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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 6:46:58 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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ORIGINAL: petitespitfire64

Handshake? this thing's so tight i can barely get my fist in..let alone shake it



im so sorry...but not having a Mistress (since 2002) has meant that ive had no need for butt plug training to widen my ass....im ashamed...


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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 6:52:19 PM   
ThinkingKitten


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What we have here, is failure to communicate.

The OP's bad presentation has I fear, resulted in a lot of responders not reading the fine print (can't say as I blame them), in which he states that he has another long-standing and more detailed profile (with pics) in existence, and the one you see here, is just a "dummy" profile. Alas too many seem to be going strictly by the dummy profile.

On the other hand, maybe the OP should read Stephan's thread in the General Forum, for "Men, on how to find a woman". And yes, real-life would be better than online. And a negative, I'm-a-victim, attitude ain't going to do to much either.

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 7:13:38 PM   
Najakcharmer


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ORIGINAL: OmegaG

when the subs out number the Dommes, why would they bother looking at  a profile without a picture?


Depends on what they're looking for.  I'm trolling for fellow intellectuals, geeks and gamers, so a username that shouts "geek" or "gamer" or that is a clever literary or scholarly reference is going to get my interest and attention faster than any picture.  Unless it's a picture that involves SCA/Ren Faire costumes. 


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But with the profile you present and the off-putting username, why would they stick around even if they did look?


Yeah, anything I get in my inbox from someone with a vulgar or sexually explicit name is deleted unread since I already know what it will say and am not interested.  If the nick isn't vulgar but is otherwise negative and off-putting rather than being a positive picture of a person I might like to get to know, same story.  Life is too short to spend with whiners, demanders and other "black holes" who take your energy and give nothing of interest in return.  And I'm not talking about money either. 

If you have nothing to offer a dominant that she is genuinely interested in, then paying a pro is a pretty fair transaction, and a lot politer than demanding that dominant women cater to your needs without getting anything that makes them happy in return.  If you're not the kind of fun, happy, intelligent, engaging and positive person whose presence gives energy to others rather than just draining it, then money may well be the only commodity you can offer, and pro dommes would be the only ones who would be interested. 

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 7:35:18 PM   
Najakcharmer


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ORIGINAL: wantrealnotpro
i chose "wantrealnotpro" as test of site+ it just goes to show what i thought was true all along is spot on when had name "wantrealnotpro" no one has viewed account or contacted me lol.Why does domination have to involve money?


Like all relationships, domination involves two people getting to know each other because they find the other person attractive, interesting and fun to be with.

There is NOTHING attractive, interesting or fun about your profile.  You're a random, faceless, horny stranger who wants a domme. That is literally all there is to what you are presenting.  Sorry, but nobody cares what some faceless stranger wants.  People only care what you want after you take the time to present yourself as someone interesting and real, someone who might be genuinely fun and worthwhile to get to know.

In a sense, you're the one who is not a real person.  Any domme looking at your profile sees only a faceless, anonymous "I want, gimme gimme" with no hint of a real human being showing.  Not interesting, not fun, and not real or human either.  Come out and introduce yourself as a real person and you'll have a much better chance of meeting real people.  Introduce yourself as nothing but an "I wanna", and you won't get anything. 

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 7:36:25 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		How do you become one of these "money dommes"?  because I want to be one!  I was a pro dominant for years, and it was WORK.  Well who wants to do that, when there is money to be made just by asking for it?  Right? 

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 8:05:09 PM   
domahpet


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ORIGINAL: ThinkingKitten

FR:
What we have here, is failure to communicate.

The OP's bad presentation has I fear, resulted in a lot of responders not reading the fine print (can't say as I blame them), in which he states that he has another long-standing and more detailed profile (with pics) in existence, and the one you see here, is just a "dummy" profile. Alas too many seem to be going strictly by the dummy profile.



if this is true kitten, this poster might be someone we regularly share the threads with?
i wonder why he'd hide behind a dummy profile?

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/24/2008 8:19:11 PM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		Could someone please educate the op on how to use paragraphs properly? It's unreadable.

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RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when ... - 3/29/2008 7:16:27 PM   
angelbluewingsz


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Status: offline 		Contact some of my old employers the den of iniquity is a good place to get punished but if you would preferr a more private atmosphere desert divas aims to please- just tell the lovely lady booking your call what you may be looking for.... otherwise there are freelance dommes  (like myself) who would gladly piss on you... for a price. of course these are both in my home town phoenix, AZ. Although, I am confident there are services near you as well...

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