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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/13/2008 6:53:05 PM

YourhandMyAss

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Not to quibble or be picky but it's not role play to me. Role play to me is a role I take on and put away at whim, say like that of a cat or a dog, or pretending to be a horse, and it's not emotionally real, and ageplay is very emotionally real to me, and two my inner child, which is the wounded part of me that needs nurturing and care and very carefull handling, that never grew past childhood isn';t something I can take off and put on at whim. I am always an inner child. inside me I am always the mix of woman and child.

And Daddy is always Daddy it's something he switches on or off. so for him it's not role play either.

Anyway that's my definiition of role play, to me and me alone:)

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age play is another form of role play. A Dom playing Daddy Dom is very sexy to this sub!

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/13/2008 8:23:48 PM

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What we do is not about age play. For more information maybe you'd like to take a look at http://vanilla-not.com/basics/daddydom.html

Tecara,

Thank you for posting this link. I read it and felt a kindred connection to the author. It touched my heart and reduced to writing, what I have tried to explain to people and have written about on occasion. It describes my relationship with my Daddy almost to the letter.

As to what name you and your Dom choose to address him by, there are many suggestions here and some great ideas. I think you'll have your solution soon.

For me, my relationship with Him is unlike any other I have ever had. I have never respected a man the way I do Him. I have also never been submissive to a man before, nor have I been in a D/s relationship before Him. I am fortunate to have found someone who fits the description of the DaddyDom mentioned in the article, who wants me to succeed and prosper and to be soft enough to mold into the person He sees me becoming. The protective, nurturing, caring aspects are what makes my Beloved my "Daddy" - a name I have only used with my father. (And no, I don't have any weird hang-ups on my dad, he's just the only other man in my life who has treasured me and wanted the best for me as my Master does.) While we are not into "age play" as most tend to define it, our dynamic is such that He guides me and directs me, while respecting the fact that I am a grown, intelligent woman who just happens to get "squishy" when He calls me His "babygirl."

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/14/2008 8:43:19 AM

tecara

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Again thanks to all who responded it is great to get so much input.

Does anyone know of any groups that meet that are more focused on this form of lifestyle in Michigan?? Like I said this is very new to us, though D/s lifestyle isn't. So it would be nice to meet with others who have the same interest to learn and continue to grow.

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/22/2008 7:07:13 AM

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How about 'Uncle'? Does that include the necessary frisson while also providing a more necessary distance?

Just spare the jokes about 'crying uncle,' please.

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RE: Daddy by any other name... - 3/22/2008 8:39:59 AM

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daddy is a term of endearment for me, so regardless of whether or not our dynamics have a daddy/daughter and/or age-play undertone to it, it is my word of choice that means i absolutely, positively, without a doubt, adore him. calling him by any other term of endearment would work just as well, or even by calling him by his name, but my own personal choice and favorite is daddy; it's not something that he expects and/or even desires that i call him. it just is what it is.

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