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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/19/2008 3:18:02 AM   
deliciousmorsel


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Status: offline 		Vaginally, only once after many other orgasms, it was my first scene, I was on all fours and don't remember much it was so ecstatic! And I squirted for the only time ever; it took me an hour just to mop the floors in this big room after. I was told I squirted several times. I recommend it! After a few orgasms to relax... I want it again actually, that Dom had some other problems and I ditched him but I'd love to find a man who can do that to me more. And then more!

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/19/2008 8:29:05 AM   
Daddyslilpookie


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Status: offline 		Fisting....I might try it again but my first experience with it was pretty strange. The dom got about 4 fingers in and started to work the thumb in and I started to bleed. I don't know why that happened.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/19/2008 7:43:15 PM   
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anally-where's my shot gun?!!!!Tempting


LMAO Tempting, I really adore you!! 
Awww, thanks OG!!...the adoration goes both ways..:0)..Tempting

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/19/2008 8:05:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		I loved fisting. I've only done it to one person but we loved it. Never tried anal though and really have no desire to try that one. I found that a lot of playing first and stretching with fingers and toys that it makes it a lot easier. We even did it with minimal lube on occasional for more of the surprise and shock factor.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/20/2008 12:45:29 PM   
subseeks1


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Status: offline 		Thanks for all your GREAT replies to this.
Yes, its top  of the list here on things i want to accomplish....
to be able to do it with ease this year.


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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/20/2008 2:07:58 PM   
CatsEyesGrrl


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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

*sigh* yay for punch fucked!!

Beautifully written, Cats... :)

and just in case anyone missed the concept: THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS TOO MUCH LUBE when it comes to fisting...



Why thank you! It's always nice to be appreciated!

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/20/2008 8:42:06 PM   
khem


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Status: offline 		I just wanted to point out that tops sometimes like to be fisted too* - it's not just a bottom's only activity.  It's not always particularly painful.  I'd call it intense. 

*In my book, if you are ordering someone to do something you enjoy, it doesn't matter if that activity involves you screaming and gasping, you're still on top.

So that would be a YES


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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/20/2008 10:08:42 PM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		I enjoy fistging both analy and vaginally but, I have very large paws so my oportunities are somewhat limited..

Fisting some ijit's nose or mouth is immensly satisfying but it has some possibly unpleasant and expensive reprocussions.

Just a case of the right technique on the right location, locatgion, location and place....

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/21/2008 12:23:06 AM   
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Gwyn: "It was wonderful when it happened.. but due to my body and how it is oddly tilted, and the uterus is upside down and twisted it is just harder for large penitrations. I have half the crawl space.. LOL"

Just means you have to stand on your head.


Hehehe not happening... the crawl space doesnt increase much in any position.. but on all fours helps a wee bit. It does throw off the whole tilt of everything for F2M sex.. and unless he is very well endowed length wise it is a waste.

Gwyn

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/21/2008 3:18:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: subseeks1

What is your experience with it?
Anally or vaginally?
Something you enjoy doing?
Any tricks to making it work?
All i have heard on it is lube lube & more lube.



Ahhh fisting, one of my faves. Giving, that is. It's always amazing to fist someone. It takes the connection somewhere not much else can, I reckon. I have loads of experience as it really is a favourite.
Have only ever fisted vaginally, and I Really Enjoy it especially when the fistee squirts all over me & everywhere. It's one of the best ways to connect in that sex spiritual way especially when there is a D/s element in the play. It makes me extra horny.
 
Tricks? as others have mentioned... communicate, loads of lube, gloves for that safe smooth touch, the right moments... often after a good long time of fucking so she's nice and horny and ready... a strong wrist and listening for what she needs and when she needs it, the right angles... this is important, don't want to hurt her (too much) though a little pain gets her off sometimes... it all depends on what the fistee likes and wants. Fisting while the fistee is on her back is different to from behind. The right angles are really important. Sucking her clit lightly and teasingly is often well received too. ;) So is some anal stimulation. All kinds of sensory stimulation makes her writhe in ecstasy.
What's most important, I think, as a fister is to be connected with who you're fisting 100%  for all the pleasures this brings as well as for giving her the best time so she can fully open and get right into it, knowing you're going to keep her happy and safe and well-fucked.
 
