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LaTigresse -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 2:15:30 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FirmhandKY

FR:

Posting to threads, or starting threads about your SO (whether or not they read them), by itself doesn't "squick" me.  It's just that there are certain topics, and certain times when it's like we are spectators to a private discussion that we feel really should be better held face-to-face, rather than through the public medium of the forums.

However, due to the nature and content of this site, and this forum, those lines tend to be a little blurry for some people, on both sides of the issue, so ... in direct response to Cali ... generally it doesn't bother me when Treasure writes about me (as I will very occasionally write about her) or us, but in our two years together, I think I've read everything she has posted about me, and not found her to "go over" my own line of taste and discretion.

Hopefully, others feel likewise.  *shrugs* Or not.  [:)]

Firm


The reality is that as long as both of you are cool with what the other is writing that's all that really matter. (Even if others are sitting out here in cyberland childishly sticking our finger in our mouths making a stupid gaggy face.[:D])

No one is forcing (as far as I know) anyone else to read this stuff.




ownedgirlie -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 2:17:42 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Damned women, ganging up on a .......woman.

CreepyC stalking me into another thread, just DARING me to hijack the mofo. NOW I've got little miss blushy twisting the brain twist all cute and innocent like (yeahhhhhhhhh riiiiiiiiiight).........

I'm just gonna give y'all the silent treatment to teach you and thing or two!! dammit anyway...........grumble grumble mutter mutter



Hey, I swear I was just innocently passing through...and I saw you...and...well....I had to introduce myself!  [8D]

You know you love us...grumble & mutter away all ya want...we'll still be here in all our creepy cuteness. 

[sm=dance.gif]




LaTigresse -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 2:18:43 PM)

lalalalalaaaaaaaaaaa, I am ignoring youuuuu!




ownedgirlie -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 2:21:12 PM)

Hee hee...peekaboo

[sm=hello.gif]


(Sorry Cali!)




xxblushesxx -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 2:22:39 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Damned women, ganging up on a .......woman.

CreepyC stalking me into another thread, just DARING me to hijack the mofo. NOW I've got little miss blushy twisting the brain twist all cute and innocent like (yeahhhhhhhhh riiiiiiiiiight).........

I'm just gonna give y'all the silent treatment to teach you and thing or two!! dammit anyway...........grumble grumble mutter mutter



[sm=flowers.gif][sm=wave.gif][sm=biggrin.gif]




CalifChick -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 2:25:01 PM)

Y'all are making me laugh and I have this headache that I've had for a darn week!  And yes, I MUST read EVERY single darn word you guys say! [sm=shake.gif]

Firm - you said what I was thinking better than I did, thank you.

Cali




ownedgirlie -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 2:35:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Y'all are making me laugh and I have this headache that I've had for a darn week!  And yes, I MUST read EVERY single darn word you guys say! [sm=shake.gif]

Firm - you said what I was thinking better than I did, thank you.

Cali



You know, LaT is just pretending to ignore us now, but she's reading every word (and smiley face), too.  Cuz she's twisted like that.  And Crazy, too, according to the thread I stalked her on. 

[sm=cool.gif]




xxblushesxx -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 2:41:35 PM)

Really?
Crazy?
Huh.
I always thought she was just a bit...teched, yanno?[:D]




RCdc -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 2:54:08 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
(Even if others are sitting out here in cyberland childishly sticking our finger in our mouths making a stupid gaggy face.[:D])

No one is forcing (as far as I know) anyone else to read this stuff.


[image]http://www.unity.i8i.co.uk/forum/images/smiley_vomit.gif[/image]

...the standard response to .loveydoveyposts. (likeours)[:D]
 
the.dark.




RCdc -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 2:58:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

I find it disturbing when someone posts on here about their Dom/sub/pet/whoever, when that other person also posts here, and the post doesn't start out with, "XXXXX knows I'm posting this here for comments." 

Am I oversensitive on this?

Cali



I wouldn't say over sensitive, maybe you just have a good sense of privacy and of being discrete.  But not everyones ideals and ethics match hey.
Sometimes I try and think that maybe the person is just into a bit of humiliating or exhibitionism too?  That could play a factor in some of the more explicit posts.
 
the.dark.




hejira92 -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 3:37:39 PM)

I have to weigh in here as half of a couple who post often about each other.
 
As Ownedgirlie said- I refer to Him so often because He is my reference point for my experiences in WIITWD.
 
