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sinseresubm -> Financial Domination (3/22/2008 4:03:45 PM)
I am so tired of reading through hundreds of profiles from "Dommes" that adhere to Financial Domination. I chose to treat inter-human relationships as something that cannot be bought for money. I believe that this is emotionally sounder, at least on a long term. To me any inter-human relationship, and specially submission, is something very sacred, it is something beautiful and almost magic, and as such something that cannot be bought and sold. Let me stress that I do not heap on those who feel differently. I have no moral issue when others feel differently and buy someone’s attention and affection. But I do feel disillusioned when scanning through profiles only to see that 99 % are written by swindlers or, in best case, prostitutes (a word that in my book encompasses anyone who treats inter-human relationships, including domination and submission, as something that can be sold for money). And though I do not have moral issues, I do find it pathetic when people sell and/or buy domination and submisson.

sinseresubm -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 4:07:39 PM)
Obviously I do foresee that the overwhelming amount of "Dominas" that practice Financial Domination, will ensure that my posting want have all that many sympathetic responses. People have their financial interests to maintain.

petpete -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 4:19:12 PM)
Put it this way buddy.. The world revolves around currencies and everyone has a prize at the end of the day no matter which side of the wood they belong. Subs and generally men are the usual underdogs when it comes to this but i have notice that it can also have a "no limit" and no gender effect which means even D's have been caught. If you get caught consider it as a professional service and don't bother dwelling on it.

Level -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 4:19:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sinseresubm submission, is something very sacred, it is something beautiful and almost magic, and as such something that cannot be bought and sold. Like a "gift"? [sm=hair.gif]

Venatrix -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 4:22:08 PM)
Not all dominas engage in financial domination. Your complaining about it isn't going to change the ones who do. My best advice is to keep slogging through the profiles until you find someone who looks like a good match. No one said finding a partner was going to be easy.

colouredin -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 4:24:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: sinseresubm submission, is something very sacred, it is something beautiful and almost magic, and as such something that cannot be bought and sold. Like a "gift"? [sm=hair.gif] it is a gift it is I tell ya IM SPECIAL :P

Level -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 4:36:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: colouredin quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: sinseresubm submission, is something very sacred, it is something beautiful and almost magic, and as such something that cannot be bought and sold. Like a "gift"? [sm=hair.gif] it is a gift it is I tell ya IM SPECIAL :P *Well........ it would* be better than socks at Christmas time......[:D]**

colouredin -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 4:41:16 PM)
quote: *Well........ it would* be better than socks at Christmas time......[:D]** *wraps self up with a big read bow easter gift for ya :P

sinseresubm -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 4:50:25 PM)
petpete: "The world revolves around currencies and everyone has a prize at the end of the day no matter which side of the wood they belong". I chose to believe that you are wrong. I hope that you are the cynic, but maybe it's just me that hare naive. Venatrix: "Not all dominas engage in financial domination. Your complaining about it isn't going to change the ones who do." Maybe you are right. But then again, maybe someone who does seek "moneyslaves" gets to start thinking when others make a mark, at least if suficiently many does it. And regardless, speaking one's heart is not always about changing the world.

Ebonybbw -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 6:01:36 PM)
Nothing in life is free...

sinseresubm -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 6:10:16 PM)
>Nothing in life is free... I assume that you are using the word "free" as opposed to paying money, as this is what the thread is about. And if so, I most strongly disagree. I have and have had a very large number of fruitful and mutually enjoyable relationships without paying or charging a single penny for it. I understand that it is different for you, since you state that "nothing in life is free", and because of that I truly feel very sorry for you and hope that someday you will experience an inter-human relationship that is free in the sense that no money are paid or charged, so that you will understand the falseness in the statement that "nothing in lifes is free".

