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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 5:13:24 PM   
Paulsgirl


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ORIGINAL: Lumus

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ORIGINAL: Firebirdseeking

then the next time we speak, he "doesnt feel a connection."



Viagra?



Try a tens on maximum power with good strong clips?


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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 10:14:53 PM   
MasterBlueTiger


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ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

The Goddess Ignora has bequeathed to her beauteous subs the Altar of Blockage.  The Altar of Blockage is your friend.  It is your responsibility as a good servant of the Goddess to sacrifice  these idiots on the Altar of Blockage.
When these trolls bug you they are secretly praying to the Godess Ignora. They just do not know it. It is your duty to carry out the Great Goddess' will!

Iggy away.

Some men do not understand that " on your knees now Bitch" just does not get it for 99% of us. It is not our mating call...

nor is "ya wanna fuck"

Nor " I will be any thing you want Mistress... I am but a lowly worm.. blah blah blah" *wretch* ( 1st message BTW )

it is the net.. there are some socialy challanged mother fuckers out there.. Iggy them and move on.

There are some also wonderful people out there I have great friendships with and love dearly from here. YMMV.

Not that the wankers read profiles.. but I had "I might be a submissive but I am not your submisive, please be respectful in all corospondance." listed on mine waaaaaaaaaaay back when.

Gwyn,
Now with 35% more cursing. LOL

So sue me I am still sick and in pain... any one would get testy after 2 full months of this crap. *chuckles*



That was great I loved it.

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 10:17:20 PM   
Gwynvyd


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See GreedyTop for your info packet and Jacket.. yes we have jackets.



Gwyn,
Gods I love saying that.. It might be the pain meds.. but Whoo thats fun!

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 10:19:38 PM   
MasterBlueTiger


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Status: offline 		I have several younger sisters and it disturbs me that even outside the lifestyle(thus far I'm the only one in my family) some guy's just don't know how to respect women. Fortunately my sisters are good judges of character so I have not had to break any bones yet.

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 10:19:41 PM   
Gwynvyd


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ORIGINAL: Paulsgirl

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ORIGINAL: Lumus

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ORIGINAL: Firebirdseeking

then the next time we speak, he "doesnt feel a connection."



Viagra?



Try a tens on maximum power with good strong clips?



*snickers*  That would be quite shocking.. I love the involuntary jumping body parts do ( on others )

That reminds me.. mine needs a fresh 9 volt.

Now where did it run off to.

Gwyn

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 10:22:33 PM   
Gwynvyd


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ORIGINAL: colouredin

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I wonder why people don't EXPECT there to be Sexual Retarded people in any endevor that changes the sexual drive. I came into this lifestyle KNOWING that there were going to be people trying to beat the system and just try to get laid it is one of the things that I made a point of keeping myself seperated behavioral wise from day one.


I see guys every saterday eve in the bar trying to get layed. Don't think it is a lifestyle issue.
Besides that..no one is every sure..how an other looks at him or her.


I can second this, ive seen it, its like a jungle out there, I dont leave the house without an iron clad chastity device AND a hand full of condoms, just in case



How to solve all of our Female problems with dating men http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R8FfFwtL91Q
 
I love this skit!
 
Gwyn

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 10:30:46 PM   
phoenixinchains


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Status: offline 		to the OP, sometimes you just gotta smile and push the "block sender" button. i've got it plastered all over my profile that i'm married and not looking for any other males in my life, but still i get plenty of mail to delete. some nice and well meaning, some really mean. it's okay to push the block sender button, that's why it's there. good luck

ps- Thank You, to the well meaning people. Keep up with the respectful stuff and you'll find someone worth respectingGood karma

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 10:35:16 PM   
Gwynvyd


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Status: offline 		Yeah I tend to be more humorus when I feel bad and I am snarky. Odd eh?

I like phone sex with those I know...

It was a Job for me when I was in school. ( It paid the bills) I am fairly good at it.. but the unimaginative pricks just bore the hell out of me.

If it is someone I have been with before and I know them well.. now that is another story.

