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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/11/2008 8:27:13 PM   
chellekitty


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i don't talk about this much except that on those occassions when others are interested. i don't talk about it because it drains me completely to get involved with interactions with skeptics.


same here...i won't "prove" to people what i can do, i am not a trick pony that performs on demand...

but it is kind of funny (not ha ha, funny, but something else...) when i will try and trick my Dom into letting me take some of the negative energy he carries that he claims is a driving energy...but i feel it weighing down on him so strongly...he will be so upset about some injustice (he took the quiz and he is a Judge...) and he will come up behind me and i will take his hand and be rubbing against it and work my way to pressing his palm to my third eye...which, with any other person, should be a direct download of energy and then i can get rid of it after i have taken it...and he will fight me for it...and after we have struggled for a few moments, he will look down and tell me to stop, that i can't have it...and he knew what i was doing without asking me...we have to explain it to others that are around...i am learning to accept it...but it still bothers me...

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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/11/2008 8:30:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		I personally am attracted to Men who are confident in themselves and comfortable with the world, who are charismatic and charming, who have a commanding character about them and who seem in control.  I like the feeling of being compelled to please, to submit, to fall to my knees.  There are very few Men who are like that, whether they are Lifestyle Masters, BDSM Dominants, or vanillas who just have that aura.

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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/11/2008 9:36:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BitchGoddessD

interesting quiz

http://quizfarm.com/test.php?q_id=201302


I scored as a Fallen Angel. Interesting as to what I've been told by some others in my life in the past.

You scored as a Fallen Angel You are a Fallen Angel empath. You have not found your place in this world yet and wander as a lost soul. Your wings have been clipped but you know deep inside they will grow back. You need to fly free and proud. Fallen Angels are spiritual beings who were trapped by flesh, and are now seeking to spread their wings again. (from the Book of Storms at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Empaths/) Fallen Angel
85% Healer
75% Traveler
75% Judge
75% Precog
70% Shaman
65% Universal
55% Artist
55%

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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/12/2008 1:26:49 AM   
adrian28


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Status: offline 		Thank you all for the comments. You've inspired me to do further research on this subject and perhaps learn even more about myself. I appreciate your thoughts and opinions.

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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/12/2008 5:21:20 AM   
egelante


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ORIGINAL: CuriousLord

Please don't get caught up in this psychosis. It can be gratifying to think that you have magic powers, but it's really just a delussion that people try to justify to keep themselves happy.


This one amused me... I don't think magic has been mentioned yet...

It's true that some people are speaking in "spiritual" terms, and that others are speaking in "behavioural" ones (for want of a better word), but from my perspective these are simply two roads to the same destination. Or to ways of looking at the same object. We are what we are, and we have to understand that for ourselves: not everyone will accept a purely behavioural analysis, not everyone will accept a purely spiritual one, and so there is always going to be some disagreement in the terms used. Whichever way you look at it, some people are more acutely aware of the emotions, thoughts, and sub-lingual communication of others. Here those people are being called empaths, else-where they might be described as being able to read people better than average. Take your pick, but don't dismiss a real trait simply because the word "magic" has been applied to it somewhere. There was a time when a light-bulb was thought magical; now that the principles of electrical energy are more widely understood, it is regarded as commonplace.

To dismiss is to limit your own understanding and attempt to curtail everyone else's.

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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/12/2008 5:25:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've never actually noticed this, although I have noticed that they tend to harden themselves to other people a little more than average and shrug other people's issues off disconcertingly well. They also seem to get very hurt very easily and get very angry about it.

But then, I've only known a few. And I wouldn't call them empaths, but as it's the in word...

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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/12/2008 6:15:43 AM   
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You scored as a Precog

You are a Precog Empath. You are a visionary & a human thermostat. You can predict outcomes and see where paths may lead. You are a good scout and a guide to others. Be careful of your dreams. Your sight penetrates the veil that hides the truth from mankind. (from "The Book of Storms" by Jad Alexander at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Empaths/)

Precog 85%
Judge 80%
Artist 75%
Universal 70%
Healer 65%
Fallen Angel 60%
Traveler 50%
Shaman 50%

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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/12/2008 6:45:32 AM   
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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/12/2008 7:13:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

I am Dnomyar 100%.   I took a quiz that I made up.


Yup.  I am 100% me too.
Not to burst anyones bubble - but those tests are just like the daily horror-scopes.  I just went through every list that people posted and I could happily describe my buddy as having traits from each one, but not all traits.  I could recognise myself in each and every description and yet I am none of them.
Its a bit of fun hey - but that's it.  Do people really take this seriously?  Empathy isn't something you suddenly 'get' from a questionaire.
 
the.dark.