Does anyone know of Antony and the Johnsons? They have a beautiful song, Fistful of Love. Perfect, really.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/21/2008 4:13:59 AM   
LordSinistR


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Status: offline 		i've fist fucked and punch fucked many of my slave before. granted i got small hands but it is a turn on to see how far i can stretch pussy! my last full time slave was good at it and i tried to get 2 hands in her but didn't work although it was fun trying ;)

one of my slaves I loved fist fucking while i fucked her in the ass at the same time. she would squirt like crazy!

They should make space shuttles out of pussy! it's so resilliant and nearly unbreakable it always goes back to it's original size in no time ;)

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/21/2008 5:51:42 AM   
Tavian


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Status: offline 		A resounding YES! My wife loves to by vaginally fisted! I indulge her fairly often. We both find it to be quite the turn on.

Even though I have fairly small hands I have never been able to get them completely inside her. I usually get in up to my knuckles before encountering too much resistance to continue further? Any suggestions out there?

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/21/2008 5:58:03 AM   
lilly99


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Status: offline 		im not sure i never tryed it not saying that i wont im pretty open to things but it would hurt yesss??

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/22/2008 6:40:25 PM   
aquaboyoz


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Status: offline 		Hi there,

I have been a member here for ages, but for some reason (I dont know why either, I never really had a look around) well thats changed now.   I guess I was a bit lost and off elsewhere.

Fisting mmm one of my favourite things to be invlovled in.    My advice is Lube and LOTS of it.    Years ago, the first time a womans fist popped inside me, well to say intense, one of the most satisfying things to ever experience happened to me.   I started to leak pre cum like I was a tap.   Admitedly I was heavily into getting toys etc stuck in my ass and getting my prostate worked over.

A few weeks back, I was visiting Melbourne and an ex play mate and I caught up, I didnt know it but she remember that we had talked about a girl friend of hers who wanted to play, well my friend had me on my back, her hand inside me, me drooling like a fool, and her friend, cute as hell wandered in, stuck a glove on and the took turns at fisting me, one in, the other out, at one stage I had a hand and 4 fingers inside.

To say that was amazing is an understatement.

I am back now and mmmm I need some more of that.

As far as incontinence is concerned, I first got anally fisted 10 years ago, and have never had a problem, the anus is a muscle and it can be trained to contract as well as expand.     Anal fisting should NEVER hurt, if it does, its being done completly wrong.

My 2 cents worth

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/22/2008 8:50:45 PM   
malloves69


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Status: offline 		right on aqua ..being fisted by a woman is the best !! having 2 women do it i bet would be awesome indeed that feeling of once she slides in you is very intense indeed  much better then strapon but strapon play is a great way to start to have your lady to get you to relax and open up for her  i also leak cum like crazy ..my mistress knows my ass and prostate well  boy can be addictting i must say ..been doing it now for over 2 years and i also never had a problem ..have fun and enjoy   mal

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/22/2008 9:06:06 PM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		I've always wondered what it would be like to fist a woman in the ass-it's a much deeper hole.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/23/2008 4:26:36 PM   
BikerDomRealTime


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ORIGINAL: subseeks1

What is your experience with it?
Anally or vaginally?
Something you enjoy doing?
Any tricks to making it work?
All i have heard on it is lube lube & more lube.



I have had the pleasure of fisting several of the women I have known.  I have only done it vaginally but I have had the desire to do anal fisting.  I only have known one woman that could take my fist on the first attempt.  My experience has been lots of lube and patience.

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RE: Fisting......yes no maybe no way?? - 3/23/2008 5:41:09 PM   
MasochistToy


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Status: offline 		Having been fisted by a man and a woman (at separate times) I will say that womens hands in general appear to fit better. But a mans hand, with time and lubrication (YES!) can work their way in. Daddy does not fist me as his hands are very large, but my Uncle (Mentor not biological) does occassionally fist me. His technique is very aggressive and can often be uncomfortable. I have a problem with communicating when something is uncomfortable because my sounds of pleasure often sound like pain reactions so Uncle has learned my body and how it reacts. That took time and patience on his part.
As a side note, to me the most intimate thing is to feel a persons hand inside my body. It is soul inspiring. It is awakening. It feels like you have entered a new level of understanding when you cum around fingers or a hand. Whew...I may have to attack Daddy tonight!

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