But, as nauseating as our "loveydoveyposts" (thank you, the.dark.) may be, we would never discuss via the boards something that should be between us. Reading about other's dirty laundry may be a national (or international) pastime, but it won't be my dirty laundry entertaining the masses.
 
But, I apologize in advance to those who may get squicked by the over-the-top love, worship and admiration I post about Cuffkinks. Get used to it. It ain't gonna change and, yes, we are that crazy about each other in r/t. On second thought- I do not apologize. I just wish for all to find their own equivalent of what we have.  [:)]




TreasureKY -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 4:02:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lally3

i wouldnt have had an opinion until today, but theres a thread on here at the moment written by someone who knows her dominant posts and reads on here, and yet declares that though her name and the nature of the title would surely be like a beacon to a moth, she doesnt know if he'll read it or not. 

for some reason thats irritating, not by the content of her thread so much, just the odd assertion that he may or may not be even a little bit curious that she's writing about him and his methods.


I agree that it is an odd assertion... but more so because she feels it necessary to say so.  However, I don't find it odd that her dom might not read what she wrote even though he reads and posts here.  Not all doms feel it necessary to hang on every word their sub utters, some feel they know and trust their subs enough not to have to check, some don't enjoy the same sections or topics, some have limited time and are more interested in possible replies to their own posts, and I'm sure there are some who don't really care.  There's almost a limitless number of possibilities.

Quite frankly, I don't announce to Firm every time I post something and I'm not going to assume he bothers hunting down every little thing I write.  He reads and posts more often in the Off Topic Section while I haunt General and Ask A Submissive. Though I might be curious about his thoughts on certain subjects, I'm not about to bug the crap outta him by asking him if he reads them.  I figure if he wants to, he will, and if he's got something to say to me, he will.




GreedyTop -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 4:06:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
(Even if others are sitting out here in cyberland childishly sticking our finger in our mouths making a stupid gaggy face.[:D])

No one is forcing (as far as I know) anyone else to read this stuff.


[image]http://www.unity.i8i.co.uk/forum/images/smiley_vomit.gif[/image]

...the standard response to .loveydoveyposts. (likeours)[:D]
 
the.dark.


LMAO!!

(for the record... I love reading your posts... :D )




colouredin -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 4:08:40 PM)

Oh come on GT the.dark had a right slushy few days not long ago, i was worried we lost her to the dark side :P




domiguy -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 4:17:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FirmhandKY

FR:

Posting to threads, or starting threads about your SO (whether or not they read them), by itself doesn't "squick" me.  It's just that there are certain topics, and certain times when it's like we are spectators to a private discussion that we feel really should be better held face-to-face, rather than through the public medium of the forums.

However, due to the nature and content of this site, and this forum, those lines tend to be a little blurry for some people, on both sides of the issue, so ... in direct response to Cali ... generally it doesn't bother me when Treasure writes about me (as I will very occasionally write about her) or us, but in our two years together, I think I've read everything she has posted about me, and not found her to "go over" my own line of taste and discretion.

Hopefully, others feel likewise.  *shrugs* Or not.  [:)]

Firm


I agree 100% with Firm....It is amazing to me how people live their lives like an open book...Nothing is held sacred. Their response is to suggest that their lack of tact and privacy is "your" problem and that you should simply block them to avoid having to read their shite.

I have never blocked a soul. However, I cannot be the only one who views these people as lacking depth, character and self worth. There are things that are special that are held in trust and shared by only those involved...It has a mark of maturity and understanding to be able to grasp this.




GreedyTop -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 4:18:18 PM)

a wha?  (dammit, someone needs to teach me to speak Brit! LOL)




Leatherist -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 4:18:58 PM)

Or they just happen to be exhibitionists.




kittinSol -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 4:19:08 PM)

For me, the occasional love dovey's lovely. There's nothing wrong with the occasional demonstration of devotion. I actually think it's cool.

What's a bit hard to follow for me is when every single post a person makes is some kind of reference to their significant other. Forget every post: make that every single paragraph of their post. That makes me squirm a little. Like I said, I think some of us are more private than others - takes all sorts in the end, to make a fun playground. It'd be boring if we were all as cool as m...

Forget it.




CalifChick -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 4:19:38 PM)

I think domi has a fever or something.  Or the body snatchers grabbed him (anybody seen a pod?). [sm=biggrin.gif]

Cali




kittinSol -> RE: Posting about your "Partner" (3/21/2008 4:21:01 PM)

Are you asking that because he made sense [:D] ?




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