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kyraofMists -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 8:37:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 I am currently seeing a woman who calls herself submissive. I have never even felt up a woman who calls herself a slave. Therefore, submissives are awesome[sm=cool.gif] and slaves are mean.[sm=mad.gif] Everyone else who takes a strong position uses logic like that, too. Silly... You have to ask the master for permission to feel up a slave... [;)] Knight's Kyra

kyraofMists -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 8:43:11 AM)
The answer to this question will vary from person to person. There will be some common themes between certain groups of people and none between others. For us there is a significant difference between a submissive and a slave and it has to do with how much authority is transferred within the relationship with him. A slave will transfer all authority to him and he will exercise that authority in whatever manner he chooses. A submissive would only transfer authority over certain areas of their life and it is negotiated between them. The authority that he has, he will exercise however he chooses. Knight's Kyra

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 8:43:29 AM)
what's the difference between a submissive and slave? what's the difference between a bitch, whore and slut? what's the diffeence between a Daddy, Master, and Dominant? sheeeeeeeeesh - for crying out loud, they are merely titles used to define yourself and *your* other half within *your* relationship! words, people, they are only words and each definition will mean something totally different to everyone and in every relationship.

colouredin -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 8:45:27 AM)
I dont think it needs being shouted at, maybe a better question would have been what does being a sub/slave/Master/Dom/Daddy etc etc mean to you

softness -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 10:07:56 AM)
submissives dont slice as thinly as slaves

KyttynTheMynx -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 11:39:24 AM)
This is the topic that never ends. Yes it goes on and on my friends. Some people started writing it, not knowing what it was. And others continue writing it forever just because.... Personally, I think its a term that varies person to person.

angelbluewingsz -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 11:43:13 AM)
in my twisted way of thinking I always though a slave you owned but did not care about-- like a mangy dog in the yard or that cow in the field you milk dry then sell off when you find yourself lactose intolerant... A sub you have a relationship with and put their needs into consideration...

Asstrospy -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 11:56:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kyraofMists For us there is a significant difference between a submissive and a slave and it has to do with how much authority is transferred within the relationship with him. A slave will transfer all authority to him and he will exercise that authority in whatever manner he chooses. A submissive would only transfer authority over certain areas of their life and it is negotiated between them. The authority that he has, he will exercise however he chooses. I agree with kyraofMists. I have always just simplified it by saying that the difference is that you can always sell a slave.

azropedntied -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 12:52:31 PM)
a subbie would ask what the differences are , a slave simply says Yes Ma'am or Yes Sir .

angelbluewingsz -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 12:54:11 PM)
or even better, "thank you sir, may I have another?"

kittinSol -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 12:55:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: azropedntied a subbie would ask what the differences are , a slave simply says Yes Ma'am or Yes Sir . Weally?

colouredin -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 1:00:19 PM)
Well a twue slave wouldnt even speak just do it

Sundowner -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 1:33:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: softness submissives dont slice as thinly as slaves Hmmmm. Knowing you, I have a horrible feeling there could be something deep in that. But I'm out of my depth. (With the post kid, not with you).

Sundowner -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 1:35:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: colouredin Well a twue slave wouldnt even speak just do it Now coloured - don't go off topic. The OP hasn't yet started the thread about the difference between a slave and a weal twue slave. That comes after this one.

Strictyetnice -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 3:28:11 PM)
Ok thanks for the replies people, but I think some of you dont relise what I was saying last night. Yes I relise the topic has been done to death. So what? I am not forcing anyone to read it. What I was saying was it was a question I thought of just before I went to bed, and since I had to be up early, I didn't want to spend ages reading all the threads on the subject. So it was just easier for myself to start a thread and read it when I woke up, when I have more time, which is what I have done. I am a busy student at the moment, so its just more practical for me to do it this way, since I dont often get larger chunks of free time.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 4:13:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Strictyetnice Yes I relise the topic has been done to death. So what? Many of the people with the best answers will not post here because they already have. You are denying yourself valuable information by not searching -- and copping an attitude about your right to be ignorant. People reveal the private reality of their lives, sometime writing deeply moving posts. This isn't college, and you can't expect that they will do the same thing every semester just because you paid the CollarMe membership tuition. For some of us, it's real life -- with all the blood, sweat and tears that go along with that.

RedHotAndSoSexy -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 4:18:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 quote: ORIGINAL: Strictyetnice Yes I relise the topic has been done to death. So what? Many of the people with the best answers will not post here because they already have. You are denying yourself valuable information by not searching -- and copping an attitude about your right to be ignorant. People reveal the private reality of their lives, sometime writing deeply moving posts. This isn't college, and you can't expect that they will do the same thing every semester just because you paid the CollarMe membership tuition. For some of us, it's real life -- with all the blood, sweat and tears that go along with that. I like that analogy; Collarme University. Where if you are very, very good or bad, you can graduate Subbie Cum Louder instead of the tired old Summa Cum Laude

softness -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 4:24:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Strictyetnice Ok thanks for the replies people, but I think some of you dont relise what I was saying last night. Yes I relise the topic has been done to death. So what? I am not forcing anyone to read it. What I was saying was it was a question I thought of just before I went to bed, and since I had to be up early, I didn't want to spend ages reading all the threads on the subject. So it was just easier for myself to start a thread and read it when I woke up, when I have more time, which is what I have done. I am a busy student at the moment, so its just more practical for me to do it this way, since I dont often get larger chunks of free time. oh please ... a busy student? ... when I was a student (very hardworking and dilligent and coasted a First I might add) I had my studies, a job, a life AND enough time to whore myself around the internet picking up poor innocent Dominants and breaking their hearts when i ditched them after one night of meaningless and sweaty sex.. and learning what the terms mean (say it with me now D I C T I O N A R Y) along the way we are all busy people too.. and Red is correct (as usual) .. the best people to answer you have put a lot of effort into answering elsewhere .. if you cant be bothered to go looking ..people will not be bothered with you feels sorry for the under 5'6 submissive who will have to only need Domming first thing in the morning to fit in with the busy timetable ... get real .. there are 24 hours in the days for everybody

Level -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 4:25:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: softness AND enough time to whore myself around the internet picking up poor innocent Dominants and breaking their hearts when i ditched them after one night of meaningless and sweaty sex.. And I bet you didn't even want to make biscuits for any of them, either.

softness -> RE: Difference between subs and slaves (3/8/2008 4:27:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: softness AND enough time to whore myself around the internet picking up poor innocent Dominants and breaking their hearts when i ditched them after one night of meaningless and sweaty sex.. And I bet you didn't even want to make biscuits for any of them, either. thats was in the ignorance of my youth ... when I thought the way to a Man's heart was regular and mindblowing sex now I know I was wrong .. the way to a mans heart is to wake him with the smell of freshly baked biscuits and mindblowing sex

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