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dollparts85 -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 3:49:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied To the OP: If you want friendships why don't you work on making some? Scope out other submissives and get to know them. Meet them for dinner. You may be surprised at what transpires. It is possible. Oh, and don't expect a lasting relationship out a one night stand, that rarely happens. Regardless of what the guy tells you. I did not know it was a one night stand until he disappeared after. And how do I meet other submissives? It is hard to make friendships when you do not like going to public places. I have a lot of things I can not do. One being dinner or eating in public at all. Also, no movies. I am afraid of the dark. No crowds at all either.

DrkJourney -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 3:51:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dollparts85 Would you believe them when they said they had been sick and then out of town and busy and stuff? God, I don't know what to do...the guy I had a one night stand with a few months ago got online today and IMed me...I haven't heard from him in ages...only twice after we met and had sex...once the next day and then once like...4 weeks later, I think. Do I trust him? Or is he just going to hurt me again? I don't know if he is using me or not... I don't think you mean "one night stand" I think you mean you slept with him, once, then he disappeared with no word. That's how I"m comprehending this, because if it was in fact supposed to be a one night stand, then him not contacting you is not out of the ordinary. In my experience....run away from this one. Not really an excuse for no contact or ate least letting you know that he will be out of touch for a while. Seems he just wants to contact you when he's "in the mood". Find you someone who will treat you like you deserve.

DrkJourney -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 3:54:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl if i was you i would be happy to get a one night stand.... cause i cant even get that!!!! [sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif]I swear your post kill me....LOL

petitespitfire64 -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 4:01:17 PM)
Sweety..am sorry you got hurt...but to say he "used " you is erroneous... you used each other. That's what "one night stands" are about.

DrkJourney -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 4:03:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dollparts85 it would be nice to have a real life friend though...someone to spend time with...besides my parents... yeah wouldn't that be great for us all...but you can't make this guy into something he is not. He is not the real life friend that you are looking for. And don't pin your happiness on another person. Get out and get interests on your own....then you can meet new people that share the same interests/hobbies as yourself and you never know what will happen.

petitespitfire64 -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 4:05:14 PM)
Faery..I think I'm falling for you, too, girl....sighs dreamily

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 4:09:53 PM)
dont worry...we're not engaged or even dating....she just loves me...i think its lust...cause love has never happened to me yet...so im still free game.... come and get me. i dont even have blushes phone # yet!!!!!! edited: she has a Dom you know...and i seek 1 on 1.

mzbehavin -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 4:11:17 PM)
"And how do I meet other submissives? It is hard to make friendships when you do not like going to public places. I have a lot of things I can not do. One being dinner or eating in public at all. Also, no movies. I am afraid of the dark. No crowds at all either. " It sounds as if you have alot of issues, you may want to work through before even attempting to enter into a D/s and/or vanilla relationship.

DrkJourney -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 4:12:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark If I thought for a moment that you would take on board anything that I or anyone else here advised, I would drop in my £1.50 without hesitation. However you constantly show no ability to utilise the advice people give. I don't reply to your posts usually, but I am posting this because although I know that I sound harsh, but I am not into hand holding and I believe you need to take a step back and stop with the whole 'poor me' posting and use your common sense because I am absolutely positive you have it but are wallowing in the attention (including my negative). I mean this sincerely and without malice. But you really do need a kick up the backside. the.dark. sigh...after replying to this, then reading all the great advice and to see her replies always starting with "but".....I'm inclined to agree with you. to the op: my advice, get a cheery pic, spuce up your profile, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and start all over again, but don't look for a busom buddy on the internet.

dollparts85 -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 4:13:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: petitespitfire64 Sweety..am sorry you got hurt...but to say he "used " you is erroneous... you used each other. That's what "one night stands" are about. I did not "use" him. I didn't evne want to have sex.

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 4:13:51 PM)
hey op: try getting a tramp stamp tattoo....ya know...the one that goes on your lower back [sm=mrpuffy.gif][sm=mrpuffy.gif] it works great for picture eye candy too.

petitespitfire64 -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 4:15:47 PM)
Well then...fi you didn't want sex...and were forced to have sex anyway...I think they call that "rape". Instead of waiting for him to call back, you should have filed a police report.

dollparts85 -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 4:15:50 PM)
maybe if I didn't have so much back fat...LOL

CalifChick -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 4:16:42 PM)
How about going back into that day treatment program?? Cali

dollparts85 -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 4:17:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: petitespitfire64 Well then...fi you didn't want sex...and were forced to have sex anyway...I think they call that "rape". Instead of waiting for him to call back, you should have filed a police report. I wasn't forced. I just didn't want to. There is a difference.

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 4:20:30 PM)
then it wont hurt one bit..the more skin...the less pain for a tattoo.

mzbehavin -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 4:21:57 PM)
If you didnt want to the first time but did it anyway to a negative end result, why would you want to the second time?

dollparts85 -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 4:25:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick How about going back into that day treatment program?? Cali I am going to eventually...I am hoping to get my meds fixed first. My psych appointment has been bumped up to the 31st so I'm hoping she has talked to someone and decided to change my meds.

domiguy -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 4:25:51 PM)
You people suck ass. This Country needs women to lay down for a one night stand just as we need soldiers to fight a meaningless war. What would happen to this great nation if it were not for the easily duped.....No wars?...Or virgins?...The horny running amuck in our streets? A shortage of wacking material? To watch you all hand out your unneeded advice simply sickens me.

dollparts85 -> RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they disappeared for months after... (3/20/2008 4:26:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mzbehavin If you didnt want to the first time but did it anyway to a negative end result, why would you want to the second time? b/c I'm lonely?

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