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Stephann -> RE: Slave Training Plan (3/27/2008 7:23:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: roughleather

Well, first get the spam links out of your postings.

Is this for real, or one of those lame fantasies like "slave contracts".

Training a sub can be fun. Here are a few things I've done.
  • Work on her posture. Make her walk around with a book balanced on her head. That's a good exercise to give her the look of a proud, trained sub.
  • Take her for a hike on a hot day. Make her wear something a bit too skimpy, like very short cutoffs and a ratty tank top. Make it a tough enough hike that she has to work at it, so she stops being self-concious about showing too much.  Pour a water bottle over her as a reward.
  • Sit her down nude, and look into her eyes. Look over her body  She has to look straight back and not lower her eyes. A slave is not allowed shame. If she breaks eye contact before you do, a few whacks with a crop will teach her to do it right. Thereafter, she's expected to meet the eyes of anyone who looks her over in public. They'll flinch from the eye contact, and she'll feel her sexual power. This arouses most women.
  • Train her to respond to hand signals. Hold out your hand, palm down. The top of her head must not rise above your hand. Without touching her, force her to her knees. Then down to the floor. Let her up to her knees, then force her down to the floor. Then force her to push her face into the floor. Let her rise to a stand and release her. Then ask her how it felt, and talk over her feelings. Teach her a few more hand signals which she must instantly obey. Don't use them too often, but often enough to remind her.
So those are a few slave training tricks. This is a head game. You're forcing her outside her normal behavior patterns to make her a proud, shameless, obedient slut.



I let this stew in my head a bit before responding.  I'll agree with other posters, though, I'm not sure exactly how most of your suggestions fit into the growth, development, and well being of another human being come in.

The posture comment is really very good.  I regularly remind her to hold her head up when she walks and kneels, as she'll slouch if I let her.  The rest sound more on par with fantasy/sexual expectations.  My slut's already shameless; she's danced in strip clubs, is usually stripped within an hour of arriving at the Lair, and I enjoy sharing her on occasion with men.  This doesn't mean she should be making eyes at every man who passes by; as mentioned, most men will simply approach her and try and get her number (like it doesn't happen often enough already.)

Tweaking a girls sexuality is just a tiny part of the responsibility incurred by caring for a slave.  If you'd actually read the thread, you'd realize I don't use a slave contract.

Stephan




OmegaG -> RE: Slave Training Plan (3/27/2008 7:25:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TreasureKY

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

And what if she had absolutely ZERO interest in ANY kind of spirituality , and was completely atheist?


Everyone has beliefs... even atheism is a belief.  [;)]



heh, I'm apatheist




CreativeDominant -> RE: Slave Training Plan (3/27/2008 7:37:33 AM)

I like the idea of A Plan.  I have one with bullets similar to yours.  As others...as well as you...have noted though, and some have missed, the description of each bullet and the training needed to make each bullet an achieved goal varies according to the people involved in the dynamic.  Do I have things in MY mind that fit under each point of the plan?  Sure I do but I realize that each person I deal with is an individual and that there are compromises...negotiation...that takes place before the plan can be set into motion.  If their ideas are too far from mine and I see that during discussion with them, then I know that most likely we won't be a good match.




sirsholly -> RE: Slave Training Plan (3/27/2008 7:49:30 AM)

i just skimmed this thread so ignore this if it has already been brought up. Letting go of responsibility was an issue for us at one point. i broke my foot (walked into a wall...feel free to laugh) and was not able to do a great deal of the things i normally did. This left it up to my Dom to pick up the slack...after the poor man worked all day, stopped at the grocery store, etc. I found myself pushing, doing a few stupid things (taking our steep basement steps on crutches to toss in a load of laundry..etc) because i felt so guilty.




OmegaG -> RE: Slave Training Plan (3/27/2008 7:54:30 AM)

ooo, that is such a good topic for discussion.  What are the expectations when one or the other is under the weather.  I know I tend to push my health issues to the back burner to do way more then I probably should, not just in a relationship but in day to day life.




CreativeDominant -> RE: Slave Training Plan (3/27/2008 11:58:28 AM)

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ORIGINAL: OmegaG

ooo, that is such a good topic for discussion.  What are the expectations when one or the other is under the weather.  I know I tend to push my health issues to the back burner to do way more then I probably should, not just in a relationship but in day to day life.


Tsk, tsk, tsk...speaking as a healthcare provider and a dominant, let me just tell you what I tell my patients:  baaaaaaaaaaaaad patient.[:@]




sirsholly -> RE: Slave Training Plan (3/27/2008 12:01:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

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ORIGINAL: OmegaG

ooo, that is such a good topic for discussion.  What are the expectations when one or the other is under the weather.  I know I tend to push my health issues to the back burner to do way more then I probably should, not just in a relationship but in day to day life.


Tsk, tsk, tsk...speaking as a healthcare provider and a dominant, let me just tell you what I tell my patients:  baaaaaaaaaaaaad patient.[:@]

Agree..baaaaaaad patient, Omega!

holly the instigator




OmegaG -> RE: Slave Training Plan (3/27/2008 12:10:40 PM)

yes, I could tell you stories that would make your head spin, but I am still here to tell the tale.

(like the time I signed myself out AMA to give my mother her car back so she could drive me in for an apendectomy(sp)




OmegaG -> RE: Slave Training Plan (3/27/2008 12:12:17 PM)

but seriously, unless he makes it a rule that I have to tell him about illness or abnormal aches, I probably wouldn't until it hit a point where I couldn't function anymore, that's just how I am.




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