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RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure - 3/7/2008 10:29:22 AM

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I am a little confuddled about the responses I am seeing on this thread... I thought I stumbled into a "no means no" sex watch site or something...
When I was 20 I was in a D/s relationship (triangle actually) where the D really wanted to have a threesome/watch us two girls play. I was resistant to it and he never insisted. But I knew he wanted it..Really really wanted it... It took a few months but one night I decided to jump in and do it. The D type (coincidently his name was Mike) played the entire scene very well.. He paid just the right amount of attention to the both of us and directed the entire night Masterfully so that neither of us felt slighted.. When he had us girls performing sexual acts on the other, in truth, it did absolutely ZERO for me...But when I would glance over to Him and see his reaction to what he was watching, WHOA did my world start to spin...
So the act itself did nothing for me, but it was His reaction to the act that made me extremely, extremely wet, excited, submissive, horny, whatever....

Isn't that the point?

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RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure - 3/7/2008 10:42:48 AM

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quote:

I am a little confuddled about the responses I am seeing on this thread... I thought I stumbled into a "no means no" sex watch site or something...
When I was 20 I was in a D/s relationship (triangle actually) where the D really wanted to have a threesome/watch us two girls play. I was resistant to it and he never insisted. But I knew he wanted it..Really really wanted it... It took a few months but one night I decided to jump in and do it. The D type (coincidently his name was Mike) played the entire scene very well.. He paid just the right amount of attention to the both of us and directed the entire night Masterfully so that neither of us felt slighted.. When he had us girls performing sexual acts on the other, in truth, it did absolutely ZERO for me...But when I would glance over to Him and see his reaction to what he was watching, WHOA did my world start to spin...
So the act itself did nothing for me, but it was His reaction to the act that made me extremely, extremely wet, excited, submissive, horny, whatever....

Isn't that the point?

In a Ds situation yeah, for those involved. For a third person whose connection is to have a satisfying sexual connection with two people, maybe not. A "threesome" generally implies three people all enjoying eachother sexually. While this can include someone watching the other at times, most tend to really want the main experience to be girl on girl action.

If one of the girls isn't turned on or enjoying the other girl, well you can only hope that girl is into being used and objectified and is ok with not only not getting any real physical pleasure herself, but also doing most of the work in keeping the newbie calm.

This is a service I'm extremely good at, but it's a lot of work for not a lot of reward.

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RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure - 3/7/2008 11:38:45 AM

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I see your point LA. I realize I was basing my answer on the assumption that both females were in the same sort of submissive head space...

It truly didn't occur to me that all parties involved wouldn't know exactly where each others heads/libidos were at beforehand..

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RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure - 3/7/2008 12:06:56 PM

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It truly didn't occur to me that all parties involved wouldn't know exactly where each others heads/libidos were at beforehand..

Heck that's the first line of the story of half of all the failed poly relationships.

And it didn't occur to me for awhile also. I kept being the "first" for some people I knew, people who acted like they wanted this threesome thing, and then wondering why I'd be eating dinner alone and unsatisfied afterwards. I realized they just either didn't really understand what they were getting into, or weren't able to handle it well once they were. It took me a few times to figure out that I was making assumptions about their level of awareness and selfishness.

It's not my responsibility to mange other peoples choices, but I won't walk into a situation where I'm pretty sure it's not up to my high standards, no matter what they may feel or WANT to feel about it.

Edit: I realize what I said kinda makes me sound like I'm saying "They sucked and were wrong so I took my toys and went home" It was much more that I realized when it came to just friends or casual aquaintances, I needed more than just to be used as an object and treated like a side of fries and that I needed to take more responsibility to make sure I knew what I was getting into and not assume they were as aware as they needed to be.

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RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure - 3/7/2008 12:28:26 PM

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I have done fonf play for the benefit of a former Dom at least once where the other subs reaction was very hurtful. I am VERY Bi. my master at the time knew that I was willing to do anything he wanted, but that it was my strong preference to be with bi women, to the point that the 'bi if Master says I'm bi' type of women kind of annoy me.
I had a new sisterslave. Master wanted to put us together. He knew it would be her first time, he knew she was reluctant. Both of us wanted to please him.
obviously, he very much enjoyed the show, and, from his reactions, really could not tell that she was seriously NOT into it. But I was the one eating her and being eaten. (And, I really don't much like being eaten out by guys. they don't know how to do it right. As a seriously hard wired strait woman, she ate pussy like a man. seriously)
When it was over, she wrapped a robe around her and stepped outside for a smoke. My Dom came to me to say the typical 'good job'. I said, 'Go take care of my sister.' Now, I knew he didn't get that this was a serious, on point instruction this one time, because, traditionally, this is my number one after care need when playing with other women, and generally the first thing out of my mouth. So I followed up by letting him know that I felt that my sister was not doing too well.
He went and checked on her with a kind of light 'tsatske said to make sure you were okay.' to which she said, well, she is right. I could hear them, and she was begging him to never, NEVER make her do that again.
Really, to that point, I was almost okay. I understood that she had done it to please Master, and I could deal with that. Sure, it would have been more fun if it had been with a woman who enjoyed me, but, I was mostly okay.
When Master came in and said, 'Well, clearly that didn't work for anyone involved', I was crushed. I had done what was asked of me, and I was never asked my reactions. If he had never made a comment that included presumptions about my reactions, I would have been fine with it, but I felt so completely diminished by his statement.
Actually, as good as I believe my dear sister, now his monogamous slave, is for him, that particular story still stings.
Slaves may do what they are told, but that does not mean they don't have feelings and reactions to it. I have no problem with Master pushing those, but, yea, I think he should be as aware as possible of everyone's likely reactions, and I think everyone else should be in the know, too.

