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Sunnyfey -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 11:52:29 AM)

Sir isnt on CM, he lets me use this as my personal space to get advice from others in the lifestyle. Especially because he knows I have a hard time confronting people? (and him if somethings off...) So you see me post my threads asking for help and what not, thats me trying to figure things out before I go to Him. and hes ok with that infact he says its helped alot, like me being able to ask for things I was too shy to ask about before....



NorthernGent -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 12:09:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

I find it disturbing when someone posts on here about their Dom/sub/pet/whoever, when that other person also posts here, and the post doesn't start out with, "XXXXX knows I'm posting this here for comments." 

Am I oversensitive on this?

Cali



Wildly over-senstive, Cali.

The way I see it is this: if you have an issue as per the OP, hunt the poster down and hack indiscriminately at his knackers with a scythe. Problem solved.



ownedgirlie -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 12:32:55 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

I find it disturbing when someone posts on here about their Dom/sub/pet/whoever, when that other person also posts here, and the post doesn't start out with, "XXXXX knows I'm posting this here for comments." 

Am I oversensitive on this?

Cali



There was a thread last night in which a Dom wrote about what his sub was doing on another thread.  I felt uncomfortable on her behalf because of it, because I would have felt uncomfortable had it happened to me.

But each relationship is its own, I suppose.  But I understand what you're getting at in this thread.



ownedgirlie -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 12:33:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I only get bugged by the prolific posters that cannot seem to write a post without referencing their SO. It's creepy.


I refer to my Master all the time.  My relationship is my reference point when answering posts.

But I've been called worse than creepy.   Creepy is a compliment!! [;)]



LaTigresse -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 12:35:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

yeah, LaT..but we've already established that you're a twisted bitch :) (said with utmost admiration!)


Why yes I am![:D]



LaTigresse -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 12:39:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I only get bugged by the prolific posters that cannot seem to write a post without referencing their SO. It's creepy.


I refer to my Master all the time.  My relationship is my reference point when answering posts.

But I've been called worse than creepy.   Creepy is a compliment!! [;)]


But still, you were not on my brain list when I thought that. Now I am thinking of the ones that do annoy me with that, and WHY it annoys me. Perhaps it isn't the frequency of reference but the manner it is presented that bothers me. I need some self analyzation on this one........hmmmmmm.



BitaTruble -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 12:41:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

I refer to my Master all the time.  My relationship is my reference point when answering posts.

But I've been called worse than creepy.   Creepy is a compliment!! [;)]


Damn it, Janet!  Does that mean I have to call you Creepy Croissant instead of Wacky Waffle now? [8D]

Celeste



ownedgirlie -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 12:46:13 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

I refer to my Master all the time.  My relationship is my reference point when answering posts.

But I've been called worse than creepy.   Creepy is a compliment!! [;)]


Damn it, Janet!  Does that mean I have to call you Creepy Croissant instead of Wacky Waffle now? [8D]

Celeste


How about Creepy Croissant and her Wacky Waffle? 

Sounds like a children's book.

Oh and LaT, didn't mean to twist your brain with that, lol....then again, you said you're already twisted...[8D]



MontrealPhoenix -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 12:48:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Oh Celeste, it doesn't bother me enough to NOT look, lol!  I think it's things that I would be unhappy about if someone posted about me, without my knowledge or outside of my comfort level. Kind of the way I feel embarrassed FOR someone when they're with someone who does something in public that perhaps crosses social boundaries. And I was wondering if it hit others the same way.

The most notable recent incident was when the guy posted about his gal being uncomfortable with masturbation, and then she started a separate thread to "defend herself" and you would swear they didn't even know each other because clearly they were not communicating (because his version of the issue wasn't even on the same topic as her version of the issue).  There was another post this morning about someone that I feel I know (and like), and that's what prompted this.

