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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/17/2008 8:48:27 PM   
MissAngelandsub


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I have been fisted once vaginally. Usually I can't handle anything too big in that area and it took alot of warming up first but it felt good until my body started telling me get it out lol.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/17/2008 9:00:48 PM   
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i would love to do it...have never been able to get anyone's knuckle's past the pubic bone...hands large and small...always get to four fingers, and nothing more, though pounding against the pubic bone is nice too...

i have been anally fisted once...just sort of happened, slipped right in after anal sex, apparently, for me, in that instance semen was appropriate lube and anal sex was appropriate preperation...never had anyone willing to do so since then...and last year i had surgery that rendered any anal play inadvisable...and i am sad, i could actually orgasm from anal sex, but no anal play is better than uncontrolable rectal bleeding...

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/17/2008 9:14:41 PM   
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No, No, No, No,No, No, NOOOOOO!!!

And don't ask me again.  *grinz*


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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/17/2008 9:43:39 PM   
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I have never considered fisting.  It holds no interest for me other than to make me think... no freakin way. LOL.  Mentally I don't understand the appeal for some people who embrace fisting.  Thankfully, I have never had a partner who asked that from me.  At this point it is on my "there better by a good reason to want to do that" list.
It is not exactly hard, but darned close.
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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/17/2008 9:54:07 PM   
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i have never been fisted... or even stretched with large toys for that matter.  i do enjoy watching others do it--but currently i am not interested for many reasons.  The main reasons is the fact that i would not want to stretch myself before i was in a very serious relationship.  Becuase, if i do and the person i end up with hates that type of thing--i kind of screwed myself over.  But i would be up for it in the future especially if i was thinking about having a kid.  [ At an attempt to avoid external tearing? lol ]

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/17/2008 10:15:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: darchChylde

No, No, No, No,No, No, NOOOOOO!!!

And don't ask me again.  *grinz*



I am not clear on your answer, ummm so what you are saying is maybe? 

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/17/2008 10:22:39 PM   
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Oops..forgot...latex gloves help everything slide easier... and TRIM THOSE DAMNED NAILS... No one needs an unprescribed D&C.
Gloves definitely make things slide better. And I also agree, keep those nails as short as possible.

Water-soluble lube for vaginal.
Crisco for anal.

Of course, I've only read about it.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/17/2008 10:32:40 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sillyfool

i have never been fisted... or even stretched with large toys for that matter.  i do enjoy watching others do it--but currently i am not interested for many reasons.  The main reasons is the fact that i would not want to stretch myself before i was in a very serious relationship.  Becuase, if i do and the person i end up with hates that type of thing--i kind of screwed myself over.  But i would be up for it in the future especially if i was thinking about having a kid.  [ At an attempt to avoid external tearing? lol ]


has NOTHING to do with it.  i have two yardapes.  and Daddy STILL cannot get two fingers comfortably into me. 

some women are built to where they can accomodate a hand, and some are not.  and there is no shame either way.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 3:44:43 AM   
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I've only fisted one girl vaginally... Lube on the back of the hand(very often forgotten as most put it in their palm)

the other very important detail: (at least for her) was to make sure you washed your hands first almost imediately before... she often kept a bottle of hand sanitizer right next to the bed. 

Cheers
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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 4:20:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Skully7000

I've only fisted one girl vaginally... Lube on the back of the hand(very often forgotten as most put it in their palm)

the other very important detail: (at least for her) was to make sure you washed your hands first almost imediately before... she often kept a bottle of hand sanitizer right next to the bed. 

Cheers
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i'd add for ANY sort of digital play.  especially if you're a smoker.  for some reason that can be VERY irritating.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 4:25:43 AM   
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Fisting......yes, no, maybe or no way??  Yes

What is your experience with it?

I am pretty experienced

Anally or vaginally?
Only vaginal one but would loooooove to try other way

Something you enjoy doing?
First thing on my favorite list

Any tricks to making it work?
Being really aroused and relaxed that's all folks

All i have heard on it is lube lube & more lube.
Works for me without other lube that my own.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 4:32:02 AM   
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i have been fisted both vaginally and anal so far 4 fingers in vagina and 2 fingers in anus i do not enjoy it very much but it seems to make a Master happy and that is the main thing i think

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 4:42:50 AM   
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vaginally
and only experienced it as the receiver.
 
that's a big YES vote from me.
 
