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Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 8:07:36 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Yep, this past weekend I told My sub to give Me a dollar.  The reason?  This makes Me, officially, a pro domme.  Now I can give Myself the supposed authority, recognition, and  stature that all pro's require, just because I made a buck.  I can now promote Myself as a therapist, counselor, or any other title I would like, just because I made him open his wallet.

Ok.  I can't even go on with the ridiculousness of the OP.  In fact, I gave the dollar back.  The point of the matter is, nobody gets more legitimacy just because they are getting paid for wiitwd.  There's a post going around the general discussion board just now that someone feels, because they made some money off of this, they are more entitled to direct others on how they should think and what they should do, just because they turned a buck at it.

Sorry.  I just had to get that out.


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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 8:10:10 PM   
CoasttoCoast


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Status: offline 		While pay for play isn't really my thing, Bitchy jones has a really hot take on it.

Basically, her idea is that the bottom gives the dom money up front. More than he can afford to pay. Money he desperately needs back. Every act has a price tag, and he earns it back by doing/allowing things to be done to him.

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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 8:12:36 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Who is Bitchy Jones?

Lady Pact you are making me laugh too loudly! 

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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 8:15:45 PM   
MistresssAria


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Status: offline 		Ahahahaaaaa, I'm Pro, but have always considered the people with the most learning experience and skills to be far above me - people to look up to, Pro or not.

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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 8:25:10 PM   
LaMistressa


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Yep, this past weekend I told My sub to give Me a dollar.  The reason?  This makes



You have *got* to work on the pricing strategy for your business model, hon!

ETA (and I have got to work on my quoting skills!)


< Message edited by LaMistressa -- 3/25/2008 8:26:28 PM >

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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 8:27:39 PM   
CoasttoCoast


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Status: offline 		bitchy jones is a female top who blogs about her sexlife, and her frustrations with femdom culture. She's very funny, intelligent and her writing is hott with two t's.


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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 8:39:00 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I'm afraid I laughed out loud, too.  Just from the silliness of it.

To steal a line..... Here's the thing.

Yes, I could have turned a buck or two (or more) from wiitwd.  I'd like to see us take a step back from these discussions that are so focused, supposedly, on the almighty dollar.  That neither validates, nor sheds more light on My opinion than anything else.  Calling Myself *just* a lifestyle Mistress or a pro doesn't matter one bit in the grand scheme of things.  There are pros out there that I respect, who have proven themselves, and there are those that I laugh at for their own inept skills that matter not one lick to Me.  Some are quite personable, and others have Domme's disease, with their head so far up their ass that they can't hear another's opinion.

I was just wondering if others saw it this way?


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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 8:40:03 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		dammit i almost started to address an envelope with your dollar ...

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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 8:44:34 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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Status: offline 		im calling the irs if you dont report that $1


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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 8:46:28 PM   
MissHarlet


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Status: offline 		Im not going pro til I can get a million Dollars a session lol .... I have no problem with Pro Dominants .. if it is their thing .. more power to them .... but it makes them no more or less than anyone else ....

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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 8:51:37 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		As long as you realize that dollar also comes with overnight accommodations and play space, W/we're all set.  Send it to "Lady Pact, in care of She still does wiitwd for fun lane, any city."

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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 9:00:00 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		I told Fox that he could help me with the groceries last time we went shopping. His response was "Does this make me your money piggy now?"
So, does that mean if I let him buy dinner and some of the groceries... I am a pro too? Just, sort of barter instead of actual fees?

Hmm
Can I be proclaimed Expert at something now?

DV


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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 9:15:51 PM   
achildatheart


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire
Can I be proclaimed Expert at something now?


Of course you can!


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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 9:23:29 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		It might strike some as strange, but clip has to ask for permission, even to buy Me pizza for dinner.




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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 9:35:42 PM   
darchChylde


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Status: offline 		Ma'am has, on occasion, given me money to buy smokes.  Even though this new-found expertise may come in handy, i don't know if i should tell Her that She inadvertantly patronized a pro-submissive.  Advice?

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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 9:45:20 PM   
undergroundsea


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
It might strike some as strange, but clip has to ask for permission, even to buy Me pizza for dinner.


Clip: May I buy you pizza for dinner?
LP: Pizza?
Clip: Yes! I would love to buy you pizza for dinner! May I?
LP: Hmmmm
Clip: Please? Pretty please? With sugar and a cherry on top?
LP: That'd be an odd pizza. Let's leave the sugar and cherry for the sundae after the pizza <chuckle>
LP: So what toppings will it have?
Clip: All your favorite toppings
LP: You know what they are?
Clip: Yes, I have them committed to memory
LP: A little extra cheese sounds good tonight
Clip: Done!
LP: And.............
Clip: And?
LP: No!
Clip: No?
LP: No you may not buy me pizza! <chuckle>
LP: Now give me another dollar!

Disclaimer: The characters in the act above are entirely fictional and any semblance to actual persons is purely coincidental.

;-)

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 9:47:13 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Hello, sea, and thank you for making Me laugh.
Edited to add, I can't entirely say I subscribe to the fictional part.


< Message edited by LadyPact -- 3/25/2008 9:49:14 PM >

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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

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Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/25/2008 11:10:02 PM   
Macslittleimp


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quote:

ORIGINAL: darchChylde

Ma'am has, on occasion, given me money to buy smokes.  Even though this new-found expertise may come in handy, i don't know if i should tell Her that She inadvertantly patronized a pro-submissive.  Advice?


Perhaps you should just be happy that my love for you and wanting you to have things that in some cases you need outweighs my sadistic streak in watching you shake from not having it?  LOL  just a thought my pet....

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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/26/2008 2:58:09 AM   
darchChylde


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Macslittleimp

quote:

ORIGINAL: darchChylde

Ma'am has, on occasion, given me money to buy smokes.  Even though this new-found expertise may come in handy, i don't know if i should tell Her that She inadvertantly patronized a pro-submissive.  Advice?


Perhaps you should just be happy that my love for you and wanting you to have things that in some cases you need outweighs my sadistic streak in watching you shake from not having it?  LOL  just a thought my pet....


i'm sorry, Ma'am; could You please repeat that?  i go to a happy place whenever i realize i manage to have the love of someone like You, i sort of missed everything You said afterwards.


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I'm a male dominant switch whose experienced as a poly sub to a dominant woman
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RE: Give Me a dollar - 3/26/2008 4:42:22 AM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		Oooohhh.... rob gave me $20 the other day (because I was broke), does that mean that I'm more of an expert than Pact since I got more????

 Nope, can't even keep a straight face for that one sentence hehehehehe

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