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CelticPrince -> RE: In need of help! (4/1/2008 6:39:41 PM)
quote: I should mention that really ive never had an formal training. One long term so i understand the mindset. And i feel like its more natural. I have hit subspace, i know that i am submissive. I need that control. Long for it. But im cautious too. I know there are players out there and i wanted to slowly enter this. It was like hitting a wall of Domination at 80 mph. Boom. No training, little understanding of wants/expectations on either side. No patience and a lot of confusion delight, That was a long post for not having your profile up. You have been in the lifestyle for 3 years??? then I assume that you would have enough experience to know that your being playes as a sucker, not a cherished submissice. CP

ZenDragoness -> RE: In need of help! (4/2/2008 3:23:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FrankAr Now I know with that little tugging feeling that it was bud light, and some popcorn. The reason is with a few words again in the new post not ringing true, but hey that is just me, simple and straight. Have a good life and enjoy yourself. Be well. Frank Ar. Frank Ar, i like you have the feeling that that text could not be true, mainly because i renember on another board somebody who was very creative. But i think it is totally without interest if the story and person is true/real whatever, there are people out there that are in abusive situations and some good players (male and female) are able to sell the abuse as domination and because of that, i find it highly without importance if the story and the person is real. Ruth

ZenDragoness -> RE: In need of help! (4/2/2008 3:26:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael snip To those who think the post is bullshit, I don't. Strippers are young and dumb and rarely choose that lifestyle freely, something draws them to it. They love being treated like shit, a trait they often have even stronger than your average girl that age. It absolutely rings true to me. SimplyMichael, i found your words very important, because i worked some time in my life as a sex worker on the phone and although i am not of the 'love being treated like shit' persuasion, i saw a lot of my co workers do very crazy things and even i lived riskiert, than every other time in my life.

ShadowKing -> RE: In need of help! (4/2/2008 5:01:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch Most everyone here can attest that there is a HUGE difference in having someone tell you "you are a dirty, nasty fucking slut" and "You are MY dirty, nasty, fucking slut." Said the first way, it's designed to eat at your self esteem and make you feel worthless. Said the second way, it can raise you up and make you feel loved and wanted and free.. Which would you rather have in your life? Well Spoken. There is a world of difference when ownership is brought into the equation...

tebe12345 -> RE: In need of help! (4/4/2008 11:35:05 PM)
Hey, I definitely agree with everyone that he's abusive, not a caring dom. Besides all of the other reasons I thought that based on what you wrote, asking for money like that really just makes him a parasite as far as I'm concerned. Besides the fact that he's definitely not respecting your personal boundaries by threatening to get involved in the parts of life that you're not comfortable with him being involved with. Honestly, even if it were an issue in a relationship that had been going on longer I would say that would definitely be an issue. Good luck. Sends strength rays

tebe12345 -> RE: In need of help! (4/4/2008 11:39:08 PM)
haha dang...I just showed how new I am by not noticing the page counter in the bottom and replying after reading the first page. Oops.

branbran77 -> RE: In need of help! (4/5/2008 5:12:45 PM)
that guys not a Dom he's a Dick!

antipode -> RE: In need of help! (4/8/2008 10:26:08 PM)
I think you are better off being a sub, right now you are a masochist, you enjoy being hurt - or? This isn't a copout, but read your own question out to yourself, loud, your answer is in there. Alcohol involved, on his part, drugs?

MasterFireMaam -> RE: In need of help! (4/8/2008 11:28:52 PM)
Bottom line: If you are questioning if this is right, chances are, it's not. Master Fire

Pyrrsefanie -> RE: In need of help! (4/9/2008 12:37:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Stephann Strippers do random, sometimes bizzare things because the normal social rules don't really apply to them anymore. They live in a world that only other sex workers can understand, a world that they can't exactly call their daddy about and ask for advice Speaking from my own experience as a former stripper... yeah, I'll agree with this. The worst part is trying to unlearn it all and fit back into the social stream enough to function. It really is a completely different world, and something of a vortex or a black hole where every time you try to get away, it sucks you right back in. I spent almost two years trying to get away and barely made it. I can't say that the OP is necessarily a fakepost because I've seen and done some weird shit during my days as a dancer. I've been blind to blatant abuse such as what she describes. It was asked by someone previously in this thread how any real human being could not realize what was happening to them. My response is denial, self-medication, and a complete loss of your ties to reality. We had a saying in the business that if you didn't get out before a year was up, chances were you were never going to leave. I saw it happen to girls who said that they were just doing it for extra cash and ended up quitting their decent 9 to 5 jobs to dance full-time, and saw what it did to them. Some were okay with it. Most weren't. It takes a special kind of person to be able to handle the world of the sex industry without going completely mad or turning into basically a mindless zombie. Who knows why the profile of the OP was deleted... either she came here specifically to ask a question, or maybe she was fake after all (but honestly it's one of the best fakes I've ever read). I can only hope that she's not gone because some psychopathic bastard decided to take matters into his own hands. Which is not far out of the realm of possibility, considering that one of the girls I used to work with ended up dead in a ditch somewhere because of a similar situation.

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