I can be such a sensation junky at times..
and fisting, for me, is such an onslaught of feelings, both physically and emotionally all at the same time.
 
Then there is the intensity of Tyson's control during this.  His voice so close to my face, warm and controlling, commanding me to relax.."open for me....relax...listen to my voice...I want to crawl up inside you...let me deep inside you..."
 
He stays so close, I usually hang onto him...he loves that my whole body shudders and shakes, my thighs tend to spasm and quake....I love his words of command...He keeps our eyes open and fixated on each others.  I love the sadistic expression on his face and to see his eyes change. 
 
I both love and hate my Gspot to be touched...it feels scary and wonderful all at the same time.
 I feel very vulnerable and generally resist the urges that feel like my insides are turning into something hot and liquid that needs to run out of me....he loves that vulnerable place in me and his words of reassurance that "its ok  let it all flow ..liquid is a part of you, give it to me"  makes me feel very free..
 
so fisting generally leads to that kind of touching and using by him.  my words of > "ohhh gawd I can't"  are met by his  " ohhh but you will "  and my mind cums for him  way before my body does.
 
The best feeling  > are his words of pride that he expresses afterwards.  I love it when I make him proud of me.
 
 
 
 

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 4:54:36 AM   
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What is your experience with it? likes it once in awhile
Anally or vaginally? - Vaginally..not sure if I would dig doing it anally
Something you enjoy doing? it would fun will do it again
Any tricks to making it work? - i love when there is a vibrator on my clit i find that helps me relax
All i have heard on it is lube lube & more lube.- lube does help but i find if my partner has talented fingers no  need for lube

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 6:35:23 AM   
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Like it?  Not at all!!!!
Experiance?  Tried and failed, many times.



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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 6:57:46 AM   
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quote:

i have been fisted both vaginally and anal so far 4 fingers in vagina and 2 fingers in anus


think that is called fingering, not fisted..
(but if it feels good..who cares)


I am not attracted to fisting....not that I am against it..but why put my fist in it when I can put an other part in it.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 6:58:01 AM   
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He dips His lid:

Love to give it vaginally and realise many simply can't receive it for mental (ok- psychological) and/or physical reasons. But it's the fun of the 'doing' towards the accomplishment and achieving 'it' becomes the icing.  - similar to a woman not having an orgasm all the time- still enjoy it.

For me though the ultimate with fist is actually 'fist fucking' bracing one arm whilst the other pistons- now that is something and certainly worthy of the girl taking a bow.

The Website of alysha contains some quality extreme sample examples without cost and (to date) no virus.
http://www.naughtyalysha.com/videos.htm?nats

Warm regards To all, keep 'em trimmed, clean and lubed with both giver and receiver smiling.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 7:16:56 AM   
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YES YES YES ! !!  LOVE  being anally fisted by my mistress ...we do it at least once a week most weeks its 2 times  first she says hello to my ass with one or 2 of her strapons and when she thinks im ready and relaxed and opened up for her out goes the strapon and in goes her fist  amazing feeling it is once she slides in ..love the power exchange ..and we both find it amazing so far i can take up to her elbow  she has trained me well  cant believe how addicting it is ..great way to submit to a woman ..can a man be anymore vulnerable to a woman when she does so ?  enemas are a must before hand ..i usually do those myself  before our get togethers ..she loves me clean on the inside and outside as well ..figure thats the least i could do for her ..sometimes she gives me the enemas too which i think really sets me in the submissive mode ..something about a woman giving a man multiple enemas to get him really clean can be fun too she has fisted me standing up ...kneeling doggystyle ..or me laying flat on my back ..once she is inside of me im all hers ..love the loving caring way she does it too ..but yes she is determined  for those really into strapon play try having her fist you next time ...like i said before once she slides in you that feeling is amazing   most times when she fists me she does milk my prostate ..she loves the control of watching me cum and i have no control over that as she takes my cum from me ..whats amazing afterwards is how relaxed i am ..love that feeling too ..being taken by a woman anally can be lots of fun i must say .and it all started with a few innocent fingers of hers ..... as always have fun and enjoy ..mal

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 7:20:38 AM   
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Think about girls who can 't have this gratification!!!! 

As we say in many occasions: you take what life is giving you


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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 7:30:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Chloelicious

Think about girls who can 't have this gratification!!!! 

As we say in many occasions: you take what life is giving you



yes  I know ;)
(and know approx where you live :P )

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