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I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 3:26:14 PM   
tweetybird02692


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Status: offline 		I am a new sub in training with my Master.  One of things that is expected of me is to have other pussy lined up for him and I when he wants it.  I have been trying to do this now for a month and keep striking out.  I have no idea what I'm doing wrong.  My Master is VERY sexy......  Can anyone give me suggestions or tell me how they have worked through this??  Right now I am being punished by not being able to see him until I can line up some pussy.  I am going crazy........
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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 3:35:24 PM   
Shawn1066


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Status: offline 		Call me an optimist, but most women don't -just- want to be "pussy"

If you just want somebody for sex, then you might as well go the Spitzer route...  If you want somebody to last a little longer...then you should try to offer them a little more than your Master's alleged hotness.  I mean, trying to find them -just- for sex doesn't seem to be working, does it?

I would say more...but...if you can't say something nice, then you shouldn't say anything at all.

In other words, I can't think of much nice to say about your Master's pracitices.

DV's Fox

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 3:36:52 PM   
Sunnyfey


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From: OK
Status: offline 		hmmm. Thats a hard one. I mean you kind of have to think about it, Your a single girl, bisexual just hanging out at a bar. Another girl comes along flirts with you, your haveing a good time drinking and you hear this "See that sexy ass mofo over there? Thats my man, you wanna come home with us?" this is what goes through the girls head.

"Oh god that could be fun, but they are in a relationship, that means im just a peice of ass, I dont need that again, but maybe we could have fun, but then I dont know either of them at all, maybe they wanna kill me instead"

see? Bad.......How to counter act that? Hell I STILL dont know.

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 3:40:24 PM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		go to a phone box

you see the little card witha  picture of the pretty lady?

ring that number

BANG sorted :D


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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 3:45:15 PM   
tweetybird02692


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Status: offline 		I have to agree.... I wouldn't want to just be someone's piece of ass whenever they wanted it.  Being new to this lifestyle I have no idea what I could/would offer someone so it would be more appealing.  Suggestions on that?

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 3:57:22 PM   
pissdoll


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tweetybird02692

Being new to this lifestyle I have no idea what I could/would offer someone so it would be more appealing. 



You have no idea because there is nothing you can offer to make it appealing in the least.

YOU are being punished because women (strangers) don't want to put out for HIM.
That is something you need to think about.



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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 4:04:33 PM   
aphrodite5


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quote:

YOU are being punished because women (strangers) don't want to put out for HIM.
That is something you need to think about.


Amen.

My Daddy has given me the task of talking to women and possibly finding a potential play-friend. Not a score of them, and not strictly to please him/us whenever we feel the need to call -- Lordy, we could pay someone for that. But it takes time, it takes building a relationship, and I am certainly not punished for any "failure."

I'm not sure if the "line up some pussy" wording is yours or your Master's. Either way it's crass and unattractive. Hopefully one or both of you will wise up about the situation, and be a little more realistic.

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 4:05:21 PM   
mnottertail


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I have to agree with pissdoll, and as she infers, say piss on it.

Ron  

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 4:07:12 PM   
completenz


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Status: offline 		biting my tongue here..... really hard
Why would other women want to be used by a 'man' who couldnt even make the approach himself? No wonder you are having trouble finding someone, and this 'prince amongst men' is punishing you for failing!!
How can you make it more appealing? i dont honestly think you can.
good luck
c

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 4:10:02 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		May I recommend cash?  Find an escort service with bennies.  Pay a call girl to play with your master.  They like money, his sexiness or not wouldn't even be an issue. 
Personally I wouldn't be with some guy who needed me to help get him laid and it was not me he was doing.  But to each their own.
Kyst
quote:

ORIGINAL: tweetybird02692

I have to agree.... I wouldn't want to just be someone's piece of ass whenever they wanted it.  Being new to this lifestyle I have no idea what I could/would offer someone so it would be more appealing.  Suggestions on that?


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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 4:12:29 PM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		He's living in a fantasy world.

The chickenhawk routine works about once try in a hundred-if the girl is in the right mood.

Wonders why so many poly doms are just too frickin stupid to figure that one out....

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 4:23:46 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I agree with the others- why are you finding it so hard to hire an escort?

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 4:31:19 PM   
trueshadow


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Status: offline 		Yeah, maybe, but I wonder about a guy who is using you to procure women.  Can't he get anyone on his own? 

Could you get me one, too, since your are on this mission?

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 4:44:30 PM   
littleone35


Posts: 2828
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Status: offline 		Maybe her master is too cheap to hire an escort why pay if you can get it for free?  I know i would not be with a dom who punishes me just because i can't find a girl who wants to be a peice of ass.  Actually many girls want to be in an  real relationship  not all but many.  What girl wants to be on call if your master decides he wants to play?  Not many i would think.

walks away wondering

Matt's littleone

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 4:59:21 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		Humane Society?

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 5:04:01 PM   
MRandme


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Status: offline 		tweetybird,

i see this pretty often on here and it always amazes me. One of the hardest things in this lifestyle is finding a third person for a relationship. It takes a great deal of time and patience to do so. 

WannaBe Doms will tell a sub/slave that they must find them a third in a certain amount of time or else. The sub/slave is usually very new to the lifestyle and doesn't know the impossibility of the task -- the chances of it happening are incredibly small even if given a year. Then the sub/slave is made to feel incredibly bad for 'failing'.  you have been set up in a game you can never win. 

This man is using you. There are Doms out there that will respect you and are man enough to pursue their own harem if that is their desire. you can do soooo much better.

i wish you the best.

g


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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 5:07:42 PM   
TethersEnd


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Joined: 1/29/2007
Status: offline 		He needs to pull his head out of his own Ass. 
Although I suppose there are a few women who would consider joining in occasionally are they the kind of women
he's going to drool over or are they ... well you get what I'm saying.  It's hard enough to find a Bi friend just to hang
with when you have a significant other who is looking at them as a new Toy in the Box ~or~ is that a New Box
for his Toy?  snicker... either way, your searching under duress is not going to accomplish a thing other then to get you in more trouble.  .................  Now, keep in mind if he goes searching he is more likely to find that extra.  What comes of that is what the three of you make it. 

Good Luck.........



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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 5:10:09 PM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		Well, is he any good with a flogger or his dick? Seriously. And are you willing to pay for airfare?

Oh wait, your profile says I have to answer to both of you. Well, fiddlefuck, I don't answer to our subs. Sorry.

Cali


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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 5:29:48 PM   
SageFemmexx


Posts: 240
Joined: 1/2/2007
Status: offline 		Personally I am always amazed at the number of women cruising for their masters on this site. I've even been approached by a prostitution ring in the UK.

Hun, it's like this--you are the piece of meat. You are the Bait for these other women who apparently are smarter than you are and not biting.

Think about the position you are in long and hard. You can bet when something younger and cuter comes along--you are the one out the door.

Sorry,

Sage

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/14/2008 5:39:15 PM   
TotalState


Posts: 278
Joined: 9/3/2007
Status: offline 		Make clear to him that he is about to go from one to zero women in his ridiculously lazy chase for multiple ones.


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