RE: BDSM w/o sex. Would you?

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Lynnxz -> RE: BDSM w/o sex. Would you? (3/26/2008 9:34:10 PM)
I've been in a couple nonsexual BDSM relationships. I've noticed, at least for me, that once you take sex out of the equation, the scenes are sooo much more intense. I freaking adored it.. didn't feel "unfullfilled" at all, nor did he.

joy2u -> RE: BDSM w/o sex. Would you? (3/26/2008 10:03:34 PM)
Many months go by at a time, where i am denied sexual activity, except that, for me, being in this relationship and doing what i'm told and being subjected to my Master's sadistic treatment of me at His will, provides me with a great deal of sexual stimulation and excitement, in and of itself, without any sexual activity needed. And, when i beg real nice, my Master allows me to orgasm on His command. Orgasm denial is something i have learned to love. The relationship that i have with my Master isn't based on sex and the bond of commitment that i have with Him is much stronger than sex. i can live without sex. i love sex, but it's not the highest priority in my life. So, yes, of course, i would remain in my current relationship, even if i could no longer have any physical sex. There would be too much that i would lose, if i were to leave this relationship. Giving up sex would be much easier for me to live with. joy Owned servant of Master David quote: ORIGINAL: camille65 If you could not have physical sex would you remain in the same lifestyle (for lack of a better word) that you are in now?

MasterWilliam55 -> RE: BDSM w/o sex. Would you? (3/26/2008 10:31:51 PM)
It's more than scratching an itch, but i know you were being facetious. Hopefully, we would always want those we love to achieve fullfilment.

MasterWilliam55 -> RE: BDSM w/o sex. Would you? (3/26/2008 10:41:13 PM)
I have met many that are worth the risk...and with the proper care I take, they seem to find I'm worth the risk. Then again, I am tested regularly, am not indiscriminate, and normally I don't have sex outside of a proven BDSM relationship.

MontrealPhoenix -> RE: BDSM w/o sex. Would you? (3/27/2008 4:01:34 AM)
Of course i would, camille. Sex is hardly a prerequisite for me. The times that sex was involved in play, it was more about his taking what he wanted than having sex, in otherwords just another act of dominance. Phoenix

Harmwolf -> RE: BDSM w/o sex. Would you? (3/27/2008 4:21:24 AM)
The Idea of BDSM and no sex, the two are easily combined but seperating the two does make both acts so more intense for both in a good way ;), its like foreplay takes forever, depending which you have first possibly, even having sex first and explaining to your sub how you are going to tie her or him what you will be doing to them, hmm better go untie the pet hehe.

DesFIP -> RE: BDSM w/o sex. Would you? (3/27/2008 7:39:51 AM)
If there was a physical reason, that's one thing. But otherwise, no. I'm a sexual person, bondage is sexual to me, why would I do something that made me aroused and left me permanently unsatisfied? I can see not having sex in public. Play publicly on all the cool equipment and then go home and have wild sex. But no sexual satisfaction at all? Not without a damn good reason.

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