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sslaveO -> RE: Financial Domination (5/13/2008 12:46:22 AM)
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I don't have a problem at all with professional Dommes. I think there is definitely a section of the population that should see Prodommes as they are seeking an exact interaction done pretty much their way to their liking. Many are unwilling or unable to commit to a Domme/sub relationship and just want sessions and many are unwilling and unable to be submissive or act submissive once their session is finished to the minute. I have met and known plenty of 'sub' males who claim they want to serve; when a Domme wants or asks ANYTHING of them in the way of service, that sub expects something exactly equal in their minds(not even what would be realistically equal, what they feel is equal which usually is not) in return and pretty much then and there. The thought of doing anything even nice for the Domme without expecting something directly in return is far beyond their imaginations. If they clean, they expect a certain amount of playtime their way in exchange and are pouty if they don't get it. If they run an errand, they expect the Domme to fulfill a fetish in exchange. If they spend any time with the Mistress, they expect her to discuss their fantasy and their fetish the whole time. How is that submissive? It's just wanting tit for tat. Well, Prodomming is tit for tat... an exact specific amount of time and exact activities done in fantasy format by an attractive woman dressed to the nines in a fabulous dungeon atmosphere for an exact fee. Tit for tat. Exactly as so many of these so called male subs want. There are many clients who are very happy with this hassle free arrangement; they can have an outlet for their fantasies with a woman of their dreams without any entanglements or complications and the woman expects nothing but an exact prearranged fee. So many of those guys would never, ever have a chance to have their D/s outlet otherwise. If there wern't Prodommes, it's not like there'd be thousands of women sitting around entertaining such men's fantasies.
I've met plenty of male subs who claim they want a relationship with a Domme.. what that means to them is the Domme will be their girlfriend and will do kinky things to them that they like dressed sexy. I know one male who claims he is a SLAVE (he refuses to even use himself and 'sub' in the same sentence) and throws down everyone's throats how much of a slave he is and how he wants to devote himself to the Mistress of his dreams for life and how much better he is than every other male sub ... but he has said that he will not serve a Domme unless she agrees to satisfy exact particular fetishes of his on a regular basis or he can't be happy. It doesn't matter if she likes them.. wait she is supposed to like them because she is a Mistress. She must make his fetishes hers and like it!
Yes, there are legitimately submissive males who want legitimate D/s relationships in the realistic manner that they exist and it is a challenge for them to find their Mistress and I feel sorry for them because I know it is SOOO difficult (it ain't so easy for a female either).. but they are in the minority.
As to the strictly financial Domination............ some men actually really really get off on being taken advantage of financially. I've read about a few who literally get off on a woman using his credit cards and treating him with no regard. So? Everyone is an adult and making their own decisions. I heard about a millionaire who is giving something like $6,000 a day to a few different Dommes that he has sought out for this arrangement.
The one problem I have are the ProDommes who on this site in their profile say they are not seeking any personal submissives/slaves/relationships and are only interested in professional sessions. This is a personal lifestyle site.. Maxfisch is for professionals to advertise.. do it there. They also say it like: how dare you even think about me wanting a personal submissive. I am a Professional, know what that means!!! That I find very irking.. if a Professional is seeking a personal relationship or friendship of any kind here, fine, more power to her. But, to come on here and advertise your strictly professional services I find wrong. There are sites just for that, use them. But, that is my personal opinion and pet peeve, ymmv.
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