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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 7:34:26 AM

Leatherist

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i would love to do it...have never been able to get anyone's knuckle's past the pubic bone...hands large and small...always get to four fingers, and nothing more, though pounding against the pubic bone is nice too...

i have been anally fisted once...just sort of happened, slipped right in after anal sex, apparently, for me, in that instance semen was appropriate lube and anal sex was appropriate preperation...never had anyone willing to do so since then...and last year i had surgery that rendered any anal play inadvisable...and i am sad, i could actually orgasm from anal sex, but no anal play is better than uncontrolable rectal bleeding...

chelle

Sorry to hear about the physical issues. Part of the trick to fisting is to push back against the asshole, to get past the pubic bone. And having the knuckles flat, and in the right plane as you are doing it.

Once you feel the knuckles sliding between the pubis and tailbone, you just twist your hand and fold your fingers into the palm. The pc mucle will try to close, and it will suck your fist right in.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 8:25:19 AM

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ORIGINAL: Chloelicious

Think about girls who can 't have this gratification!!!!

As we say in many occasions: you take what life is giving you

For me its a matter of having a broken tailbone that didn't heal right (which most injuries of that nature rarely do). Even if my body was built to accomodate a man size fist, the pain from my old injury would be unbearable.

Therefore, I don't feel even the slightest bit sorry I wasn't built for the experiance. Its just one of those things I can't do like pee'ing standing up.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 8:57:34 AM

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My owner has never done such with me.

To tell the truth, I am not sure that I would enjoy it; nor want or wish for it.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 11:59:38 AM

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*smiles* The suggested reading of "Hand in the Bush" is a GREAT tip.
I've met Deborah Addington a few times and boy...does she ever make you want to ask for a demo!!!!

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 3:23:31 PM

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Been successfuly vaginally fisted once. It was a huge lesson on trust, the sensation was different from anything i've ever tried or done before.

He took his time, used gloves and lots of lube and talked to me to keep me calm and reassured.

Would I try it again?? Definately if my partner was interested in doing so.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 4:07:45 PM

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It took Me a long time to get past the idea that I wouldnt be physically fucked up after....that as My OBGYN had said.."it would stretch a mile before it tore an inch..." I had to get that idea of OMG...how can it feel the same after to Him...

So when D talked Me into it, it was like...7 bottles of lube and even then He could only get like 4 fingers in, to the last knuckles before it was caught on My pelvic bone...and I have to say...it was intense...I liked it, but I couldnt do it all the time...I dont think physcially I could take it.

When I asked Him after the fact, as we had sex after, what it felt like, He said that by the time He moved Me into the doggy style position, I was snapped back and He couldnt tell He had done it at all.

I admit I was sore as HELL for days after...but it was almost delicious because it was a reminder that I had endured that.

I havent done it with My kitten yet, tho she is extreamly small, and two fingers made her bleed, but I see the time coming when I will, based on the fact that D told Me something I hadnt thought of..." It's and extreamly powerful feeling holding the power of a womans orgasm in the palm of your hand. Its intoxicating."

Anally? I dont even think so. I dont do anal in any shape form or fashion, other than to give it and to use it as torture.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 4:31:18 PM

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Anal is torture? Damn...I was into masochism longer than i thought...

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 4:41:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: Skully7000

I've only fisted one girl vaginally... Lube on the back of the hand(very often forgotten as most put it in their palm)

the other very important detail: (at least for her) was to make sure you washed your hands first almost imediately before... she often kept a bottle of hand sanitizer right next to the bed.

Cheers
Skully

I'm assuming not alcohol based hand sanitizer, that'd be a bit

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 4:50:53 PM

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I've fisted men and women. The trick is patience and a sense of timing. You have to wait for them to adjust to every inch as the sensation becomes more and more intense.

You have to figure out folding in fingers, where to place your thumb, how far to slide in as they become looser. Their breathing helps, as the jaw relaxes so does the pelvic floor muscles. Gentle reminders, gentle stretching as they learn to trust you and themselves.

I've had male subs hit the ceiling like a geyser when they cum.

