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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 5:22:45 PM

OmegaG

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when the subs out number the Dommes, why would they bother looking at a profile without a picture?

But with the profile you present and the off-putting username, why would they stick around even if they did look?

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 5:22:54 PM

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There's a password ... a secret Domme room ..i withdraw any thing nice i might have said about the Dommes on this site BITCH"S

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 5:27:14 PM

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there is even a secret hand shake.

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 5:30:51 PM

slvemike4u

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quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

there is even a secret hand shake.

That is the last straw I'm out of here

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 5:33:01 PM

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I'm sure the dommes will weep.

Wonder if I can sneak into the secret domme room. I hear they have the best wine.

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 5:33:58 PM

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First of all, as others have said, there is NOTHING in your profile apart from one very long punctuation-free sentence. You say nothing at all about yourself apart from your desire to serve a real Domme which you repeat over and over.

Do you really mean that you have been looking for a Domme for 25 years, as this thread seems to suggest, without coming across even one non-pro Domme? I find that very hard to believe, every site i've been on there were plenty. Granted, not all were looking but they certainly exist.

No responsible Domme, pro or not will have a relationship without asking what the submissive wants/enjoys, if for no other reason than to avoid hooking up with someone they aren't compatible with.

Personally i'm having a hard time believing that you've been looking all that hard. Given the lack of effort you have put into your profile you don't seem like a terribly motivated person.

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 5:35:30 PM

SteelofUtah

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Perhaps you just aren't that interesting did that ever occur to you?

And when you add on the entitlement issue in your first post In addition to the already mentioned boring Profile.

Maybe they just aren't that into you.

Steel

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 5:51:33 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: wantrealnotpro

interesting why when i chose new name of "wantrealnotpro" that no one has viewed my profile or contacted me.I've been searching for real natural Dominant Woman since i was 18 ie 25 years now and its very rare i find anything other than pros.There is a difference between real and those who just do it or are certainly mainly interested in money.Realised for ages this site as most bdsm sites are nearly 100% full of pros after money its very rare that you find someone real.I gave up while ago after serving over 100 pros cos they just didnt get it i always asked them to just do as they wish yet they almost always asked me b4 what did i want and afterwards was i happy, they had confused looks on their faces when i saaid just do as they wished.They werent aware of the concept that it was about their needs and not mine and it only mattered if they were happy after wed finished.But they werent natural dommes and didnt get it so they were just after money as most on here are wonder how many of them are natural dommes.So after countless thousands probably millions of hours searching for umpteen years 25 in fact i chose "wantrealnotpro" as test of site+ it just goes to show what i thought was true all along is spot on when had name "wantrealnotpro" no one has viewed account or contacted me lol.Why does domination have to involve money? Hope i don't depress any subs who are trying to find a real domme.Take care all best but if i was you dont waste as long as ihave searching especially on net give up now youre e unlikely to find anyone gen a natural domme which you need so much like me cos cos theyre only after £

And what I find interesting is the fact that you're so focused on finding a Domme in a virtual setting that apparently you're forgetting about searching in the real world. Erm...frankly many of us on this site realized that the harder one searches the less one finds what you're looking for. Maybe if you took extra care to outline your qualities and what you have to offer along with telling everyone about you outside the kink, in your profile. One's profoile is like a resume, you need to make it as good as you can to sell yourself in the best possible light.
Chere an't see how your little rant would scare me away from this site. Frankly I'm not here solely to find a third, I do have a Sir and if we find a third great, if not then oh well no big loss.

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 5:53:33 PM

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They werent aware of the concept that it was about their needs and not mine and it only mattered if they were happy after wed finished.

        Seems to me you have a pretty clear idea of what you want and turn into a little bitch when you don't get it. "It only matter if they were happy after wed finished"?? I doubt my master would be happy after a scene if I had completely hated it. That's not the way BDSM works all the time. That's the way YOU want it to work. The Dommes you were with were probably suprised that when they weren't dominating you to your satisfaction, you started shouting commands and ideas about "true" bdsm. What if real dominas are getting turned off by you because they only have a good time if the sub is really enjoying himself?

   Also-cut the bitterness. Wah, wah, you've been on the site for 6 days and no one has oogled your profile. Finding a real domina is hard work. The bitchy attitude is a pretty huge turn-off for me, I don't think I'd even want to be in the same room as you, nevermind play with you.

   You need to seriously reevaluate some things, guy.

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 5:59:21 PM

DrkJourney

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you say that you made this profile as a test. How true of a test can it be? You think it's because you put "real" in your nik....I don't think so. Try the same nik, with a decent profile and a pic...."then" it will be a true test of your new nik.

I've had loads of trouble with people that have contacted me on here, but I wouldn't go so far as to label "all" just for the way a few have acted. And that's what it all boils down to, if you can find how many are on this site, as opposed to how many that you have dealt with....I think you'd see that the general label of "all" and "100%" is not very accurate.

And remember is you like someone, but they don't feel the same, doesn't make them a fake...just means they are being honest and that is something that you should treasure. Why not consider that person a friend, and keep the conversation going, who knows, she may give you insite on how to proceed, or maybe after she get's to know you she can recommend or help you in your search.

ya just gotta know how to use the tools that you have...venom will not solve your problems

It can be rough out there...I do wish you good luck on your search.

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 6:10:46 PM

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~Fast Reply~

*jumps up and down and waves* See, not closed. Just moved!

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 6:25:20 PM

faerytattoodgirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

I'm sure the dommes will weep.

Wonder if I can sneak into the secret domme room. I hear they have the best wine.

yes we do...

wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

wahhh
wahhhhhhhhhhhhhh
wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

oh wait..you meant the drinking stuff....my bad....

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 6:32:11 PM

slvemike4u

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

I'm sure the dommes will weep.

Wonder if I can sneak into the secret domme room. I hear they have the best wine.

They have wine

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 6:33:06 PM

DrkJourney

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quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

I'm sure the dommes will weep.

Wonder if I can sneak into the secret domme room. I hear they have the best wine.

yes we do...

wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

wahhh
wahhhhhhhhhhhhhh
wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

oh wait..you meant the drinking stuff....my bad....

I can always count on you to make me laugh after a bad day..lol

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 6:33:46 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

there is even a secret hand shake.

That is the last straw I'm out of here

**snort**

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 6:35:34 PM

faerytattoodgirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

I'm sure the dommes will weep.

Wonder if I can sneak into the secret domme room. I hear they have the best wine.

They have wine

i thought you left????

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 6:36:52 PM

faerytattoodgirl

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quote:

**snort**

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

there is even a secret hand shake.

That is the last straw I'm out of here

**snort**

nono..thats no hand shake...

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 6:38:08 PM

petitespitfire64

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Handshake? this thing's so tight i can barely get my fist in..let alone shake it

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 6:43:11 PM

Arrrchibald

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25 years eh?

"Winners never quit, and quitters never win. But those who never quit *and* never win are idiots."
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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 6:44:22 PM

slvemike4u

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Who can leave with all this snappy banter going on

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