sinseresubm -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 6:15:30 PM)
>>>> submission, is something very sacred, it is something beautiful and almost magic, and as such something that cannot be bought and sold. >>>Like a "gift"? >>it is a gift it is I tell ya IM SPECIAL :P >Well........ it would be better than socks at Christmas time......[:D] Yes, like a gift. And yes, it is much better. And it is not something that is given only at Christmas time. It is given every single day of the year. :)

AAkasha -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 6:37:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sinseresubm petpete: "The world revolves around currencies and everyone has a prize at the end of the day no matter which side of the wood they belong". I chose to believe that you are wrong. I hope that you are the cynic, but maybe it's just me that hare naive. Venatrix: "Not all dominas engage in financial domination. Your complaining about it isn't going to change the ones who do." Maybe you are right. But then again, maybe someone who does seek "moneyslaves" gets to start thinking when others make a mark, at least if suficiently many does it. And regardless, speaking one's heart is not always about changing the world. Instead of trying to get dommes who seek "moneyslaves" to react, why not instead work to get the subs who support them to stop doing it? There would be no market for financial domination if men were not lining up thinking with their dicks/wallets instead of brain. I know I am not the only femdom who clearly states in her profile that money/gifts will not get my attention, yet at least twice a week a submissive man offers me cash or presents to try to get me to dominate him when I tell him that I am not interested. Akasha

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 7:03:06 PM)
Don't look a Pros as selling human interaction, look at them as selling fantasy fulfillment. Many people simply cannot, for whatever reason, come to community events or perhaps they don't want more than the fantasy. Pros meet their needs. Frankly, I'm happy that they are here since it weeds out most of those who don't want some form of mental/emotional connection from the local scene. As far as Financial Domination, if you don't like it, rather than complaining about it on the boards, simply use it as a weeding tool in your search. Knowing what you don't want is as valuable as knowing what you do. Master Fire

Leatherist -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 7:14:17 PM)
These women just cater to do me bottoms who want to be topped. Which is what the vast majority of "male subs" happen to be.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 7:14:41 PM)
Yep, I always thought my therapist was my whore. yep yep yep.. You may think I'm kidding, but I'm actually not too much. I remember that very discussion. As a therapist, I sold my time, my undivided attention and unconditional regard for someone, I kept my private life out of it, I listened to another person and did (mostly) what they wanted, gave them my energy exclusively for a set amount of time and fee. I brought the idea to a bunch of other therapists and some were appalled, but most agreed.... So, I guess I'm in the boat with the ProDommes....

LotusSong -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 7:15:52 PM)
I, for one, am grateful there are pro dominas.. yep.. I am. They take care of all those philanderers, the desperate, the no-strings players that the rest of us wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole. All I can say to you that get upset about them.. avoid them. They won't bother you if you don't want to pay. No one FORCES anyone to pay.

stella41b -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 7:30:43 PM)
Aha... just what I was seeking..! I have some 'cheese' for a 'whine' thread. A song parody based on an ABBA song. I search all night I search all day To find a Domme I won't have to pay Ain't it sad? And still I can never see A profile of a Domme who 'dommes' for free That's too bad In my head I have a plan My submission is a gift from a handsome man I wouldn't have to pay at all I'd just submit, she'd have me all Chorus Money money money Must be funny In a Pro Domme's world Money money money It isn't sunny As a submissive male Aha, all the things I could do If she didn't want no money And took my submission as a gift A Domme like that is so hard to find So I've come to post and speak my mind I'm so mad And if she happens to domme for free My profile's up, she can come and see I'm not that bad Though I must leave, I'll have to go To Louisiana or Idaho And find a Domme who thinks like me Who doesn't want tributes, but who is dominant for free Chorus Repeat Chorus

MzMia -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 8:13:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ebonybbw Nothing in life is free... Humm, gas, grass or ass, no one rides free. [:D]

kitttty -> RE: Financial Domination (3/22/2008 8:19:30 PM)
I would love to serve my Master through financial servitude but I have no money to give. Literally, I have no money after I pay my bills.

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