Cali

It looks to me like your issue is more lack of communication than posting details of one's SO. Personally, when i'm in a relationship i like to post on that person, but it's NEVER behind their back, i always tell them i'm doing so.
 
Geez, makes me wonder whether they ever actually talk to each other rather than communicate through these boards...
 
Phoenix



lally3 -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 1:02:15 PM)

i wouldnt have had an opinion until today, but theres a thread on here at the moment written by someone who knows her dominant posts and reads on here, and yet declares that though her name and the nature of the title would surely be like a beacon to a moth, she doesnt know if he'll read it or not. 

for some reason thats irritating, not by the content of her thread so much, just the odd assertion that he may or may not be even a little bit curious that she's writing about him and his methods.  i need to look into why that is and probably get on with the housework at the same time.



DesFIP -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 1:10:01 PM)

I don't think I've ever thought it necessary to mention that he knows I'm posting or not. It's about my perspective, not his. Sometimes I've talked an issue over with him first, sometimes I don't. Depends on how I feel, our schedules and other stuff.



Lashra -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 1:14:19 PM)

I mention mine if I feel that situations that we have been through may help the Poster. My sub comes and reads the boards, he could careless what I say. He finds humor here, some information and a lot of....unique posts.

~Lashra



LaTigresse -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 1:14:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

Oh and LaT, didn't mean to twist your brain with that, lol....then again, you said you're already twisted...[8D]


Thats okay there CreepyC, sometimes I like having my brain twisted/challenged.



ownedgirlie -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 1:22:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

Oh and LaT, didn't mean to twist your brain with that, lol....then again, you said you're already twisted...[8D]


Thats okay there CreepyC, sometimes I like having my brain twisted/challenged.



[:D]

(that made me laugh)



colouredin -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 1:31:56 PM)

actually there is one today from a Dom about his girl and that did kinda make me shudder 



domahpet -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 1:53:49 PM)

sheesh i hope it wasnt me!
i actually got called out for not
posting 'enough' about my dom!



xxblushesxx -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 1:55:13 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I only get bugged by the prolific posters that cannot seem to write a post without referencing their SO. It's creepy.


I agree. And HoneyMaster does too.
*g*



FirmhandKY -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 2:07:00 PM)

FR:

Posting to threads, or starting threads about your SO (whether or not they read them), by itself doesn't "squick" me.  It's just that there are certain topics, and certain times when it's like we are spectators to a private discussion that we feel really should be better held face-to-face, rather than through the public medium of the forums.

However, due to the nature and content of this site, and this forum, those lines tend to be a little blurry for some people, on both sides of the issue, so ... in direct response to Cali ... generally it doesn't bother me when Treasure writes about me (as I will very occasionally write about her) or us, but in our two years together, I think I've read everything she has posted about me, and not found her to "go over" my own line of taste and discretion.

Hopefully, others feel likewise.  *shrugs* Or not.  [:)]

Firm



LaTigresse -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 2:11:46 PM)

Damned women, ganging up on a .......woman.

CreepyC stalking me into another thread, just DARING me to hijack the mofo. NOW I've got little miss blushy twisting the brain twist all cute and innocent like (yeahhhhhhhhh riiiiiiiiiight).........

I'm just gonna give y'all the silent treatment to teach you and thing or two!! dammit anyway...........grumble grumble mutter mutter



fairerthanshe -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 2:12:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I only get bugged by the prolific posters that cannot seem to write a post without referencing their SO. It's creepy.


I agree. And HoneyMaster does too.
*g*


Greetings all,

I was sure LaT was referring to me since I can't seem to post without throwing an 'SJ' in here and there...

He knows I post here and has access to everything he could ever want to read in way of passwords to email and cmail - it just doesn't seem to interest him.  We have enough real time friends here who can direct him to my posts if they feel it is necessary.  I tend to think a bit about it before hand - "what would SJ think of this if he read it?" - more from a desire to represent our relationship accurately than anything else.

well wishes ~ fairer than she



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