It's heady, invigorating and quite lovely.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 5:01:07 PM

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I have been fisted only a couple of times before and it took a lot of working up to it for weeks, and lots of patience. 2 fingers is a chore to get into me.. so a whole hand even that of a female is asking a whole hell of a lot. It is not something we do a lot of .. it only happened a couple of times. It was wonderful when it happened.. but due to my body and how it is oddly tilted, and the uterus is upside down and twisted it is just harder for large penitrations. I have half the crawl space.. LOL

I love anal.. but I dont think I would ever be interested in a very large object being shoved up my ass. Cock size is big enough thanks. *chuckles*

I have fisted both males and females and what has been said here is all true.. lots of lube, latex gloves are great.. communication. and the book mentioned is a great one.

Gwyn

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 5:19:40 PM

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I'd love to do it, however he wears a 2X size glove and no way can he get it in there. In fact I don't think he's managed more than three fingers.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 5:30:41 PM

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Vaginally, yes, and yes. Unless I've indulged too recently.
Anally, not in this lifetime, not as a bottom. (My ass is exit only.)

Anyone silly enough to accept a bare hand inside her is risking more than she knows; hell, more than I know or want to!
Besides which, a glove (latex, nitrile, polyurethane), as noted, does not absorb (water-based) lube, and consequently lessens the interruptions needed to apply more lube. No, there is no such thing as too much lube. And even so, after an hour-plus of continuous orgasm I had to call stop, simply because lubed or not, I was beginning to abrade through a couple of spots.

Tops please note that natural juices are not always lubricants, especially if you're fisting a squirter. I've had one person tease me that I kept trying to "wash off the lube"...I squirt when it gets intense, and that time got way intense.

Whole fists are less frequently accepted, for me, but a blacksmith's four fingers can be heaven just the same. And one gentleman's comments when we got going was..."A giggler--I *love* gigglers!"
And the fistee is driving, every time. Otherwise the top is only a sadist.

Like most things sexual or kink...better to have at least one experienced person on the team when a novice starts out.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 8:51:22 PM

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Thats what i am imagining the whole thing to be when i accomplish it...& everything i have been told about it too.....makes u feel like they are at your core & is the ultimate in submission.
TYSM for sharing that so well.

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ORIGINAL: TysGalilah
so fisting generally leads to that kind of touching and using by him. my words of > "ohhh gawd I can't" are met by his " ohhh but you will " and my mind cums for him way before my body does.

The best feeling > are his words of pride that he expresses afterwards. I love it when I make him proud of me.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 8:59:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: petitespitfire64

Anal is torture? Damn...I was into masochism longer than i thought...

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 9:02:11 PM

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Gwyn: "It was wonderful when it happened.. but due to my body and how it is oddly tilted, and the uterus is upside down and twisted it is just harder for large penitrations. I have half the crawl space.. LOL"

Just means you have to stand on your head.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 9:10:10 PM

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D'slilone: "anally, i'm not going there; i happen to like not being anal incontinent and that's another one of those subjects that's pretty arguable; i for one am not taking my chances in that area."

I'm fairly sure that's a myth/unwarranted fear.

Any adventurous & curious women close to the Atlanta area, I can barely play a barre chord on a Strat, that's how small my hands are.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 9:41:04 PM

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Vaginally...maybe.........anally-where's my shot gun?!!!!Tempting

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 9:43:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

anally-where's my shot gun?!!!!Tempting

LMAO Tempting, I really adore you!!

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/18/2008 11:29:47 PM

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Not so long ago I would have answered this question much differently...lol. After nearly 30 years of failed attempts at vaginal fisting I can FINALLY say that this is one fantasy that has been placed on the "fulfilled" list.....and yeah....it was awesome!!!!

As for anal fisting, I'm with tempting....and I know right where my shotgun is and it IS loaded!!!

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/19/2008 1:08:41 AM

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Gwynvyd: "I love anal.. but I dont think I would ever be interested in a very large object being shoved up my ass."

"Shoving" something is not a particularly erotic way to go about things. Or so I've heard.

The Real Manly-Men Domly-Doms would know a whole lot better than Me. I've heard of them shoving a whole head up their asses. Sounds like breathing would be problematic, but what do I know? I got kicked out of the "Anal-Snorkeling" class at Folsom. I miss so much.

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