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Sub men and menstruation!? - 9/29/2005 7:14:27 PM   
BigEyes


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Status: offline 		Are there sub males out there who like sex or oral sex with a Domme during her period? I've never been with a man who liked it, and was just wondering if it counted as a fetish or just personal taste. It seems to me it would be gorgeous and yet humiliating.

Do you exist? What do submissive men think about servicing a Domme through menstruation? Does anyone actually LIKE it?

I'm sure this has been posted umpteen times before but I'm so curious!

Big Eyes
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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 9/29/2005 8:45:39 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Of course they exist. Anything you can think of- people are out there doing it and enjoying it a lot.

Bodily fluids have a lot of symbolic and energy power to them, this includes menstrual fluids.

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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 9/30/2005 4:18:47 AM   
sting516


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BigEyes

Are there sub males out there who like sex or oral sex with a Domme during her period? I've never been with a man who liked it, and was just wondering if it counted as a fetish or just personal taste. It seems to me it would be gorgeous and yet humiliating.

Do you exist? What do submissive men think about servicing a Domme through menstruation? Does anyone actually LIKE it?

I'm sure this has been posted umpteen times before but I'm so curious!

Big Eyes


While i haven't done so yet, i've been told by someone who will soon take me as Her slave that yes, i will be earning my 'red wings' by Her...i look forward to this, but of course, it won't be done until there are HIV tests taken...by both of us.

sting

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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 9/30/2005 6:30:35 AM   
plantlady64


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Status: offline 		Hello There,
I'm not a guy, but I've always had sex with my significant other during my cycle. Usually it's been in the shower most of the time as the clean up is easier. Every once in a while I just buy one of those fabric backed plastic table cloths and put it over the bed and just go for it, blood or not.
I find the lubrication of blood versus the moisture that's there when you're not bleeding is a very different sensation for me as the blood is thinner than my juices. It's a detraction for me, but I've heard some women like the sensation of a cock sliding in and out in blood better.

I've also had the joy of a few of the people I slept with liking oral sex so much they wanted to go down on me during my cycle. I'd take a good shower, insert a tampon and we'd play like it was a normal day. It really grossed me out the first few times, but after that I relaxed about it.

I agree even if you do use condoms to be tested for STD's before you have intercourse during your cycle as I think you're more open and susceptible to infections during this time.

I know menses sex isn't for everyone, but I would hate not to get laid for 7-8 days out of every month so the mess is the lesser of the two evils for me.


Sincerely
sub suzanne

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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 9/30/2005 4:05:58 PM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		They claim to exist. Since this board has been alive 2 to 3 of them have come through here.

Whether in person they still make the same claim's I don't know.

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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 9/30/2005 4:30:55 PM   
anopheles


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BigEyes

Are there sub males out there who like sex or oral sex with a Domme during her period? I've never been with a man who liked it, and was just wondering if it counted as a fetish or just personal taste. It seems to me it would be gorgeous and yet humiliating.

Do you exist? What do submissive men think about servicing a Domme through menstruation? Does anyone actually LIKE it?

I'm sure this has been posted umpteen times before but I'm so curious!

Big Eyes


I'm sure they do exist. Menstruation 'fetishes', for lack of a better word aren't often talked about though. It might be difficult to find someone here that either does, or wants to, whether in real life or just chat about it.

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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 9/30/2005 6:17:41 PM   
petwolf22


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Status: offline 		i had an ex do it to me a few times...i don't know that he was submissive though, though he certainly acted like it sometimes. It didn't do much for me, it was hard to feel...and the red mouth afterwards was not an attractive thing to kiss. On the other hand, he had a fetish for eyeball licking so who the hell knows?

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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 10/1/2005 1:05:52 PM   
goodmanners


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Status: offline 		To me it is a very special privilege to serve a Mistress in this manner. I was introduced to this some years ago. I lived with my GF/Mistress in London. She had always had bad periods with lots of cramping, very irritable. I had read where orgasms could reduce cramps, and I mentioned it to her. I might add that she preferred oral sex very much over vaginal.

Dropping her Mistress role for a moment she asked how i would feel doing this for her. I told her i would do anything to make her feel better, and if this would help, so be it. I also asked her to explain the entire procedure to me so i could begin to understand what she had to go through on a routine basis each month.

