Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...?

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Looking4Alphonse -> Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 6:57:40 PM)
....I am just asking...

AMaster -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 7:02:40 PM)
I don't. However years ago a female sub insisted in paying me for each session. She felt it was the ultimate humiliation. I enjoyed the idea. myself. Not for the money, but as part of the play.

SinergyNstrumpet -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 7:03:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Looking4Alphonse ....I am just asking... Not in my experience... but I am not vastly experienced. julia

SimplyMichael -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 7:05:24 PM)
I have charged before, but only as part of the humiliation.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 7:05:56 PM)
Yes. But usually they want tribute in the form of how the woman dresses and acts and puts out rather than in the direct form of a physical gift or money.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 7:08:34 PM)
They do, occasionally. I have known a few who expected the girl to pay for dinner and such. They arent quite as flagrant about it, and they dont flaunt it as much as the female oney dommes do, but it definately happens. DV

Leatherist -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 7:13:53 PM)
Of course not-if I asked them, they would tell me to grow the fuck up and make my own money-what am I, some sort of freaking gigilo?[:D]

domahpet -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 7:16:32 PM)
can we talk about these profiles and finders fees and such? cause its freakin me the fuck out........

Aileen1968 -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 7:17:48 PM)
No. Not in my world.

LaMspeach -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 7:20:01 PM)
Yup, they ask for things like a green jags, a female midget, and more bitchs.

MasterLDesade -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 7:33:33 PM)
Looking4Alphonse , Yes as a Pro-Master i accept & appreciate Tribute in the form of what i need for work or personal play . A client may bring a sling i have requested from a certain shop which is quite expensive this will be built into the clients fee and arranged how i feel . I have a base line payment which expands only if others have to be bought into scene , or specialist kink . A Master i know in Melbourne accepts Tribute in the form of a Carton of Beer off clients whom are quite mature & no longer work so they bring to Master what they can afford to bring not being asked beyond their means . The Master i speak of is Lifestyle not Pro & one hell off a Deviate with many tricks in Bag of Goodies . If you are married then do you not as a male give Tribute to your Wife in the form of your weekly wages or vise versa & then have penetrative sex with that person at some stage , well a Pro-Mistress whom is Traditional accepts Tribute & has no penetrative sex with the client at all . As a Master i do all the penetrating & invasion of clients body & mind . These are my views based on my reality & observation's . Regards MasterLDesade

RumpusParable -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 7:35:05 PM)
In my experience, yes, but it's more just taken for granted that because the dominant is male that he'll ultimately control the assets either or both have.

MasterLDesade -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 7:53:46 PM)
RumpusParable , here's a curve ball old mate , i believe in Female Supremacy and as such choose to have all my possessions including House, Car , Business all in Mistress Mercia's name . When it all boils down ya come in Naked & go out Naked carrying nothing to the next world . So in my world i do not control the asserts , i give my advise & council to Mistress on Business & if my council is wise then we do well . I do not carry The Seed women do & i recognize this special ability . Many men will find this philosophy odd , but more fulfilling than any other way of relationship i have ever known or been involved in & one i will not nor ever change . Regards MasterLDesade

AquaticSub -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 7:59:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Yes. But usually they want tribute in the form of how the woman dresses and acts and puts out rather than in the direct form of a physical gift or money. What she said.

MD1Master -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 7:59:41 PM)
I can not imagine taking cash even if it is a part of humiliation. If it is mentally adventageous, have the submissive write and mail the check to a charitable organization. This accomplishes the humiliation of "paying for it" while not "dirtying" the hands of the Dominant. As a general rule I would not support the acceptance of cash though without knowing specific circumstances it is difficult to make absolute statements. However, charitable donations are a viable alternative.

subtee -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 8:05:38 PM)
Yes, I'm seeing the humiliation...for the Dom. You want to garner some respect? You're in control and she's gonna pay? Shall she order then too? Direct the waiter or consierge? Or just hand over her credit card? Pfffft. A six- or twelve-pack for her submission? That's class! More posters? Jaysus...

Leatherist -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 8:07:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subtee Yes, I'm seeing the humiliation...for the Dom. You want to garner some respect? You're in control and she's gonna pay? Shall she order then too? Direct the waiter or consierge? Or just hand over her credit card? Pfffft. A six- or twelve-pack for her submission? That's class! More posters? Jaysus... And no doubt, her dinner conversation....How long HAVE you lived in your mother's basement? Do you think you can get an extension on your unemployment?

subtee -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 8:10:50 PM)
What are you talking about? I've been supporting myself since I'm 18. I haven't lived in the same state as my parents for 25 years. I'm an employed writer. You want some of my money?

Leatherist -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 8:12:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subtee What are you talking about? I've been supporting myself since I'm 18. I haven't lived in the same state as my parents for 25 years. I'm an employed writer. You want some of my money? I think you misunderstand. I'm talking about what the hypothetical sub is saying to the freeloading "dom" [;)]

subtee -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 8:13:36 PM)
Oh, you're right...I totally effed that shit up. So sorry. [;)]

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