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ORIGINAL: domahpet


next saturday im going to beg a collar from my dom.
hes known ive been wanting this from him and has given me permission.
i think he is ready.
one thing, he isnt a DOM, as in he dosent call himself such, or put up
any fronts. he just is (still with me?). simply, he has what i need, and im willing to deal
with any lack of 'experience'.

ive been collared once before but i didnt beg for it, it was given.
i know he can care for me, guide me and give me what i need, also
that we will have alot of bumps on
our road, this being his first time 'formally' and all.
i have alot to say, but im not sure if it will be appropriate to say it all
during this time. hes also told me to keep it short.
im trying to outline it in my head, and struggling with it.
i want to offer support without seeming too on top about it,
and let him know i will do anything within my power for him.

im excited and worried at the same time lol.
anybody have anything to add that either of us might find helpfull?
ive already done the search, so L.A. you can relax this time ;)
(actually i found a thread on the subject with your links and read them all lol)
itd be appreciated :)

edited to invite the hidden members to please comment too...

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

well, she liked it, saw how she might have been slightly overanalyzing the wrong end of it, and got some good suggestions, I wrote her a personal email (as I have done on more than one occasion) and said along the lines of what sunshinemiss said, though far less eloquently.....but I do want to take this opportunity to thank you for that insightful upbraiding, it has made a world of difference in my life.

Cordially,
Ron