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Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 7:31:06 AM   
MissSCD


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I know most of you have heard about the scandal involving the New York Senator and his $80,000 prostitute ring. 
My question to women and men alike is where do we draw the line when our spouse is caught cheating?
His wife stood by him, or at least stood up there with him.  The poor thing was in shock.  I am sure she did this as part of the job as First Lady of New York.
She should have been allowed to speak.  When Hillary stood by Bill, we knew she was probably going to beat him up when he got home, or she did not care.  This lady appeared to be in shock as I was when I caught my ex cheating. 
It was bad enough to go through it with my small family, but for the entire country to know, it would have been devestating.
What do you think?

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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 7:33:18 AM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		Every situation is different.
I know it's very humiliating, especially when it's in front of the whole world.
It's difficult to know what goes on behind closed doors.

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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 7:41:34 AM   
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As for Bill and Monica: there is no proof whatsoever that anything occurred between them.
 
As for adultery: some men do it, and probably a much larger number of women do it even more. Jesus said: "Let he who is without sin throw the first stone".

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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 7:44:53 AM   
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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 7:47:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		  i give her credit for not just cutting all ties with him and heading for the horizon with the kids in tow. And that the one reason i can think of that she might stay with him, the kids.  This whole mess is bad enough, but why add the stress of a divorce to everything else their daughters have to be going through? then again, i could be totaly wrong. Either way, i hope everything works out for her and her daughters. Spitzer himself i could care less about, he brought this on himself, but his family shouldn't have to suffer for it.

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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 7:48:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Rule
 
As for Bill and Monica: there is no proof whatsoever that anything occurred between them.


Yah, he was probably just walking down the hallway holding a shot glass of jism, she bumped into him, and it spilled all over her dress.

Oh, yeah, and his *finally* admitting it, probably isn't proof...

*lol*

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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 7:49:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		What amazes me is the sight of these women dutifully standing next to their husbands as they humiliate themselves into abject public apologies for their sexual forthcomings.

I would have told him to fuck off, and to face the crowd on his own. But I'm a selfish, cruel, evil woman.

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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 7:57:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have always wondered why anyone BUT the spouse gives a shit who a politician has sex with.

There was a great article, I think in The Times, this weekend on this subject. High profile marriages and infidelity. Also a good discussion on NPR either last Thursday or Friday.

Personally, I think that sort of marriage is often more of a business arrangement/partnership, with the politician's career being the business. To stand by the politician is probably in many cases, better business........up to a point. If the career goes down the toilet and there is no reason to maintain the business partnership, the marriage will probably end also.


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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 8:01:31 AM   
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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 8:02:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		ask any man who has ever cheated why he did it.
i dare you.
i notice, even on this short thread, that the subbies
seem to have a bigger issue with this than the dommes.
give him what he needs, whatever it is.
do your damn job women!


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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 8:03:14 AM   
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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 8:09:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: domahpet

ask any man who has ever cheated why he did it.
i dare you.
i notice, even on this short thread, that the subbies
seem to have a bigger issue with this than the dommes.
give him what he needs, whatever it is.
do your damn job women!



A 2x4 upside the head to deflate their overinflated ego, appears to be what most of them need.


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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 8:10:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		so, does that mean the blow jobs are out?

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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 8:12:15 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: domahpet

ask any man who has ever cheated why he did it.
i dare you.
i notice, even on this short thread, that the subbies
seem to have a bigger issue with this than the dommes.
give him what he needs, whatever it is.
do your damn job women!



A 2x4 upside the head to deflate their overinflated ego, appears to be what most of them need.



Actually, no man has ever dared cheat on me: he would have been far too terrified of the consequences.

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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 8:12:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MissSCD

Greetings:
 
I know most of you have heard about the scandal involving the New York Senator and his $80,000 prostitute ring. 
My question to women and men alike is where do we draw the line when our spouse is caught cheating?Everyone draws a different line, some can forgive what others can't and vice versa.
His wife stood by him, or at least stood up there with him.  The poor thing was in shock.  I am sure she did this as part of the job as First Lady of New York.How are YOU sure she did the job as part of First Lady? I agree she looked shellshocked.
She should have been allowed to speak.  When Hillary stood by Bill, we knew she was probably going to beat him up when he got home, or she did not care.  This lady appeared to be in shock as I was when I caught my ex cheating.  Maybe she did not want to speak, maybe she had nothing to say. We cannot know. Just as we cannot know that Hillary was probably going to beat up Bill.
It was bad enough to go through it with my small family, but for the entire country to know, it would have been devestating.
What do you think?I think it would be awful to go through but I admired her composure while on camera. People that live in the public eye have to expect that their lives are open to speculation... much like this thread has done.

Regards, MissSCD


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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 8:15:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

so, does that mean the blow jobs are out?


If you are clobbering them upside the head, the pecker will remain virtually unaffected. Blow at will!


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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 8:16:38 AM   
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If you are clobbering them upside the head, the pecker will remain virtually unaffected. Blow at will!



There's a fee for the clobbering upside the head and for the blowing; that was the Governor's downfall  .

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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 8:16:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		The other night they had some clips of when he first took office, and she was giving some interviews. She just GLOWED. She was beautiful.
The stress this has put on her has come through in her face and, of course, in her demeanor.
I really feel for the whole family.

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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 8:16:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

Actually, no man has ever dared cheat on me: he would have been far too terrified of the consequences.


Good grief, no sane man would WANT to!


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RE: Stand by Your Man? - 3/17/2008 8:18:08 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

The other night they had some clips of when he first took office, and she was giving some interviews. She just GLOWED. She was beautiful.
The stress this has put on her has come through in her face and, of course, in her demeanor.
I really feel for the whole family.


I only ever feel bad for the children.


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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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