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RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure - 3/7/2008 1:08:51 PM

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Therein lies the problem with believing that pornography is documentary film instead of commercial wank material in video form.

In real life, all the people involved in a sexual senario are human being with feelings. It's one thing for Master to tell me to go down on a woman, knowing that i will hate it and that i will genuninely suffer during my obedience. But what of the feelings of the woman i'm "pleasuring"? Unless she is also turned on by my repulsion and suffering, what pleasure could i give her?

i also smile when i hear the phrase "VERY Bi" which intreprets to mean bisexual as opposed to "straight but will do a show to get/keep the man"

Letting "nature take it's course"? i'm straight. If the other woman is also straight then the "natural course" might go something like this:
"So.... have you done this before?"
"No, first time."
"What do you want to do to me?"
"Uh... i donno maybe touch your breast?"
"Uh...okay i guess"
"Those are cute shoes"
"Oh thanks! Rack Room has a sale, buy one pair get the second half off."
"Really? Is the sale still on?"
"Yes but today is the last day."
"Would you mind going with me?"
"Let's roll!!!"

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RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure - 3/7/2008 1:09:27 PM

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Watch the show, direct the action.

I think it's sort of a "director" fetish.

Lights, camera, action!!!!!!!!

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RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure - 3/7/2008 1:46:42 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

The D type (coincidently his name was Mike) played the entire scene very well.. He paid just the right amount of attention to the both of us and directed the entire night Masterfully so that neither of us felt slighted.. When he had us girls performing sexual acts on the other, in truth, it did absolutely ZERO for me...But when I would glance over to Him and see his reaction to what he was watching, WHOA did my world start to spin...
So the act itself did nothing for me, but it was His reaction to the act that made me extremely, extremely wet, excited, submissive, horny, whatever....

Isn't that the point?

Sure, but there's no guarantee that either of you would have that reaction. You, or she, could just as easily have been extremely upset, become distrustful and broken things off with him. In the op's case, I don't get the feeling that her D knows what he's doing and can get her to that state of mind.

Plus since it's two couples and her D hasn't spelled anything out, what happens if the other D grabs her? And if her D is too busy with the other s to hear her yell red? The truth is, that if he isn't watching out for her, being too into his own pleasure, this could easily turn really bad.

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RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure - 3/7/2008 2:19:44 PM

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Letting "nature take it's course"? i'm straight. If the other woman is also straight then the "natural course" might go something like this:
"So.... have you done this before?"
"No, first time."
"What do you want to do to me?"
"Uh... i donno maybe touch your breast?"
"Uh...okay i guess"
"Those are cute shoes"
"Oh thanks! Rack Room has a sale, buy one pair get the second half off."
"Really? Is the sale still on?"
"Yes but today is the last day."
"Would you mind going with me?"
"Let's roll!!!"

eyesopen, I think I love you! Actually, I'm Very Bi (I'm just saying it again to make you smile again), but, uh, I could probably get side tracxked by the cute shoes and the offer of shopping.
More on point, if they were four inch heels, Master would probably give me permission to cut the action off and go shopping. GG, that man has a heel fetish! Any nice potential sisters out there think it would be great to be owned by a Master who will ALWAYS be willing to buy you a new pair of heels?

edit: Maybe I should post a pic of the cute four in heels he bought me to wear to my office christmas party? purple, with theese cute zippers up the back... way cool!

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RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure - 3/8/2008 2:21:01 AM

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eyesopen, I think I love you! Actually, I'm Very Bi (I'm just saying it again to make you smile again), but, uh, I could probably get side tracxked by the cute shoes and the offer of shopping.
More on point, if they were four inch heels, Master would probably give me permission to cut the action off and go shopping. GG, that man has a heel fetish! Any nice potential sisters out there think it would be great to be owned by a Master who will ALWAYS be willing to buy you a new pair of heels?

edit: Maybe I should post a pic of the cute four in heels he bought me to wear to my office christmas party? purple, with theese cute zippers up the back... way cool!

Lucky girl! And i'm very lucky too! Master has bought me the most wonderful shoes and boots cuz He has a heel fetish also. The boots He bought me as well as one pair of pumps have a bondage theme, the heels have like corset lacing up the back the boots have multiple straps and buckles.

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