To be very honest, the first time i was very hesitant, and so was she, but we did it, and she had several wonderful orgasms, and did feel much much better. Yes, it was messy the first time, but we were overjoyed at its success that we didn't care, and she washed my face as a thank-you. After that it became part of my routine service, and with experience and a more forceful standard of performance being enforced, the messiness disappeared. When I say it was a special privilege, it was just that. I never felt closer to a woman in my life. And with her sharing such a pure female function with me was quite humbling and an honour to me.

As our experience increased, we developed a ritual of service during her red days that was quite intense, and pure Femdom. Just the anticipation would make her feel better, she would tell me to tease. And it was true, and her cramps dimished to virtually nothing after 6 months. She called me her menstrual slave, and I felt complimented.
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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 10/1/2005 11:46:54 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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They claim to exist. Since this board has been alive 2 to 3 of them have come through here.
I'd like to confirm that yes they do exist.
It's not something I demand, as I don't ever want anyone touching me and thinking "gross", but it is fun if one is in a relationship with someone who is open, and enjoys it.. M
P.S. More discussions about this here... http://www.collarchat.com/m_80836/mpage_1/key_madamedahlia/tm.htm

< Message edited by BlkTallFullfig -- 10/1/2005 11:52:27 PM >

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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 10/2/2005 4:18:16 AM   
chellekitty


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Status: offline 		not a Domme, but i will go ahead and answer as a woman from a completely different view...orgasms durring my period cause cramping for me not ease it...so, even if i did have a partner of some sort who did not mind or even liked play with menstural blood, i would have to deny them based on personal preservation....i have never been able to process that particular pain into something good....

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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 10/2/2005 2:47:31 PM   
TexasMaam


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Status: offline 		goodmanners,

thou hast earned thy crimson wings, boy.

Well done, congrats to thy Lucky Domme and thanks for sharing your reverent response!

Texas Maam

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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 10/2/2005 3:30:46 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		bleeding hearts turn me on.....as I own one, but I'm sooooo squemish when other blood in involved......unless, I'm really Horny....then, fuck it..I'm there!

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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 10/2/2005 5:04:55 PM   
wantinaSireorSir


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Status: offline 		Yes there are men out there who likes having sex when their sub or Domme is on her period.

wantinaSireorSir

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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 10/2/2005 9:38:47 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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I'm sooooo squemish when other blood in involved......unless, I'm really Horny....then, fuck it..I'm there!
New you had it in you Kevin! M

Thanks for the beautiful story you shared Goodmanners, and welcome to the boards. M

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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 10/3/2005 3:27:47 AM   
imtempting


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Status: offline 		Hmmm No way im going down on a girl during her period. Thats just wrong and yucky and dirty.


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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 10/3/2005 4:27:37 AM   
flugfisch


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Status: offline 		I think oral service to a Mistress is something I always enjoyed.
Sure - during her period would be humilating - but for me - I also can enjoy humilation - and if I realize that she feels fine - I would enjoy it.
In my mind I am there for the desires of the Mistress!
When she feels fine - I am happy too!

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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 10/3/2005 11:05:17 AM   
BlkTallFullfig


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I think oral service to a Mistress is something I always enjoyed.
Sure - during her period would be humilating - but for me - I also can enjoy humilation - and if I realize that she feels fine - I would enjoy it.
In my mind I am there for the desires of the Mistress!
When she feels fine - I am happy too!
Good way for you to be, open to what pleases her.
Welcome to the boards. M

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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 10/3/2005 1:00:43 PM   
dommemagnet


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Status: offline 		I've done it before but not in the context of a BDSM relationship. Wasn't something that I had secretly desired to do or something she wanted a male to do for her. In the heat of the moment I was warned that it was that time of the month but was not disuaded. Wasn't bad, gross, disgusting but she was an extremely clean person by nature. Would I do it again, probably with the right person. Is it something I look for, not really.

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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 10/3/2005 1:44:23 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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Wasn't bad, gross, disgusting but she was an extremely clean person by nature.
Ever heard of Murphy's law: Sex is only dirty if it's done right? I tend to stay away from neat freaks, lol.
I like your position of doing what you feel at the moment and not feeling like it was a gross experience. I also understand you're not saying "I crave it." M

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RE: Sub men and menstruation!? - 10/3/2005 2:07:15 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Sounds like it would be kinda of messy and i would not kiss him after that but that is just me. Just not my kink i guess.

littleone

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