers it to be with like-minded individuals but on occasion he allows my ex to fuck me.  He thinks its humbling.
 
And sharing my Master?  Its not my frame of mind to think of it like that.  I don't know if he has sex with others because I don't ask him. 

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 5:22:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: agoodgirl4Daddy


And what makes you think that the guys you do fuck DON'T have warts, or any other STI?  You cannot tell by looking at someone if they have one. 

According to the CDC (Centers for Disease Control -  http://www.cdc.gov/ ):





why do you keep harping on the STI issue? not upset, just curious. most intelligent people are well aware of the risks involved in any sexual activity, and are also aware that that risks increases when one has multiple partners. people take the precautions they wish and take the risks they find acceptable in their lives.

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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 6:48:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		We are enough for each other, we do not share with others and we have no desire to do so in the future.
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RE: Sharing - 3/4/2008 7:03:26 PM   
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~edited to add~ Whew, glad when I went back to see the original date of the thread that it is only 1 day old and not 2 years!

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RE: Sharing - 3/5/2008 2:41:25 AM   
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I don't share because I am jealous.....

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