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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/12/2008 3:17:32 PM

MasterWilliam55

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tecara, try Guardian Island found at ageplay.org. Half the site deals with age play with no sex (Snuggery), and the other half deals with age play with sex and kink (kittery).

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/12/2008 3:20:01 PM

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ageplay.org isn't accepting new members right now registration has been closed down, and the sites offline and unafailible right now cause the owner Ucle bobby is remodling.

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/12/2008 3:29:02 PM

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Ty YourhandMyAss. I haven't visited there in months.

tecara: hopefully Uncle Bobby will finish his upgrades soon.

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/12/2008 3:45:21 PM

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Personally i found the backside, which is the sexual side of ageplay.org to be very disapointing it's all role play and lets make believe, now and not serious discussions and blogs like it's supposed to be. the role play and lets make believe stuff was supposed to be limited to mostly the snuggery an for a long long time now it's been on the backside too, it's why I stopped logging in and participating, I do lurk every now an then as a guest to follow old friends. I don't have any use for pretending to go to school or pretending I am camping with a group of iks* short for inner kids* and mommies and daddies, nor do I care to pretend we're all cuddling around a couch an reading stories. and that k ind of lets make believe is just about all that goes on.

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/12/2008 3:50:57 PM

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/12/2008 3:53:00 PM

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I feel the same way about the site....but it does deal in role play and there are real life possibilities there. Like most of those sites though, they tend to focus on cyber play. In my area though, there is a real AB and DL group. They hold meetings once a month.

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/12/2008 4:21:39 PM

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See the snuggery was supposed to be for all the make believe lets pretend an the baby talk and role play, and warm and gooey and fluffy stuff, and the backside was supposed to be for discussions and sexual stuff. They did have a woodshed where you could go and act out punishments if you wanted, but that fit into the overal theme and purpose of the backside.

I would be more understanding if there wasn't any place dedicated specifically to the make belive, but there is, the snuggery was intended for all the make believe and lets pretend we're going to school and camping ect ect.

it's just been overflowing into the place where makebelieve does not really belong.

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I feel the same way about the site....but it does deal in role play and there are real life possibilities there. Like most of those sites though, they tend to focus on cyber play. In my area though, there is a real AB and DL group. They hold meetings once a month.

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/12/2008 4:24:44 PM

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First names are quite handy in some situations, but you know some girls, boys too are not allowed to address their master or mistress by their first name for any reason. Some are only allowed to adress their dominant by first name if it's a dire world ending emergency.

Also if you want to go for a more authentic dynamic, most children do NOT address their parents by their first names, so some in the D/lg relationship may not feel it's suitable to call their D by his first name.:)

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How about calling him by his first name? The first name is a practical thing. Actually, I think it was invented for the purpose of calling someone ;-) .

Seriously, whatever rocks your boat.

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/12/2008 4:33:54 PM

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my husband has also allowed me to call him daddy. it is not an age play thing but one of nuturing & caring. he never had children of his own so no child ever called him daddy, neither did his previous gfs/subs. he also understands my own father was less than stellar, so when he calls me little girl i respond with daddy, when he calls me slave, i answer, master. our dynamics depend on the moment.

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/13/2008 2:44:11 AM

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Dada, or just Da, Dad, Papa, Papi, Father, Padre, mon Pere (there's a backwards accent on the second e), Pai, Paizinho, Vati, Nana (which is Russian) ... lots of options! However I don't recommend "PoppaDom" ... unless you want people to think He's a piece of Indian bread

Remember that any chosen name or title will feel a bit odd at first, give each that you and He think might work a decent trial!

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/13/2008 4:25:34 AM

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However I don't recommend "PoppaDom" ... unless you want people to think He's a piece of Indian bread

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

MUST remember this, lol!

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/13/2008 4:40:06 AM

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I know its hard at first I also had a problem with it. It just takes time and practice, you can try other words for daddy, or you while your alone (people mocked me if I did it in public) repeat to yourself, 'Its just a word, Daddy finds it pleasing, Its no big deal. Daddy wants it, Daddy should get it....' repeating it tends to help let it sink in. It also worked for me with Sir, and Master

We dont know WHY she doesnt want to use it, and if she doesnt want to she doesnt have to, there is no right/wrong way to do it, if you dont like the word dont use it, try something else you dont have to force yourself into it. I know I personally wouldnt want to thats just me, i wouldnt 'practice' i just wouldnt use it. If you want a differant term, you can use any that people have mentioned or talk to you Dominant and see what works for you.

ps, the op didnt say that Daddy was only used in age play simply that her dynamic is DaddyDom/baby girl.