< Message edited by Darcyandthedark -- 3/12/2008 7:14:28 AM >

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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/12/2008 7:13:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		And to the question of are you an empath, try this quiz from the same designer of the one we have all already had fun with ;       http://quizfarm.com/test.php?q_id=50393N




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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/12/2008 8:16:55 AM   
MariaIsabel


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Status: offline 		well there is no doubt that i was right when i said i was empathic:

You scored as a Certified Empath
You are a natural born Empath! You are haunted by the calling of "the others" and walk in silence between the busy and the distracted. You qualify for certification by the School of Empath Psychology. From the Book of Storms Series newsletter on Yahoo! Groups.
Certified Empath
81%
An Intuitive
81%
Potential Empath
69%
Not an Empath
56%
Unbonded Empath
38%


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ORIGINAL: Aneirin

And to the question of are you an empath, try this quiz from the same designer of the one we have all already had fun with ;       http://quizfarm.com/test.php?q_id=50393N





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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/12/2008 8:19:08 AM   
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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/12/2008 8:28:41 AM   
RCdc


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

If you believe every goofy internet test.


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Congratulations - you are a certifiable skeptic!  This means that you don't take any bullshit and says it like it is.  People think you rock for your down to earth manner and adore you from afar.


link this to - this.is.for.you.

the.dark.(withacheesygrin)

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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/12/2008 9:00:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

I am Dnomyar 100%.   I took a quiz that I made up.


Yup.  I am 100% me too.
Not to burst anyones bubble - but those tests are just like the daily horror-scopes.  I just went through every list that people posted and I could happily describe my buddy as having traits from each one, but not all traits.  I could recognise myself in each and every description and yet I am none of them.
Its a bit of fun hey - but that's it.  Do people really take this seriously?  Empathy isn't something you suddenly 'get' from a questionaire.
 
the.dark.


So it wouldn't be a good idea to proclaim myself as a Fallen Angel on my profile?
LOL, well drats I say! I guess I'll just stick with my regular old entry.
Though Fallen Angel does sound pretty cool ::grumble grumble::

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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/12/2008 9:24:37 AM   
RCdc


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ORIGINAL: HalfShyHalfWild
So it wouldn't be a good idea to proclaim myself as a Fallen Angel on my profile?
LOL, well drats I say! I guess I'll just stick with my regular old entry.
Though Fallen Angel does sound pretty cool ::grumble grumble::


Hey, if you believe your a fallen angel - that rocks.  But do it because you think it, not coz of some cheesy site is what I'm saying.
And btw - total hijack - but your user name is very cool.
 
the.dark.

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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/12/2008 9:25:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

If you believe every goofy internet test.


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Congratulations - you are a certifiable skeptic!  This means that you don't take any bullshit and says it like it is.  People think you rock for your down to earth manner and adore you from afar.


link this to - this.is.for.you.

the.dark.(withacheesygrin)


Awww thank you! You're the bestest!

Those tests are fun to play with, but to assume they lead to the path of personal enlightenment........rather silly.

edited to add.........I have no idea how I accidentally bolded myself!


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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/12/2008 9:41:42 AM   
HalfShyHalfWild


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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark



Hey, if you believe your a fallen angel - that rocks.  But do it because you think it, not coz of some cheesy site is what I'm saying.
And btw - total hijack - but your user name is very cool.
 
the.dark.


Thank you the.dark., I think your user name is very cool too

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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/12/2008 1:30:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		i was just saying that i always have thought of my self as an empath and that i felt that it had backed up my thoughts and feelings.

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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/12/2008 1:40:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BitchGoddessD

interesting quiz

http://quizfarm.com/test.php?q_id=201302


i had to answer a tie breaking question so the quiz could slap a label on my butt



What Kind of Empath Are You?

You scored as a Healer

You are a Healer Empath. You take in the energy of others and transmute it. You trigger transformation in others and free trapped energy. You are capable of great healing abilities. You walk between the worlds and bring waves of healing energy with your presence. (from "The Book of Storms" by Jad Alexander at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Empaths/)

Healer 95%

Shaman  95%

Universal  80%

Judge 80%

Fallen Angel 80%

Precog 75%

Artist 70%

Traveler 70%

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RE: Empaths and Instant Reecognition - 3/12/2008 1:40:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: adrian28

Also, I've been wondering if it's possible for subs/slaves to recognize a dominant at a glance. I've had women make eye contact and look down involountarily, much to my own amusment. I'm just wondering in general about spiritualism. I promise I won't be too skeptical, lol.


Yes, it is possible to recognize a dominant at a glance. But not necessarily all women who look down involountarily are submissives/slaves, it might as well just be a gesture of embarrasment because a lot of people react that way when someone stares at them or they try to avoid the glance after a while by looking elsewhere.

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