My phone sex hook up guy is no more of a hook up. ( all's the pity ) so... *shrugs* oh well.

Gwyn

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 10:41:59 PM   
CuriousLord


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Status: offline 		A lot of submissives are whores.  A lot want to be whores.  Many are quite proud of it.

Still, a lot of things aren't for everyone.  That one's probably just not for you.  No worries- there are a lot of people who aren't into it, too.

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/11/2008 10:44:27 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		ROTFLMAO, Gwyn!

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/12/2008 4:44:00 AM   
Ebonybbw


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I know Im not a whore, Im a slut, I never get paid


If you're not getting paid, it sounds like a whore to me... get over it... whore, slut?  whocares!!!??

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/12/2008 5:34:37 AM   
colouredin


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ORIGINAL: Ebonybbw


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I know Im not a whore, Im a slut, I never get paid


If you're not getting paid, it sounds like a whore to me... get over it... whore, slut?  whocares!!!??


Whore
whored, whor·ing. –noun .a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet


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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/13/2008 3:21:01 AM   
Goddess2002


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Status: offline 		Regardless of being a whore or slut, which can certainly be a term of endearment here to some, it's still most appropriate to initially address someone respectfully until you know more about them. As for the more, ahem...."direct" greetings, I just laugh, block, and move on.

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/13/2008 4:39:20 AM   
Justme696


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it's still most appropriate to initially address someone


or inappropriate

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/13/2008 5:57:24 AM   
CNJDom


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ORIGINAL: Firebirdseeking

a 900 number for phone sex.  I just wanted and needed to say this.  There are men on this site that think because we subs want and need to please, that means you can do any thing or say anything to us.  WRONG.  A submissive deserves the same respect that you want. 


Back long ago, we used to call them HNGs in the old days of IRC (Internet Relay Chat), or "Horny Net-Geeks".  They are an annoying and unwanted pain in the ass.  The majority if not ALL of these "special people" are not in the lifestyle really (because I feel that lifestylers would be more respectful from the get-go).  These people feel that there is an endless supply of low self-esteemed women here waiting naked starving for attention and barely breathing in anticipation of a word that will send them into a mind-blowing orgasm that only THEY can do.  It's all fantasy in these idiots, and they have no clue what BDSM is let alone what a real woman is all about.  Add BDSM to this equation, and they are so far from the truth, that it's another universe for these asses. 
Unfortunately, there is a high ratio that seems to make these individuals seem like there's an endless supply of them.  Ignore them, report them, make fun of them...but try not to be jaded by them.  Giving them your attention, is only a waste of time and can only perpetuate their efforts.  Vanila and BDSM sites alike are all subject to this sort of pathetic behavior.  Sad but true...

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/13/2008 12:23:18 PM   
stella41b


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Status: offline 		I can offer the following as a rule - a prick thinks with his dick. I see a lot of difference between men and pricks to be honest.

I'm a moderator in a transgendered TV/TS/CD chatroom, I love such people. They enter the chatroom and leave it. Then come back. Then leave. Then come back, then leave (they're not very decisive). Then what happens is a few of them enter, try to engage as many TVs, TS's etc into dialogue and then leave.

The best ones leave as soon as I log on. Most aren't that quick. If they're new or particularly stupid, they'll also try and hit on me. We have interesting conversations such as:

