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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 10:59:51 AM

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 11:05:28 AM

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I wonder why people don't EXPECT there to be Sexual Retarded people in any endevor that changes the sexual drive. I came into this lifestyle KNOWING that there were going to be people trying to beat the system and just try to get laid it is one of the things that I made a point of keeping myself seperated behavioral wise from day one.

I get to know the person and see where it goes
Not try to make it go and then see if I want to get to knwo the person.

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 11:16:08 AM

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Nice speech there Steel. You trying to get laid?

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 12:34:29 PM

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quote:

I wonder why people don't EXPECT there to be Sexual Retarded people in any endevor that changes the sexual drive. I came into this lifestyle KNOWING that there were going to be people trying to beat the system and just try to get laid it is one of the things that I made a point of keeping myself seperated behavioral wise from day one.

I see guys every saterday eve in the bar trying to get layed. Don't think it is a lifestyle issue.
Besides that..no one is every sure..how an other looks at him or her. PErhaps as CC says...you said that all to get layed..lol
(hope it works for you ;) )

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Bubbles Sharon? I mean, Bubbles?

Did Ozzy buy Micheals monkey?

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 12:39:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Justme696

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I wonder why people don't EXPECT there to be Sexual Retarded people in any endevor that changes the sexual drive. I came into this lifestyle KNOWING that there were going to be people trying to beat the system and just try to get laid it is one of the things that I made a point of keeping myself seperated behavioral wise from day one.

I see guys every saterday eve in the bar trying to get layed. Don't think it is a lifestyle issue.
Besides that..no one is every sure..how an other looks at him or her.

I can second this, ive seen it, its like a jungle out there, I dont leave the house without an iron clad chastity device AND a hand full of condoms, just in case

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 1:01:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: Firebirdseeking

then the next time we speak, he "doesnt feel a connection."

Viagra?

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 1:05:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: Firebirdseeking

a 900 number for phone sex. I just wanted and needed to say this. There are men on this site that think because we subs want and need to please, that means you can do any thing or say anything to us. WRONG. A submissive deserves the same respect that you want.

If only the trolls from the other side came over here to read

i think reading such things would tax their brains however.

Ignore the trolls, don't let them have the power to annoy you. Ignore, block, delete, all are viable options for dealing with idiots such as them.

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 2:30:47 PM

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Is "I need to clean the litter box" subbie code speak for I love anal?
I really don't get that answer.

I mean som trolls, will get off on what ever you say, even if you honestly mean picking the crap out of your cats litterbox.

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hopeless,

Damn, i do love candor, it is getting so rare lately!

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 2:50:37 PM

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yea so true i had a dom ask WAY personal questions about me and sir about 3 days ago after he had got me on the phone.

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 3:56:48 PM

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Wait... there are assholes on the internet ????

Who knew !!

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 4:20:36 PM

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you say whore like it is a bad thing.
whores can be healers, teachers, confidants, friends, clowns, and many other things...they provide a service, their work is important, and has been important since the dawn of time.
just sayin'

Very good.

I've never gotten paid for sex a single time in my life and am not about to start, but being called a whore or a slut at the right time, in the right situation, with the right Dom is one of the best compliments I've ever gotten.

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 4:30:55 PM

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Wait... there are assholes on the internet ????

One of my favourite orifices to tease.

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 4:46:00 PM

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Actualy some submissives are whores.

yes.......

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 4:46:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lumus

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ORIGINAL: selena13

Wait... there are assholes on the internet ????

One of my favourite orifices to tease.

but it doesn't roll off the tongue...He crammed his thick meat up my internet asshole...nah!!!

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 4:50:52 PM

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oh, that rolls off the tongue, JUST fine, thank you...

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 4:55:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: Firebirdseeking

a 900 number for phone sex. I just wanted and needed to say this. There are men on this site that think because we subs want and need to please, that means you can do any thing or say anything to us. WRONG. A submissive deserves the same respect that you want.

Welcome Firebird.
i would suggest putting that you have been a submssive your entire lifetime and think about it all the time on your profile. That's sorts the men from the shirt buttons.
Welcome. i've started reading your thread here. i know you feel upset by the phone jerks but you must excuse me if i have a bit of fun with your responses.
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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 4:56:58 PM

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Not sure I would agree its just *men*....

We all take are punches via this medium...

The choice for me is to get up and move...on.

However, theres a time and place for a few choice words..as others have stated <g>

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 4:58:44 PM

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<slaps my typist>

much better

*our*

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 5:02:39 PM

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Take my advice -- just because you're a submissive does not mean that you are out of your right to respond to such blatant disrespect with a good, hearty "go fuck yourself," followed by a swift click of the "Block user" button.

I've gotten some women, too, who are just as bad if not worse... not to mention pushy subs and some generally shady characters. CM is still The Intarnetz(tm) and there are plenty of creeps... but also plenty of genuinely awesome people who actually DO know what they're talking about and won't treat you like a doormat just because you're a submissive.

Take heart and keep your chin up.

xoxo
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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 5:09:55 PM

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The Goddess Ignora has bequeathed to her beauteous subs the Altar of Blockage. The Altar of Blockage is your friend. It is your responsibility as a good servant of the Goddess to sacrifice these idiots on the Altar of Blockage.
When these trolls bug you they are secretly praying to the Godess Ignora. They just do not know it. It is your duty to carry out the Great Goddess' will!

Iggy away.

Some men do not understand that " on your knees now Bitch" just does not get it for 99% of us. It is not our mating call...

nor is "ya wanna fuck"

Nor " I will be any thing you want Mistress... I am but a lowly worm.. blah blah blah" *wretch* ( 1st message BTW )

it is the net.. there are some socialy challanged mother fuckers out there.. Iggy them and move on.

There are some also wonderful people out there I have great friendships with and love dearly from here. YMMV.

Not that the wankers read profiles.. but I had "I might be a submissive but I am not your submisive, please be respectful in all corospondance." listed on mine waaaaaaaaaaay back when.

Gwyn,
Now with 35% more cursing. LOL

So sue me I am still sick and in pain... any one would get testy after 2 full months of this crap. *chuckles*

Dear Gwyn:
i see (from on bended knees) you are in great spirit.
In response in general....about three or maybe even four years ago, anyway, way back, i got a realy thing goin for phone sex. You know....boredom had set in. Rather than just lay back and eat chocolate (bad for the abdomen) i would troll match.com or some other wanker filled site and say call me.

Then ofcourse, becuse TOS on those sites way way way back then were lax, (are the TOS foolproof anywhere) i would send the wankers a mobile number......
omg way better than going out to the cinema or hiring a video from Blockbuster.

I would put my mobile on speaker mode and it really was a case of topping from the botom even though most of the wankers were dyspraxic cunts (with respect to both learning difficulties and cunts by the way, Master calls me this as a term of endearment), anyway most who called were dyspraxic cunts and wouldn't know a bottom from a top even if THEY had been whores and i had payed them. i really just got a kind of addicton to hearing them ejaculate on the phone. i'd say put the phone down there when i can hear you and immediately you cum ring off......i know, i know, not exactly what you might want to hear from a TWUE submissive but by that time the wankers didin't even care what or who they were wanking off to......
virgin phone wankers are BEST and taught me a great deal about why i rarely top a male but four years ago i had a bad case of gender bias.....
somewhere perhaps there is a heaven and the god there, or even a satellite listening out for aliens, that can detect that sweet cacophany of sounds of thousands of simaltaeneously wanking wankers....

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