Squicky uncomfortable or not, If her owner wants her to use the term daddy in specific, then shes going to have to learn to get over it, or set it as a limit, a name is a name. If He wants to be called daddy and she agrees to his terms, I offered how I got over the squickyness of it. Practice makes perfect, wither it be cleaning the house a certian way or saying certian phrases that make you blush, She asked How did you solve your problem with daddy, I replied with how I solved It, Im sorry you disagree.

You said that better than I would have, but you said it exactly how I wanted.

And wow, do you have a great attitude. Daddy's very lucky. :)

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/13/2008 5:24:59 AM

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So agree with Thunder on that......its just something that works itself out. You know in the tone or how easily the words will roll off your tounge saying it...or that place it sends you when you hear it

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I have never looked at it as age play...

Some understand...some don`t...

How about *come to PaPa instead* <grins>

Hope you find what works for you both...

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/13/2008 6:01:09 AM

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I had forgotten about that scene in the movie.....omg! That is hot. And for me the 'Daddy' title also came easier than "Sir" ever did in the past. I also know when Daddy would use my 1st & middle name, it would push other buttons in me & i knew he meant it or he was pushing limits on what we were doing. He used to know when he would hit that stubborn streak in me too & use both names.

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It took me some time to get used to calling Sinergy "Daddy", and now that I have gotten used to it, it comes very easily and more naturally than "Sir" and "master" ever did. I was watching 9 1/2 weeks recently and in the movie he tells her "Spread your legs for daddy". Just the way he said it made me so hot...

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/13/2008 7:06:42 AM

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As I noted earlier, I have been called "Daddy" and yes, it does push certain buttons. Like wenchie, I am sometimes a sick, twisted, individual. For me, it is not always the age buttons that are pushed although at times, a certain level of age is hit and played with. I love the nurturing and guiding aspects of a "Daddy" but I'd be lying if I didn't say that the darker elements attract me at times also.

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/13/2008 9:12:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: ThundersCry

I have never looked at it as age play...

Some understand...some don`t...

How about *come to PaPa instead* <grins>

Hope you find what works for you both...

Oooo, i love it when i call you "Big Papa"...put your hands in the air, if you're a true playa! :)))

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/13/2008 11:04:32 AM

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As I noted earlier, I have been called "Daddy" and yes, it does push certain buttons. Like wenchie, I am sometimes a sick, twisted, individual. For me, it is not always the age buttons that are pushed although at times, a certain level of age is hit and played with. I love the nurturing and guiding aspects of a "Daddy" but I'd be lying if I didn't say that the darker elements attract me at times also.

pervert!!

i've already been told how sick i am, and how i warp and twist what a twue Daddy/little girl relationship is supposed to be. i don't get into the baby play or any of that, and i do enjoy some of the more "traditional" aspects of a Daddy/lg dynamic (the caring, the nurturing, the feeling of being safe), but for me, the biggest lure and thrill is the sexual aspect. Yup, i wanna do my Daddy in every way possible... bad girl

tecara, i wanted to ask, you mentioned taking a list of possible alternates for "Daddy" did any of the appeal to him? There are quite a few people into this type of dynamic, ignore the squicked out looks and enjoy your relationship with your Daddy.

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/13/2008 11:09:04 AM

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It never felt weird to call my Dominant Daddy. I started doing it immediatly and with the utmost ease, but then maybe it's cause I've wanted a daddy dom for years and years quite litterally, and knew Daddy is what I was going to call him.

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Remember that any chosen name or title will feel a bit odd at first, Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/13/2008 1:02:34 PM

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age play is another form of role play. A Dom playing Daddy Dom is very sexy to this sub!

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/13/2008 6:49:03 PM

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Thank you sweetwenchie... yes I think a few did appeal to him. Will have to wait and see... I personally like papa and papi... so that's where my vote lays LOL.

And yes I plan on enjoying every little bit of it.... May loose a few friends, but then again if i do what kind of friends were they to begin with.

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