Them: How are you?
Me: I'm fine. How can I help you?
Them: I'm looking for a TV or a TS.
Me: I'm TG
Them: ????
Me: Okay, I'm a TS.
Them: Brilliant! Excellent! Just what I was looking for? Are you pre or post op?
Me: Pre.
Them: Excellent!
Me: Oh.
Them: Do you meet guys?
Me: Sometimes.
Them: Good. Do you have a photo?
Me: Yes I have.
Them: And you will send them to me?
Me: Yes of course. No problem.
Them: Wonderful! Do you want my e-mail address?
(No, I was thinking of sending them by DHL Special Delivery) 
Me: Not yet. Why do you want to meet me?
Them: I'm interested in TVs and Ts's.,.
Me: Yes? Interested? In what way?
Them: Friendship.. I have always wanted a friendship with a feminine TS.
Me: Oh really. I might be in luck then?
Them: Certainly.
Me: Oh good. Are you single? Divorced? How about introducing yourself?
Them: I'm male, 35, married, six inch cock.
Me: I'm sorry, I don't do threesomes.
Them: That's okay. She doesn't know. I need discretion.
Me: For friendship?
Them: Yes. When can we meet?
Me: Meet? You want to meet?
Them: Yes. Do you have a place?
Me: Yes I have.
Them: Good.
Me: What does this meeting involve?
Them: I have always wanted to suck a tranny's cock.
Me: Really?
Them: Yes.
Me: What are you? Gay? Bisexual?
Them: No, I'm straight I have a loving wife.
Me: But you want to suck cock?
Them: Yes. I like anal too.
Me: Do you?
Them: Yes. Both ways.
Me: And this is how you treat all your friends? You must have very good friends.
Them: No, not all my friends.
Me: Only the friends who know you like to suck their cock? I see.
Them: It's not like that.
Me: But what about your wife?
Them: She doesn't understand.
Me: Have you discussed this with her?
Them: No. I'm scared. That's why I meet with trannies. I have a lot of experience.
Me: Where do you find them?
Them: On the Internet.
Me: Like here?
Them: Yes.
Me: And you went to school as a child? Received an education? Learned to read?
Them: Yes.. Why?
Me: Okay, so tell me where it says this chatroom is an online brothel of freebie sluts for tossers such as you?
Them: I don't understand.
Me: Exactly. This is a chatroom for transgendered people to interact and discuss transgender issues and their partners, family, and support to come for advice.
Them: I am interested in TVs and TS's, for a long time. I know their situation.
Me: Where did you learn about them?
Them: From the Internet.
Me: Oh I see. The chicks with dicks porn sites, right?
Them: No..
Me: Doesn't matter. This isn't a happy hunting ground for closet poofters like you to prey on people.
Them: I'm not a poofter.. I'm not gay.. I'm married..
Me: I know. Can't even get it up to shag her I bet. She probably doesn't enjoy the knob cheese produced from you slapping your salami every five minutes. Why don't you get yourself down to the public toilets at the main railway station? That's where people like you hang out. Goodbye.

BLOCK!!! Blocking effectively blocks any access to the chatroom and website from that IP address for up to 24 hours.

That was when I was in a good mood. Quite often the dialogue is much shorter or even there's no dialogue. They're blocked.

If you're not prepared to interact and have fun with these types then block, ignore, delete is your only answer.  

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/13/2008 1:58:42 PM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: colouredin
whored, whor·ing. –noun .a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet


From now on, I would like to be called a strumpet.  And no, I don't play an instrument, or else I would be a strumpet who trumpets.

Cali


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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/13/2008 2:01:25 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		If a submissive ain't a whore, we might as well shut down this site, I am just out here fucking around.......what's the use?

Dejectedly,
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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/13/2008 2:01:30 PM   
kallisto


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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: colouredin
whored, whor·ing. –noun .a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet


From now on, I would like to be called a strumpet.  And no, I don't play an instrument, or else I would be a strumpet who trumpets.

Cali



I kind of like harlot for those fancy, smancy, dress to the nines nights.    Although whore and slut just roll of the tongue real easy - similar to a one syllable name. 

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RE: A submissive is not a whore or... - 3/13/2008 2:22:59 PM   
lronitulstahp


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ORIGINAL: kallisto

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: colouredin
whored, whor·ing. –noun .a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet


From now on, I would like to be called a strumpet.  And no, I don't play an instrument, or else I would be a strumpet who trumpets.

Cali



I kind of like harlot for those fancy, smancy, dress to the nines nights.    Although whore and slut just roll of the tongue real easy - similar to a one syllable name. 
glad to see you've given t some thought...is it crass of me to still kinda like '"ho'"?

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